How you control your Aries jealousy

It doesnt happen very often but sometimes I get irrationally jealous. I mean about stupid things. How do you control it

tell me more about your jealousy D....I have honestly never felt jealous.
What's it like?

If someone has a cool car I am like "Hey what a cool car."
Or if you're getting married "Fantastic!" hugs, "yeah hopefully me too one day"

I am curious about it (jealousy) but because I don't understand it I leave it in the too hard basket.

What makes you jealous? What or who are you jealous of?

I rarely ever get jealous but I believe my airy moon accounts for that. I think if you appreciate what you have rather than focusing too much on what others have you can quell a lot of those feelings of jealousy. Most of the time jealousy arises from insecurities about oneself... Work on that first. Also, realize everyone gets jealous and to a certain degree it's okay to have those feelings. But if you have feelings of jealousy over minor things then you should reevaluate this feelings and try to find where they stem from.

mysticram, i'm gona hack your fb account, crrep your sexy pics. then i'm gona post a status about what u just said so all the men on your friends list can see.

The only time I get jealous is in a relationship. I deal with it by holding back the urge to cut them. jk lol 😉

oh yes, i would like to do things to you. bahaha

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Posted by BloodofAries
mysticram, i'm gona hack your fb account, crrep your sexy pics. then i'm gona post a status about what u just said so all the men on your friends list can see.

^^^^ I just realized...did you just call me sexy?!

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hahaha, yes.

dward, i never get jealous of people and their "things"...i've had it all and lost it all more times than once so i know "things" dont make a person happy.
but now if we r talking about me being jealous, like, per se, imagining my man with another woman when he works out of town or seeing him flirt innocently with someone....usually my girlfriends and i get together and cast a spell....lol...

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Posted by dward417
It doesnt happen very often but sometimes I get irrationally jealous. I mean about stupid things. How do you control it

I sometimes get jealous about stuff that's beyond my control.
But if something is within my control (meaning I can do something about it), then I'm not jealous.
Dunno if this makes sense but yeah lol
Either way, I usually blame myself for any jealousy that I'm feeling. I just think it's always my fault.

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It is always your fault ... and I agree that that is a mature attitude for such a young Ram.

In the Rams I know, all ages, it seems to stem around control issues.

In fact, all of their negative energies seem to be because of control issues ...

i'll agree with p-angel whole heartedly on this one. i definitely have huge control issues. too bad i can't "control" jealousy. lol

lol at the wtf stares .... as I observe, I think it's more to do with something else .. I'll try to elaborate .. keep in mind, this comes from an observer and not a Ram.

Life is like living on the freeway with everyone going a hundred miles an hour ... and so are your thoughts and decisions. So, then another has an answer or a solution or a want ... and you haven't put on the breaks yet to see if this is good or bad .. so, you have no choice expect to put up whatever it takes to stop it in it tracks, to include an arguement, if necessary ... then once you've been able to process this information, you will give the go-ahead to proceed, or take a different road, respectively.

from others, it looks like trying to control them ... when I think it's really that you're moving to fucking fast and have to slow down to catch up.

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lol at the wtf stares .... as I observe, I think it's more to do with something else .. I'll try to elaborate .. keep in mind, this comes from an observer and not a Ram.

Life is like living on the freeway with everyone going a hundred miles an hour ... and so are your thoughts and decisions. So, then another has an answer or a solution or a want ... and you haven't put on the breaks yet to see if this is good or bad .. so, you have no choice expect to put up whatever it takes to stop it in it tracks, to include an arguement, if necessary ... then once you've been able to process this information, you will give the go-ahead to proceed, or take a different road, respectively.

from others, it looks like trying to control them ... when I think it's really that you're moving to fucking fast and have to slow down to catch up.

yes i agree