Is It Typical Aries Behaviour

Do most Aries find someone new before breaking up with the current boyfriend/girlfriend? I've known of some aries who have done exactly that. In fact, my child's father did that to me and the girl he left me for. I have a female coworker who does the same. Just curious before I write Aries off as a potential relationship. Aries do have some good traits but I was extremely hurt by one so idk.

No--we don't. However, it may appear this way because we are done with a relationships long before we actually pack up and leave it.

I don't.

I don't feel the need to be in a relationship with someone "just because" they like me. I have to actually like them back.

if there's no spark, there's no relationship.

with that being said... i spent 4 years being single... now i'm with a scorpio and the wait was worth it. - some people can't wait because they're afraid to be alone but there is a paradox in all of this... it isn't until you're comfortable being alone that someone worth it will come along...

Posted by Aine
I don't.

I don't feel the need to be in a relationship with someone "just because" they like me. I have to actually like them back.

if there's no spark, there's no relationship.

with that being said... i spent 4 years being single... now i'm with a scorpio and the wait was worth it. - some people can't wait because they're afraid to be alone but there is a paradox in all of this... it isn't until you're comfortable being alone that someone worth it will come along...

It's ironic that u wrote that because I really believe my ex has some sort of fear of being alone. He can't deal with himself or want to try so he hides behind women so he doesn't have to. Its kinda sad...just wish he didn't introduce my son to every single girl.

Posted by Aine
I don't.

I don't feel the need to be in a relationship with someone "just because" they like me. I have to actually like them back.

if there's no spark, there's no relationship.

with that being said... i spent 4 years being single... now i'm with a scorpio and the wait was worth it. - some people can't wait because they're afraid to be alone but there is a paradox in all of this... it isn't until you're comfortable being alone that someone worth it will come along...

Thiiiis. I'm disgusted by those who can't handle being alone, tbh. "OMG I'M SINGLE, WAAAAH." Omg shut the hell up. You sound pathetic.

I am a Gem with Venus in Aries and Mars in Aries. I used to think that I was always finding a new relationship before I finished the current one I was in so I changed it. Instead of wasting mine and someone else's time by dragging on a relationship I knew I had checked out of months or years prior, I decided to end the relationship when I knew it was over and instead of ending up in a rebound, I put time aside to reflect, learn and grow myself. I would date casually but that was it. I find a lot of Aries learn to be alone as they mature.

Posted by miimii
Do most Aries find someone new before breaking up with the current boyfriend/girlfriend?

IMO it is not an Aries thing but a Fire sign thing. I do this but you have worded it wrong. I will stay in a relationship just because. It is not until someone else encourages me to leave or lets me know that he will hold me down/has my back do I actually exit stage left.

I am not of the mindset that it is better to be alone then.....

I have friends who love being alone. I hate it. I work better in tandem. I have always been part of a pair. My sister and I are months apart and that's all I know...always having someone there.

It would seem to me that having a potential new relationship can help some of us recognize how bad the relationship we are in is. Sometimes we just plug along for quite a while after we should have abandoned the relationship. Sometimes the Aries stubbornness isn't such a good thing.

I have spent a lot of my life alone. I get tired of being alone, though. It has been over 3 years since I "ran away from home," and I am feeling the need for companionship. Having said that, I am not going to settle for just anything or anybody. Still pretty selective in the end. Better to be alone by myself then alone with someone else.

Posted by sixshadesofhell


I find men to have a harder time being alone than women.
I am not saying it counts for each and everyone, and I don't want to generalize too much, but that is my observation with Aries and men.

The general rule is that women have more social contacts then men. They are more for that reason more "connected" than males. I would hazard a guess that this would be a reason behind this observation.

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Posted by miimii
Do most Aries find someone new before breaking up with the current boyfriend/girlfriend?

IMO it is not an Aries thing but a Fire sign thing. I do this but you have worded it wrong. I will stay in a relationship just because. It is not until someone else encourages me to leave or lets me know that he will hold me down/has my back do I actually exit stage left.

I am not of the mindset that it is better to be alone then.....

I have friends who love being alone. I hate it. I work better in tandem. I have always been part of a pair. My sister and I are months apart and that's all I know...always having someone there.

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Actually, what you described, seems like a Leo female tendency. I have noticed this with every single one I have met. They stick around far too long and drag things out long after they've been cold and dead. They seem to thrive on the drama when things are going wrong all the time. Why women of this sign cannot be single is beyond me. Given that they're a fire sign, it just is a really sad weakness many seem to possess.

Maybe you guys need someone around to stroke that ego. Maybe it's the fixed sign thing (I've noticed the other fixed signs tend to do the same too). Who knows. It's always baffled me.

i am an aries, i don't mind being alone. Sometimes I prefer it. Has to be someone special to change that. But, for me it is true, that I can feel more alone in a relationship than not in one. Yes, I have allready, checked out f the relationship long before I leave it. Keep trying, don't wanna hurt the other person. Break ups are messy and sometimes at the cost of our own happiness, we hang in there. Just shows that yes we do have heart. And it is not out of fear of being alone. I am married, going through a divorce. I beat that horse dead before I finally turned and walked away. When I did it was over like that Aries ice you hear about. There are always guys on the back burners and it is more impowerening not getting with guys and just talking to them, they all want ya, yeah, thats easy. BUt finding someone who can get in your mind and heart, before your bed, thats what keeps the flames going!!

Posted by Aine I don't.

I don't feel the need to be in a relationship with someone "just because" they like me. I have to actually like them back.

if there's no spark, there's no relationship.

with that being said... i spent 4 years being single... now i'm with a scorpio and the wait was worth it. - some people can't wait because they're afraid to be alone but there is a paradox in all of this... it isn't until you're comfortable being alone that someone worth it will come along...

Thiiiis. I'm disgusted by those who can't handle being alone, tbh."OMG I'M SINGLE,WAAAAH." Omg shutthe hellup. You sound pathetic.