My virgo crush

i have never been so confused with my virgo crush,i have made friends with him, he is friendly,cute and intelligent(typical of a virgo)i think he know

lol this is carrying on from my "little story" hehe anyway so you see hes giving me mixed messages and i dont get it, i sometimes feel like giving up but it seems like there is still hope left, hes really nervous around me and cant even make eye contact with me, when i talk to him sometimes he would smile and say hey and then turn around really quickly so i end up talking to his back how embaressing, if i am walking towards him he would put his head down and act really nervous and his eyes would shift here and there trying not to look at me. I see him talk to other girl and he seems very extovert infront of them and smiley and generally open but when he talks to me his voice lowers and he acts very nervous, one of his friends was nudging him in the ribs when he saw me and then he acted all dopey like he didnt know what was going on, and he said hi in a unenthusiastic way, i really dont get it what so ever, is this typical of a virgo male to be so complicated?

oh no my first post got the end part cut off!!

ok lol here is the first part then read the second part am so sorry about this


i have never been so confused with my virgo crush,i have made friends with him, he is friendly,cute and intelligent(typical of a virgo)i think he knows that i like him well sort of, because my friend asked him for his email address for me and lets face it if someone came up to you and asked you for your email address for a friend you would kinda know that that person must be into you, anyway he happily gave it.
so i had started to talk to him online at my college etc and hes seems genuily nice but lately he has been giving me mixed signals.Sometimes i catch him staring at me, infact once he made it very obvious by quickly turning around when i look at him catching him in the act,he would look down and then smile, but other times he acts like i dont exist. One time i had the perfect opportunity to talk to him and we sat next to eachother and chatted with the awkward silences, i said to him casually for his phone number and he didnt even think about it he gave it to me straight away

girl this boy is smitten by you!!! sexy aries, sexy!

ok, so this is one thing you MUST BELIEVE about virgos. it will save so much time and energy: they take their time. with EVERYTHING. especially with new relationships, ESPECIALLY with new relationships with someone as breathtaking as an aries female. i sure hope you're an aries female or else im getting all long-winded for nothing 😛

so dont sweat it. if you really like him, take it as it comes, just keep letting him know you're interested. it sounds like he'll be coming around real soon, as soon as he feels comfortable enough in your breathtaking presence to get a few words out... yes!

aaawwwww thanks alot for the advise aozora i really has no idea virgos are like that, it all kinda makes sense now hehe
i have another problem, i have been catching his staring glances at me but i am really shy (omg an aries and shy)lol and i cant look him in the eye if i looked back at him will he get intimidated? and if i should look back at him how shall i?

of course you're shy - you're into this boy's gaze, and the virgo gaze is not one easily gotten out of your mind...

i dont think the thing to worry about here is intimidation with this virgo. just make sure you follow your instincts+stay true with your first reactions, trust me, he is watching you and became interested in you because of your fiery nature in the first place. dont fight it! just important to let him get comfortable with u.

"if i looked back at him will he get intimidated?"

on the contrary, i think if you returned the look it could be a very exciting moment. as to HOW you do it - just let him see your feelings for what they are. your interest, your curiosity. my advice is to not play any games=compromising your already loveable character

virgos are not like us ariens. they do not let their emotions show as clearly or quickly. but they are very gentle people, and even if the first reaction isnt as head-over-heels-in-love as as ariens LOVE to feel it, he'll come around

you're going to have to make the first move. my virgo guy friends (me being a virgo gal) never make the first move. we want to make sure that the other party is interested in us, so the only way to be sure about this is to have the other person make the first move on us. i'm exactly like the way you described your crush sexyariesgirl. with my crush, i'm so shy i seem uninterested, but with other people, i can be a total extrovert. but every virgo is different, some move fast, some move slow, and some don't move at all. i have an aries moon and i still move slow, considering if i move at all!

"my advice is to not play any games" i totally agree with this one aozora! do not play any games with the virgo! we get frustrated and move on, or we (maybe just me on this one, must be my scorpio asc) start acting like we're interested in someone else just to see your reaction and completely give you the cold shoulder. the hot and cold games of virgos.

"the virgo gaze is not one easily gotten out of your mind" awww, i appreciate this compliment, does this apply to virgo femmes too?

wow thx alot agent006 that really helped alot, its great to know a virgo guys perspective of this and your right i am going to pay him more attention from now on!!!!

woops i ment girl i dunno why i put guy lol soz

"start acting like we're interested in someone else just to see your reaction and completely give you the cold shoulder".

Could anyone explain why this is done then? What's the purpose?

"start acting like we're interested in someone else just to see your reaction and completely give you the cold shoulder".

Could anyone explain why this is done then? What's the purpose?

Mystical, i can only speak on this for myself, but as i mentioned, this is in response to the other party playing head games with me. i do not enjoy head games as i already over-analyze everything, i don't want to have to read between the lines on whether you like me or not. keeping it straight and simple is best with a virgo in my opinion. and i suggest you be tactful about it, if you come on too strongly with a lot of flair, we get overwhelmed. wow, didn't realize how confusing we can be!!! so let me rephrase this, keep to the three s's: straight, simple and subtle.

agent006,

Thanks for explaining what I asked. I have a Virgo guy I've been interested in and well, to put it truthfully I don't understand him. I don't even try to anymore. I feel he plays head games with me. Like he'll be in constant contact and the poof I don't hear from him for a while. It's like I don't even exist. Now he's at sea. I asked for him not to let it go too long before I hear from him. He promised he wouldn't. Does a Virgo mean what they say? I have no idea. Now it's going on a little while and I have no idea if he's ignoring me or what. I've had to just let go of the situation and see what happens.

"Does a Virgo mean what they say?"

Mystical, i would like to believe that virgos do mean what they say, but not every virgo is the same.

"Like he'll be in constant contact and the poof I don't hear from him for a while."

i am totally like this. i've gone for 9 months without talking to my best friend, and we weren't even on bad terms. during that span of time, i didn't feel like it was a long time, i guess i was just too occupied with other pressing matters, and some breathing room, i don't want to feel like i'm in their space too much. and when i finally called her out of the blue, we just picked up where we left off. so i guess what i'm trying to say is that what may seem like a long time to you may not seem like a long time to a virgo. how long has he been away at sea? if he does call you eventually, you can rest assure that he has been thinking about you, otherwise he wouldn't have tried to make contact again. virgos like to keep their circle of friends small, at least i do. i have many acquaintances, but few close friends, actually only two close friends.

shy? sounds vain to me. it's all referencing him noticing, looking at you, you, you,
breathtaking? screen name suggests that you think your sexy

He's probably frightened to death of you. Way too strong, there gurl. Heel !!!!

Most Aries are very attractive people, on the outside, that I will not argue - but, Virgo's think very deeply. It's not about batting eyes at them and getting them to watch your butt wiggle when you walk away.

Smitten? Terrified is more likely. They really are shy - the Ram is the most not-shy creature on the planet. They are fearless when it comes to chasing. Everybody knows this. Who you trying to fool? Aries shy and bashful at trying to capture someone's attention, are you kidding? They're pros. It's ok to feed the Aries, you can never give them enough ego-stroking, just make sure it has merit.

You want this Virgo . . . back off and try to ACT humble

For two years (almost) I've been listening to this. Aries wants Virgo because they seem like a challenge. The challenge: to be them to notice you !!!!!! that's it.
Everybody else will look in awe, except the V-man and that irritates the 'ell out you because the attention - all the attention - rightfully belongs to gazing at your beauty. Well, there's the V-man. Listen to these posts from male Virgo's . . . listen to them. It's about INTELLIGENCE !!!!!!!

Here's a quote from Mariah Carey, it pretty much says it all about the female Ram: "Whenever I watch TV and see those poor starving kids all over the world, I can't help but cry. I mean I'd love to be skinny like that, but not with all those flies and death and stuff." The V-man shakes his head and laughs. His eyes aren't dropping because he's so shy and smitten, he's trying to hide his condenscending look, he cannot believe that someone could be so into themselves, so concieted.

I'm sorry, I know I'm sounding really harsh here . . . but, it irritates the crap out of me. The female ram thinks she's it, God's gift to men and it drives me nuts. I know, I'm pissing some of my Aries friends off and I realize that. I'm sorry.

It's just that in your original posts (took several to get it all out), it was all about him noticing you and he's not, so now you're confused !!! Imagine that, the Aries is confused because someone isn't giving them attention.

Ok, back to my corner . . . I've have repenting to do. I've been mean, again.

Like I said in another post:

The Aries says: "Look, look at me."
The V-man says: "Ok, I'm looking. What?"
The Aries say: "Ummm, I don't know. I just wanted you to look."

I know some Aries who are very smart, have a lot to offer in a conversation. Many of them on here. I could name a dozen just off the top of my head who offer very enlightening things and to those women, I apologize. But, you have to admit, that you are rare Rams, indeed. Most are driven by looks alone and nothing deeper.

Ok, I know I'm gonna get bombarded with posts from you ladies. Go ahead, I know I deserve it. But, you know me. If you do something that seems stupid to me, then I'll call you out. I can't help it, so I'll sit back and take whatever punishment is justified.

Agent009,

Wow, 9 months went before you talked to your best friend? That's a long, long time. I'm an Aquarian I can't let even a month go by if I don't hear from a friend of mine, then I take contact to check up on them. Well, I talked to this Virgo guy the last time on May 12th. He will be at sea until around July 1st. He and I would have constant contact every day for 2 months. Then he backed off which, of course, I didn't understand. Being the outgoing person I am, I called him to find out what was going on. Oh, he was preoccupied he said. Then he started taking contact with me at least once a week which was fine. Then 3 weekends ago he called me 5 times. He's told me I annoy him with being too positive which is something he has never told me before. He's always known I'm a positive person so I don't understand why he should be annoyed. Then he called me two weekends ago on a Saturday at 1 AM to tell me he was so popular with the girls which I said was great for him. He wanted a reaction out of me which he didn't get. Then he told me he'd call me when he had time which he had never said before. My mind started wondering what was going on. So I called him a week later to check up on how everything was going with him. Oh, he wasn't popular with anyone. He told me he didn't have a chance with anyone. Little does he know a month ago I would have said he'd have a chance with me. Last Friday he called me and he was very tired. He told me he'd call when he could. All this is surreal to me. I've never dealt with Virgos before so he's my first. This is why I have let go of the situation to see what happens.

hey P-angel
you know its a real shame that people like you really think that us aries are scary people and that we are only driven by looks,infact the way these astrologers describe us make us seem asthough we are shallow, reckless and disorganised people, am not just saying this because i am a aries myself but i know alot of aries that are far from reckless people. I am shy infact i can be downright shy if i like someone and i get put off people who cant make intelligent conversation, i do not go for just looks, give me an ok looking guy with a lovely personality anyday. It doesnt matter what starsign you are looks are going to be somewhat important otherwise you wouldnt even give the poor lad a chance but if the guy turned out to be a real jerk then i would most certainly have second thoughts. The virgo guy i like is very average looking yet i am drawn by him, he is not the sort of person that i ever imagine going for but i somehow find him facinating. well anyway if you think this guy really is "scared" of me then i have indeed been getting my hopes up for nothing and if the virgo guy cant except me for who i am then maybe its not worth knowing him i mean he does seem quite hesitant with me, and he cant look in my eyes properly well we will see

You missed my point, I'm not surprised.

WHY BECAUSE I AM AN DUMB ARIES—

Not all are, no. I know a few who are quite intelligent.

BTW, when writing, you use the 'am' before a word that starts with a vowel. When using this before a word that starts with a consonant, you want to type 'a'.

lollll i would do that if i were to write an english essay but this is only a forum

so P-Angel do u get on well with virgos?

Absolutely

However, it's really not about the sun sign. I get along with very few people. One of them just happens to be a Virgo.

oh i see, with me its kinda weird, i dont seem to get along with sagitarians (sorry if i have spelt that wrong) but i get along with virgos :S

I don't believe in getting along with people, that's too superficial for me. People will suck up to others, say whatever it takes to make a good impression - why, they will even compromise their own standards just to have someone like them. That's false and I don't live that way and I don't treat people that way.

I live my life a different way then "Getting Along".

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." Dr. Seuss

That's how I live, I don't get along, I do and say what I feel and if you mind, then you don't matter.

It comes in handy when you want the truth, because I'll tell you no matter how brutal that truth may be. And, I expect it back. You suck up to me and you'll be put on ignore. I have one person who found that out the hard way - she came up to me and asked, "Do the jeans make my arse look fat?"

For the most part, Aries can normally handle my honesty. Most signs are too sensetive for it, though. They'll go crying like little babies because they don't themselves, they can't handle who they really are.

I'm married to a Virgo and he can do doubt handle it, or we wouldn't have been married for so many years. He doesn't mind, therefore, he matters.

"Here's a quote from Mariah Carey, it pretty much says it all about the female Ram: "Whenever I watch TV and see those poor starving kids all over the world, I can't help but cry. I mean I'd love to be skinny like that, but not with all those flies and death and stuff." The V-man shakes his head and laughs. His eyes aren't dropping because he's so shy and smitten, he's trying to hide his condenscending look, he cannot believe that someone could be so into themselves, so concieted."

P-Angel (Pisces? Angelic? looks like you think pretty highly of yourself as well) its really sad that you feel the need to typecast the aries female through Mariah Carey. like so many ppl say all over these boards, we're into the signs of people, but signs alone, (especially sun) do NOT explain the complexity of each individual. upbringing, life style , parenting, these are all crucial factors. therefore it is faulty and ridiculous, not to mention insulting as hell, to bring MARIAH CAREY into this posting and call her the working definition of an aries female. your argument completely fell apart once you did that.

#2. this girl is into this boy and the questions she is asking are not out of this world. its a known fact virgos are so completely particular about every facet of their life, that this requires time - ESPECIALLY when selecting a mere person to share their oh-so-precious time with.

i can appreciate you coming in and shaking things up but like you said, you're just being mean. thats not helping anybody, least of all this aries female with her virgo crush. and another thing, aries are extremists. this doesnt just apply to being brash and loud, etc etc. it also applies to the times when we get away from everyone, our most private moments, our shy insecure moments, our wondering, quiet moments. try and pry your mind away from the stereotypes.

Hey, Aozora, does it really look like in any shape or form that I give a rats arse as to how you feel? Go whine to someone who cares.

The truth hurts, so, so, so bad. Why then would you even respond.

She said in original post: "when i talk to him sometimes he would smile and say hey and then turn around really quickly so i end up talking to his back how embaressing, if i am walking towards him he would put his head down and act really nervous and his eyes would shift here and there trying not to look at me"

He's trying to ignore her, he turns his head away. How stupid can a person be, is my question? He doesn't want you, get over yourself, already.

all i wanted were some answers nothing else but it looks like this is all turning into a fight i didnt want this 😢 thx alot for ruining it all, fine if he doesnt want me then so be it

Posted by P-Angel
She said in original post: "when i talk to him sometimes he would smile and say hey and then turn around really quickly so i end up talking to his back how embaressing, if i am walking towards him he would put his head down and act really nervous and his eyes would shift here and there trying not to look at me"

He's trying to ignore her, he turns his head away. How stupid can a person be, is my question? He doesn't want you, get over yourself, already.

For real people can be so tactless. What's the point of calling her stupid? Just say you don't think the guy wants her. That's it.

Have some Manner. Hope you do now.

Posted by Mimi24

For real people can be so tactless. What's the point of calling her stupid? Just say you don't think the guy wants her. That's it.

Have some Manner. Hope you do now.

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topic from 11 years ago!! 😄

I wonder what happened at the end