This Aries Guy... Red flags??

Soo I met this Aries guy through my sister and over the last several months we went from casually hanging out in groups to basically Dating each other. I was not looking to get into anything serious, but I just went with the flow and next thing I know he has a pic of me posted on his FB, telling everyone I'm his Gf, tells me I make him happier, he didn't consider marriage until meeting me. He smiles and is happy when he sees me, very affectionate. He says he misses me. The thing is we never been intimate but I feel he's really falling for me? I mean we are not young 20 year olds but I was wondering are these red flags or should I be glad??

Posted by Foreverloveme
Did you ever decide what you want with/from him or relationships in general?

It's only a red flag if you think it is. I personally would be concerned if that's how he felt & I knew it wasn't a mutual feeling

You made a thread that if a guy says you make him happy, that's the key to look for

Yet you're questioning what's going on right now

Yes, you are right. I am in the process of letting go my Gem ex which may be effecting this with the Aries. I made that thread because it was something that was missing from my pervious relationship and when I found it with the Aries it was a Eureka moment! I know with my ex it took me months to warm up and so that's why I'm giving this guy a chance because he is a great guy and I typically run ? I am starting to get feelings, but from talking to a friend of mine he said this was red flags so now I feel I need others opinions as I am not objective.

Posted by Foreverloveme
Okay I understand.

In my personal opinion, nothing stands out to me as being a red flag

Ok, thank u I appreciate your insight 🙂 I don't have the best judgement when it comes to my own relationships, but I hope I'm improving.

neither but still take it at a steady pace, Aries love to move fast but if that's your style then by all means.

If it will truly work out? Get to know each other better and when you guys fight, no if, WHEN, will your bond be strong enough to hold you together?

I know it's early in the relationship but those are the few things to look out for.

good luck

Posted by AL4813
neither but still take it at a steady pace, Aries love to move fast but if that's your style then by all means.

If it will truly work out? Get to know each other better and when you guys fight, no if, WHEN, will your bond be strong enough to hold you together?

I know it's early in the relationship but those are the few things to look out for.

good luck

Thank you! Yes I am waiting for that moment when we fight to see... I am letting him just run but I think he feels he out paced me lol anyway it seems the tables are turning and maybe he will let me chase him a bit 😛

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Posted by Foreverloveme
Okay I understand.

In my personal opinion, nothing stands out to me as being a red flag

Ok, thank u I appreciate your insight 🙂 I don't have the best judgement when it comes to my own relationships, but I hope I'm improving.

You're welcome. I'm sure that you are, it's just a learning process, that I'm still working through as well.

He sounds like he really enjoys you & is serious about you.

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Yes, dang it taken me a long time... Makes me sad and happy/confused at the same time. Sad I didn't find this with my Gem ex, but glad I did with this guy.

Posted by Scrumptious

Me want some

Posted by leowww
What I love about about Aries men there's no fcking around... they say it like it is. Good or bad. If he's going too fast for you.. Tell him. If you're still moving on from your ex.. You might wanna slow things down a little. Otherwise have fun girl! ?

Hahahaha thanks! Yeah I do notice that about him. Nice thing is he is open with his emotions I really like that 🙂

I'd freak out, but that's me. I guess in other people's eyes it could be considered...nice.

Posted by Jardsi
I'd freak out, but that's me. I guess in other people's eyes it could be considered...nice.

Yes, it's kinda both

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Posted by Foreverloveme
Did you ever decide what you want with/from him or relationships in general?

It's only a red flag if you think it is. I personally would be concerned if that's how he felt & I knew it wasn't a mutual feeling

You made a thread that if a guy says you make him happy, that's the key to look for

Yet you're questioning what's going on right now

Yes, you are right. I am in the process of letting go my Gem ex which may be effecting this with the Aries. I made that thread because it was something that was missing from my pervious relationship and when I found it with the Aries it was a Eureka moment! I know with my ex it took me months to warm up and so that's why I'm giving this guy a chance because he is a great guy and I typically run ? I am starting to get feelings, but from talking to a friend of mine he said this was red flags so now I feel I need others opinions as I am not objective.

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Have you told the Aries this?

(Unless they have an Aqua moon) Aries will be direct with you about how they feel, anything from love to hate, you will know because it's obvious.

As far as I can see, no red flags, he wants to take things a notch higher. Nothing wrong with that unless you feel you're not ready.

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Posted by Foreverloveme
Did you ever decide what you want with/from him or relationships in general?

It's only a red flag if you think it is. I personally would be concerned if that's how he felt & I knew it wasn't a mutual feeling

You made a thread that if a guy says you make him happy, that's the key to look for

Yet you're questioning what's going on right now

Yes, you are right. I am in the process of letting go my Gem ex which may be effecting this with the Aries. I made that thread because it was something that was missing from my pervious relationship and when I found it with the Aries it was a Eureka moment! I know with my ex it took me months to warm up and so that's why I'm giving this guy a chance because he is a great guy and I typically run ? I am starting to get feelings, but from talking to a friend of mine he said this was red flags so now I feel I need others opinions as I am not objective.

Have you told the Aries this?

(Unless they have an Aqua moon) Aries will be direct with you about how they feel, anything from love to hate, you will know because it's obvious.

As far as I can see, no red flags, he wants to take things a notch higher. Nothing wrong with that unless you feel you're not ready.

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I haven't... We had a convo early on about taking things slow and being guarded but maybe he's just excited lol. Anyway, he has Taurus moon and yes, I can tell his emotions 🙂 I think I'm warming up to him more... I just take a bit longer then most I guess : /

Do you actually like this guy or are you just really flattered by all of the attention he's giving you?

Posted by AriSaturn
Do you actually like this guy or are you just really flattered by all of the attention he's giving you?

This is it. If you go back and read all her post on this Aries she barley sounds like she likes him and brags about the attention he gives her. I don't think she is used to it. Hence the many threads she's created.

Her intentions aren't pure, and that's why she feels his isn't. Projection. I think she's rebounding from the Gemini.

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Posted by AriSaturn
Do you actually like this guy or are you just really flattered by all of the attention he's giving you?

This is it. If you go back and read all her post on this Aries she barley sounds like she likes him and brags about the attention he gives her. I don't think she is used to it. Hence the many threads she's created.

Her intentions aren't pure, and that's why she feels his isn't. Projection. I think she's rebounding from the Gemini.

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I see. I didn't read any back posts but this one doesn't sound too excited or enthused. "We're basically dating? Should I be glad?"