Aries like playing games?

Do Aries test you, or straight up play games to see how you react? To talk steady for 6 days, regaling stories of our respective days, laughing, joking, getting to know each other, good morning, good night, brb etc... then NOTHING. I'm not the kind of person to poke around, see what's going on, if you're gone, you're gone... but everything that led up to this silence is what has me confused. Maybe I'll hear something maybe I won't... just curious if this is typical. To me this reeks of an EX coming back on the scene... it's happened to me before.

I don't think they do. They are to straight forward and in the moment with their feelings for games. What they present to you is what it is. If they did try to be game players I'd imagine they'd do very poorly at it.

At the moment you are out of his thoughts. He's either moved on to someone else, busy with work, or something bad has happened.

I thought so Taurusgirl... thank you. We've been talking #nofilter since the get go, so it would have been very strange if this was a tactic or something. I'm just wondering if I should reach out and see what's up... or just wait it out... it's been smooth sailing in terms of reciprocal communication up until now... but he's an Aires.. if he didn't want to bother with me anymore, would he tell me, or just hope I go away without incident? LOL

@ OP,

I know what you are going through.

I have been friends with an Aries girl for the past month or so, and it started to turn into something more.

This past weekend, she basically responded to my charm and gentleman ways by attacking me at her place. She practically raped me several times with multiple, powerful and overwhelming orgasms for each of us. Very, very explosive and fiery passion in that girl. I basically had to spend Sunday taking naps to get myself back together, haha.

Lately, she has been shy to communicate with me and mentioned something about "needing some time to get her life in order."

I suppose I may or may not hear back from her, but I am giving her the space she wants.

Wonder if I should call her in a week or something.

Hmm, any Aries girls out there who can help me out?

She is an April 12th Aries, BTW.

In my experience, they do. I have an Aries friend who would tell me he was testing me or behaving a certain way to get a reaction.

Posted by NGG22
Do Aries test you, or straight up play games to see how you react? To talk steady for 6 days, regaling stories of our respective days, laughing, joking, getting to know each other, good morning, good night, brb etc... then NOTHING. I'm not the kind of person to poke around, see what's going on, if you're gone, you're gone... but everything that led up to this silence is what has me confused. Maybe I'll hear something maybe I won't... just curious if this is typical. To me this reeks of an EX coming back on the scene... it's happened to me before.

I am a gemini with aries venus and mars. It is not only the sun sign that you look at for how a person behaves when interested or in a relationship. Because I do have the aries in a sign of relationships, I display the same characteristics. I am typically very direct. My Gemini Sun may try to get in on the games but it doesn't last long. I like the thrill of the chase and I like very strong men who are not clingy. Do you know what any of the other planets in her chart are?

@ Onephatkittykat

Aries Sun
Moon in Leo
Venus in Taurus
Leo rising

Just for a but more background... I did send a text yesterday just to see how the weekend was, and it didn't go through, as if the phone was dead or turned off. Anyway...I just find it really strange that we were back and forth steady for 6 days straight, and then POOF.. gone.

Thanks again.

I have a feeling it's just the way they do things.

Last Aries did the same exact thing. Doesn't feel like mind games, I already confronted him about it and it was made obvious it's definitely not mind games. They're very independent. And yeah, a little selfish. Maybe not a little. They're looking out for #1! Can you blame them? I decided to keep moving though. Too little in too long of time. This new Aries is different, extremely direct. Don't think he'd know a mind game if it bit him.

I've accepted the guy I was seeing lost interest. So I've moved on. It's hard to compete with a car to build back up from nothing anyway. Sucks but that's life.

Posted by kissmygrits
I've accepted the guy I was seeing lost interest. So I've moved on. It's hard to compete with a car to build back up from nothing anyway. Sucks but that's life.

Agh I'm sorry to hear. We sounded like we were in a similar boat. Similar turn out too! C'est la vie. Good you're moving on.

Posted by starlover
Of course they do! All children like to play games

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Yeah, but one can reel them back in.

I am doing just that now.

...no. At least this one isn't into playing games.

That Taurus in Venus will make him slow down though. I may be all chill and whatever about a guy, but the second he starts moving forward and it goes from friendly and casual to HAY I MAY BE INTERESTED IN YOU, it's like oh gawd, wtf. Could be why he backed off a bit...?

However, how you want to handle this so far is just fine. You've got no ties, and when a guy disappears suddenly for a short time, aside from being legitimately busy, chances are there's someone else distracting his attention from you.

In my experience...no, they don't. I knew few that do but not for the purpose to play games, more like gauge the partner's interest.

Starlover,

She attacked me, dude.

Even had claw marks on my back for cryin' out loud.

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Posted by ScorpioFish
Starlover,

She attacked me, dude.

Even had claw marks on my back for cryin' out loud.

Jeez what a nutter

😢

You okay SF?

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Sounds like he wants more.

Posted by starlover

Posted by ScorpioFish
Starlover,

She attacked me, dude.

Even had claw marks on my back for cryin' out loud.

Jeez what a nutter

😢

You okay SF?

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Starlover: helping people victimize themselves since 2012!

(not excusing her behavior, but given he just admitted to fucking around with her emotions, it makes me wonder if he had a role in her assault by provoking it with bs)

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Posted by starlover

Posted by ScorpioFish
Starlover,

She attacked me, dude.

Even had claw marks on my back for cryin' out loud.

Jeez what a nutter

😢

You okay SF?

Starlover: helping people victimize themselves since 2012!

(not excusing her behavior, but given he just admitted to fucking around with her emotions, it makes me wonder if he had a role in her assault by provoking it with bs)

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Did you read his post on page one?.. she "attacked" him sexually.. and he wants to know when he should call her for more.. I'm starting to think that she isn't the only nutter in this situation..

I don't tend to play games, as an Aries woman I am very direct. If I am unhappy about something a guy did I tend to spew in order to get a reaction from them in a "engage mouth before brain" kind of way lol. I'm not sure why the girl would back off from you; maybe she just has a lot on at the moment ??_

Posted by starlover
Of course they do! All children like to play games

😉

I love this.

Yes, we love to play games. If you don't like to play with fire--step back from the pit.

Posted by Damnata
In my experience...no, they don't. I knew few that do but not for the purpose to play games, more like gauge the partner's interest.

BINGO! It's amusing watching other signs guess so incorrectly about Aries throughout this thread but this hit the nail on the head. Def play games in order to check how you actually feel while avoiding rejection (ugh, the word alone makes me shutter) otherwise, i'm pretty straight to the point.

Posted by NGG22
Do Aries test you, or straight up play games to see how you react? To talk steady for 6 days, regaling stories of our respective days, laughing, joking, getting to know each other, good morning, good night, brb etc... then NOTHING. I'm not the kind of person to poke around, see what's going on, if you're gone, you're gone... but everything that led up to this silence is what has me confused. Maybe I'll hear something maybe I won't... just curious if this is typical. To me this reeks of an EX coming back on the scene... it's happened to me before.

We are not game players at all. When we like someone we are all in, we jump way to fast to sit and contemplate playing a game. It's not normal for us to just stop talking, so something else must have happened.

Posted by starlover
Of course they do! All children like to play games

😉

LOL

I had one that got on my last nerves. I think he played mind games sometimes, but most of the time I just believed that he was being himself. He use to do little things to get a reaction out of me. If he pissed me off or did something I did not like, I would back off. When I did that, he would pull evil stunts. Like staring at a girls ass in front of me and glance back at me to see if I am paying attention or if I was standing next to a female, he would flirt with her in my face. It worked once. I blew the fuck up. But eventually I stopped caring and starting ignoring him. He caught tantrums!!!!!! Lol. Big ass baby. He could dish it, but couldn't take it. I think that ignoring a aries is the best thing that you can do if you want to piss most of them off. Or you can simply not care.

^I sense...great bitterness.