how to REattract an Aries ?

how about this ? can they be REattracted ? or are they gone ..so gone, when they're gone once?

In my personal experience - if I have been in an intimate relationship and ended it, it was for a very good reason and no, I will not go back. With that said, in some cases I have indeed gone back to the relationship however, it was ONLY as friends.

Perhaps we made better friends than lovers 😉

Being a typical Aries female, once I have made up my mind to end a relationship I don't ever go back! Having said that if I was to consider getting back, it would probably take a-lot for me to be re-attracted!

There would defiantly have to be something new, and I mean new in a major way, being an Aries I love a sense of adventure and reaching new ground. But like I said it would defiantly have to be major; for the simple reason being that, before I even end a relationship I try to contemplate in all areas of my mind what I could potentially be missing out on; but then when things continue to become repetitive, I sort of think, nah this guy ain't gonna change, I am better off else where. Though I find that before I make this decision, it depends on how long I have been with the guy.
The longer the relationship the longer I debate over it?the shorter the relationship the quicker it is to make up my mind.

If you want more advice, just give a more detailed post, hope this help anyway!

BAB...I so understand what you are saying - I too MUST connect mentally first and become friends. I have found with me that once we become intimate and take the relationship further.....other things "show up" or don't show up where I know my needs are not going to be fulfilled and that I may not be able to fulfill his needs as well. I'd rather part on good terms if possible.

I can be friends afterwards because their friendship is important to me and they have touched my heart in their own unique way that I so appreciate. Just because they or I were unable to fulfill a need does not keep me from being their friend. Hey, life happens and the way I see it...we are all exploring on this journey trying to figure out who the heck we are and we do this through our relationships. I don't take anything personally.

Life is too short...

"I AM AFTER ALL AN AIRES BABY GIRL !!!" LOL too cute 😉

"I can be friends afterwards because their friendship is important to me and they have touched my heart in their own unique way that I so appreciate. Just because they or I were unable to fulfill a need does not keep me from being their friend. Hey, life happens"

now that's something i want to believe works! =)
i just miss being friends with him ! hope the only reason my aries disappeared really is his work ...and that he reappears sometime soon

no doubt he will be back after thinking things through and trying to make things better ,that applies to you too ,if any fault is your side ,dont think they come back at all if your not worth it.

This is double-sided upss

Once it's over, the Ram's fire turns to ice .. once an ice-wall has been erected ... he'll never come back.

The other side to this is ... Aries still wants to be adored and admired by you, so will likely flirt to keep your attention .. however, if you respond accordingly to his flirtations, you'll get the ice.

Once a relationship has ended ... they still just want your admiration of them, without any compatible relations actually taking place.

"but isabelscorpia and others have posted about "badly aspected aries", the issues they have, etc."

What is very fascinating to me is how most of us look at another person and say they have issues when in reality, these people have shown up in our lives to show us what our issues are. For this, we need to be truly thankful because in this situation, we have an opportunity to learn and grow with the other person but mostly for ourself.

*latinaindia - hope you don't mind that I used a sentence from your post..it was handy and helpful.
T-Y.

Also agree with fss - us Ariens truly do feel from our heart and when someone has deeply touched us we can and will remain friends with them overlooking the past. Personally, I am not into being adored - YIKES! why for?

upss

im sorry to say but if he disapeared and he says its because of work i got bad news for you.
he dont care
if he did he would be in contact with you
unless you hurt him and now he is shy but other than that i wouldnt let my work interfere with me being in contact with someone, yes it might make it difficult to actually find time to hang out but not for email,phonecall, txt msg, and any other form of communication

so, im sad to say, he is probably gone with the wind

lol ..i just got it..all he answers is that he's not there hahaha...lol

yeah..but still..why answer at all..if i didn't wanna see him..i'd either tell him not to message me anymore..or i'd just ignore it