lost with an aries male

hey everyone

i am a libra female and i have met that amazing aries man over facebook! without saying that he was charming, comprehensive and he couldn't stop talking to me all day , really from those cute good moorning texts to goodnight texts! it's been 6 months now that we are talking but he started thinking about marriage and said that if he wanted a relationship it should end with marriage! after 3 months i told him that i love him, and things changed like he became more sweet and acted more than a friend with me and started acting like a little jealous boyfriend! anyway these 3 months he has been away too much eachtime i talk to him he doesn"t reply or say he is busy ! when i brought that i wanted a serious relationship with him he said that he cannot be with me , he cannot commit, he doesn't want to hurt me and he cannot tell his parents about a virtual person that he want to marry,he need time alone ,and after a while(a week or 10 days) he comes back again acting like nothing is wrong ! last week i talked to him about meeting in real life, and i let him choose where he want that even if he doesn't want to meet in my country, he got angry and said that he don't want to commit while i was acting exclusive and i am still and turned down everyone since i have met him! now he doesn't want to talk to me he said he needs time and he still says no to everything i ask for! i am lost with this guy i really love him and i have no intention to hurt him at all ! what should i do ?

Well the issue is that you aren't boyfriend and girlfriend so while the feelings might be strong the commitment isn't. Additionally, is all of this online? Because if it is then it means absolutely nothing

So you 'fell in love' with someone you've never met who lives in another country. My first though is Nigerian scammer.

Have you wired this person money?

I'm sorry to say, I am thinking this is a scammer too. What makes you think what he's saying is real? and he could be a professional, playing more than one person at once. Do not put your feelings in that position.

You don't love this guy; you've never met. You're projecting a lot of stuff on to him, which is easy to do as you don't actually know him. Go out and meet people in real life, or if you meet them online, meet up with them in person as soon as possible. And stop turning people down for him..! Good luck.