LibraJackson
@LibraJackson
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I want to just say fuck off this Aries now at this point
You have made SO many posts about this guy.
Most have advised you to tell him how you feel. If you have not done this, then stop posting for advice.
Understand that he was going to see his boss, whom he has worked with for x amount of years. It could be the last chance to socialize with them. Where you he may still see again. So the fact that you say you have been understanding when you cant understand this, is very contradictory.
Consider that you might be getting nothing back because at the end of the day, he is moving away and does not want to give you any more hope if there is none to begin with.
Again, unless you have told him EXACTLY how you feel, posting here endlessly is not going to change your results.
Most have advised you to tell him how you feel. If you have not done this, then stop posting for advice.
Understand that he was going to see his boss, whom he has worked with for x amount of years. It could be the last chance to socialize with them. Where you he may still see again. So the fact that you say you have been understanding when you cant understand this, is very contradictory.
Consider that you might be getting nothing back because at the end of the day, he is moving away and does not want to give you any more hope if there is none to begin with.
Again, unless you have told him EXACTLY how you feel, posting here endlessly is not going to change your results.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI told him exactly how 3 days ago. He took it to heart and started saying that I've been nothing but good to him and that he'll make more of an effort because I am as important to him as anyone else.
You have made SO many posts about this guy.
Most have advised you to tell him how you feel. If you have not done this, then stop posting for advice.
Understand that he was going to see his boss, whom he has worked with for x amount of years. It could be the last chance to socialize with them. Where you he may still see again. So the fact that you say you have been understanding when you cant understand this, is very contradictory.
Consider that you might be getting nothing back because at the end of the day, he is moving away and does not want to give you any more hope if there is none to begin with.
Again, unless you have told him EXACTLY how you feel, posting here endlessly is not going to change your results.
It is very annoying, I am very annoying. I can't figure him out. I can understand this issue if he had told me that he's seeing his boss for few drinks but letting me know a day before our day is so upsetting to me. Especially we asked me to plan this date for us. Never once he asked if I had booked dinner for us. I did and I had to cancel it.
This is why all of your opinions matter to me because you know I've been whining about this and overthinking it. At this point I feel like it's right to say I have to let him go and no bother him.
The thing is I said this already and he doesn't want me to do that but what should I do ?
Ok but then you need to look at exactly what he said. Because they mean what they say. He unfortunately didn't say that he "loves" you back or that he would not move anymore, nor did he say he wanted to be in a "long distance" relationship.
"He took it to heart and started saying that I've been nothing but good to him and that he'll make more of an effort because I am as important to him as anyone else ."
As hard as it is, you need to be his friend and remember that if two people are meant to be together, they will be BUT only when the time is right for the both of you. While you feel it's right for you now, its not the right time for him.
Don't cut him out of your life because you not getting what you want right now, try not overthink it to much and also remember that he also has feelings, some of which you may not understand right now unless he tells you. Moving away to somewhere new is not as easy as you think and giving him ultimatums is not the correct course of action.
Things happen in life that we can't change, dinner plans is not one of those things :-)
"He took it to heart and started saying that I've been nothing but good to him and that he'll make more of an effort because I am as important to him as anyone else ."
As hard as it is, you need to be his friend and remember that if two people are meant to be together, they will be BUT only when the time is right for the both of you. While you feel it's right for you now, its not the right time for him.
Don't cut him out of your life because you not getting what you want right now, try not overthink it to much and also remember that he also has feelings, some of which you may not understand right now unless he tells you. Moving away to somewhere new is not as easy as you think and giving him ultimatums is not the correct course of action.
Things happen in life that we can't change, dinner plans is not one of those things :-)
I am clearly an idiot
He's not that into you.
Don't make any rush decisions.
He didn't cancel... he is just meeting his boss before you go out together? That is nothing to break up!
Just relax... I know is not easy...
I think you are just scared that he is leaving in two weeks and he doesn't want to spend every moment with you. No fun... but if you push him you may loose him. So just relax and enjoy every moment you have with him.
He didn't cancel... he is just meeting his boss before you go out together? That is nothing to break up!
Just relax... I know is not easy...
I think you are just scared that he is leaving in two weeks and he doesn't want to spend every moment with you. No fun... but if you push him you may loose him. So just relax and enjoy every moment you have with him.
Posted by pisceswoman123Thank you.I wrote that angry now I can see that I'm an idiot so I'll learn from it. Thanks everyone
Don't make any rush decisions.
He didn't cancel... he is just meeting his boss before you go out together? That is nothing to break up!
Just relax... I know is not easy...
I think you are just scared that he is leaving in two weeks and he doesn't want to spend every moment with you. No fun... but if you push him you may loose him. So just relax and enjoy every moment you have with him.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesThis here.
Understand that he was going to see his boss, whom he has worked with for x amount of years. It could be the last chance to socialize with them. Where you he may still see again. So the fact that you say you have been understanding when you cant understand this, is very contradictory.
He is trying to please the both of you.
But all you are seeing is "he doesn't love me or care about me because is not 100% with me at that day"...but he does...if he didn't he wold never say that he will get out early to meet with you.
Keep your cool...chill 🙂
Posted by aquarius_manVery possible away for a year best just to be friends
is anyone going to tell @LibraJackson that once in NY the Aries man will start fucking about?
Just go out another day before he leaves.
Is this really a serious relationship or two people who have just been "seeing" each other. Libras always expect the most from Aries without Aries agreeing.
Is this really a serious relationship or two people who have just been "seeing" each other. Libras always expect the most from Aries without Aries agreeing.
Okay I over reacted majorly. I'm a big idiot. I'm glad most of you pointed this out.
This is the same boss who gave him really good references for NY. So now I had time to think about it, I'm really glad I didn't over react to him.
I guess I was so over heated when I wrote the post because I know time is running out. He's doing his best to please everyone like some of you said.
I'm not a hot and heated type more so over thinking type and I'm glad I posted this because I would regret making things bad.
Yes I'm fully aware he's going to be having a life in NY. I want him to fuck around do whatever ! not because I don't care. but If I was 23 living in NY I would the same. Saying that I don't need to know. I won't be here waiting in my room crying either. Sure I'll be so sad but we are not in a relationship. I still have yet to say I love you because some of you gave me really good advice in my previous posts.
When the time is right, he'll say it and he may not but I'm going to continue being me and care about him.
We both know if he's not going, we would be together. I just hope that in time when we can, we would have the chance to explore that. If not, this year has been the best one yet for me because of him.
I don't know how to say this properly. I love him and I want him to explore and make friends and do whatever he wants in his adventures. I'll be there for him throughout of it all, I don't expect everyday messages but more so once in awhile he'll keep me posted. which he already suggested before I brought it up. He already made a list of what he wants to do with me in December so he'll wait until I get there.
I know he cares, at times It's hard for me to be a bigger person and not showers him with all my emotions too. It's hard being a bigger person, I love being supportive and I want the best for him. I want him to be happy with or with out me again I am annoying when I overthinkg. That's why I have you guys, I really do values your views. all of it.
This is the same boss who gave him really good references for NY. So now I had time to think about it, I'm really glad I didn't over react to him.
I guess I was so over heated when I wrote the post because I know time is running out. He's doing his best to please everyone like some of you said.
I'm not a hot and heated type more so over thinking type and I'm glad I posted this because I would regret making things bad.
Yes I'm fully aware he's going to be having a life in NY. I want him to fuck around do whatever ! not because I don't care. but If I was 23 living in NY I would the same. Saying that I don't need to know. I won't be here waiting in my room crying either. Sure I'll be so sad but we are not in a relationship. I still have yet to say I love you because some of you gave me really good advice in my previous posts.
When the time is right, he'll say it and he may not but I'm going to continue being me and care about him.
We both know if he's not going, we would be together. I just hope that in time when we can, we would have the chance to explore that. If not, this year has been the best one yet for me because of him.
I don't know how to say this properly. I love him and I want him to explore and make friends and do whatever he wants in his adventures. I'll be there for him throughout of it all, I don't expect everyday messages but more so once in awhile he'll keep me posted. which he already suggested before I brought it up. He already made a list of what he wants to do with me in December so he'll wait until I get there.
I know he cares, at times It's hard for me to be a bigger person and not showers him with all my emotions too. It's hard being a bigger person, I love being supportive and I want the best for him. I want him to be happy with or with out me again I am annoying when I overthinkg. That's why I have you guys, I really do values your views. all of it.
Posted by LibraJacksonI really think he really likes you. He wouldn't bother if he didn't. And you are making plans for December so that must be good...
Okay I over reacted majorly. I'm a big idiot. I'm glad most of you pointed this out.
This is the same boss who gave him really good references for NY. So now I had time to think about it, I'm really glad I didn't over react to him.
I guess I was so over heated when I wrote the post because I know time is running out. He's doing his best to please everyone like some of you said.
I'm not a hot and heated type more so over thinking type and I'm glad I posted this because I would regret making things bad.
Yes I'm fully aware he's going to be having a life in NY. I want him to fuck around do whatever ! not because I don't care. but If I was 23 living in NY I would the same. Saying that I don't need to know. I won't be here waiting in my room crying either. Sure I'll be so sad but we are not in a relationship. I still have yet to say I love you because some of you gave me really good advice in my previous posts.
When the time is right, he'll say it and he may not but I'm going to continue being me and care about him.
We both know if he's not going, we would be together. I just hope that in time when we can, we would have the chance to explore that. If not, this year has been the best one yet for me because of him.
I don't know how to say this properly. I love him and I want him to explore and make friends and do whatever he wants in his adventures. I'll be there for him throughout of it all, I don't expect everyday messages but more so once in awhile he'll keep me posted. which he already suggested before I brought it up. He already made a list of what he wants to do with me in December so he'll wait until I get there.
I know he cares, at times It's hard for me to be a bigger person and not showers him with all my emotions too. It's hard being a bigger person, I love being supportive and I want the best for him. I want him to be happy with or with out me again I am annoying when I overthinkg. That's why I have you guys, I really do values your views. all of it.
It not an easy situation but I think you both care for each other's.
The most important thing in your situation is just not to panic and try to enjoy every moment.
If it is meant to be it will be...
My first love was an Aries and we were together many years. We were very young so we separated many times but we always got back. He still is my best friend and I know I can count on him forever.
Aries secretly hate Libras. They are the worst sign for us. It is better to leave them for another Aries or a Scorpio. They are completely wrong for Libras.
I also mean to say Libra and Aries can be good friends but that is where it ends.
Posted by DonnaaswOhhh damn! what makes you say this?
Aries secretly hate Libras. They are the worst sign for us. It is better to leave them for another Aries or a Scorpio. They are completely wrong for Libras.
The OP reminds me of my Libra friend. These insecure Libra females seem to be the stereotype that most sane, rational women try to distance themselves from- psycho girlfriend.
"I'm going to create all this bullshit in my head and then hold him accountable for something that never happened."
Or
"I'm going to create this delusional scenario in my head of what I want this to be like and when he doesn't live up to it, I'm going to go batshit crazy and turn into an emotional cunt."
"I'm going to create all this bullshit in my head and then hold him accountable for something that never happened."
Or
"I'm going to create this delusional scenario in my head of what I want this to be like and when he doesn't live up to it, I'm going to go batshit crazy and turn into an emotional cunt."
Posted by LibraLovesHimOf course you would zero in on this. You are so freaking insecure about your relationship. At the rate you're going, it's just a matter of time before failure.Posted by DonnaaswOhhh damn! what makes you say this?
Aries secretly hate Libras. They are the worst sign for us. It is better to leave them for another Aries or a Scorpio. They are completely wrong for Libras.click to expand
Freaking relax.
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