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When a virgo breaks up with you and thinks about it do they ever come back or God forbid - apologize? Thoughts?

They do, but it depends on the guy. Why you would want a Virgo back is beyond me!

90% of the men I've dated have been virgos they come to me like bees to honey. I'm not impressed by them.

~Strings.. Tsk Tsk 😉

It depends on the transgression. If it comes from them, after they've muddled it over for 6 weeks/months then yes. However, don't expect there to be an apology or big show of contrition. Most likely, they'll give you something or do something that is meaningful to HIM/HER that they've shared with YOU. It's not YOU, it's about the BOTH of you in HIS/HER mind. That's why it a study in understanding of and looking for clues.

CF36

Yes. Over and over and over and over again.

They don't really appologize ... they kind of hope you don't notice what they did wrong, and never address it. 😉

Yes, they do come back over and over and over and over and over again.....

To hear the male virgo apologize or say sorry is "a moment in history worth recording" or a "kodak moment" - next to impossible unless you are adamant you will not talk to them unless you first get an apology first. Even after they apologize or say sorry, they will try shift back the blame on your shoulders!!!!!

Dyrst8z excluded from the above sweeping generalization of course:-)!!!

Now I have a problem (something that I can't say I have experienced before). Mr. Virgo did something to really hurt me about a week ago (it's too bad and delicate to mention here!). Every day and night he rings apologizing and saying sorry.....something he has never done!!!! Always, always, I advised everyone else.....once someone says sorry, forgive immediately....life is too short not to, sorry is always good enough! and I have lived by this code all my life. However, no matter what he says or does, I can't forgive him, tell him to keep his sorry and that his apology is not acccepted etc! .....I'm baffled why I can't let this thing go, forgive him and move on.....it's like I am stuck in a horrible moment of venom hatred and unforgiveness - I don't like myself for my lack of compassion towards him - I'm baffled by this feeling! he's baffled too as he says I've done some bad things on him (which I have!, bad to the bone!!) and he's always forgiven me!!!......anyway, any advice would be welcome to "unlock the darkness" in my heart and let in shiny forgiveness light....

A x

*** next to impossible unless you are adamant you will not talk to them unless you first get an apology first.

The woman speaks the truth! They have to know you are not budging on your position then they will respect it. Otherwise, they will twist and twist and deny everything. Virgos have an odd need to not only be right but also to be liked.

Alana

I am sorry to hear this. This is kind of what happened with me and Virgo-Virgo Rising. Out of no where, I hit done. I had forgiven too many times and all the stuff underneath, came to the surface and nothing I could do would make it better. I didn't WANT to be angry. I wanted everything to be okay, but it wasn't. Something changed in me.

We tried to get past it for about six months ... and I just couldn't.

Almost a year, I think the anger is subsiding. He can still make me very angry with the slightest transgression, so I try not to see much of him anymore.

I had really hoped that we could put all this behind us, but we couldn't. I am hoping with enough time apart that we will. One never knows.

(((Alana)))

Well thank you for sharing that with me Little Sparrow.......maybe our virgo guys had the same mama!!!:-) - it all sounds so familiar and similar.....I sure hope that one day you will get your wish my pal and things work out exactly the way you want between the two of you.........

Tonite, her is about to go out on first date with sag. guy.....I met him at a party about 3 weeks ago, he struck me as gentlemanly, chatty and good sense of humour, didn't drink, pretty tall - at the time I didn't think he was much to look at......we didn't even exchange nos!!! that nite till his pal later got me his a few days later......then me eyed him in city centre a few days ago in "day-light" unbeknownst to him! and my tune soon changed!!!....had nice olive complexiion, dirty blond hair and dreamy blue eyes....me never noticed these the nite of the party (me ususally goes for the moody, broody Latino look!!)......and funny enuf there's a few butterflies in the tum-tums (which normally doesn't happen to me either!!!) - so anyway, will keep you posted tomoro!!!!:-)

Alana x

Hi Alana,

Have a great time tonight with the Sag guy. I hope you got my PM. Please fill us in tomorrow.

Mystical

Hello there Magical Mystical......and thanks for the good wishes my pal......yes indeed I did get your PM and what a read it was - from A - Z! I will reply to it hopefully tomoro when I have more time as boss goes out to meetings tomoro.

A x

Alana,

Well, I love to write especially when there is something going on. I look forward to hearing from you.

Please have a great time with the Sag guy. Enjoy yourself but don't rush into anything right now.

iM a VirGo,i wOuld fiRst taLk aBout iT wiTh My bEst sCorpio FEMALE fRiend (may i add that virgos & scorpios click, you just have to talk about any problem that may arise before its too late and both of you get tired of being around eachother) tHen wHen sHe rEmind me tHat i waS wRong, i wOuld tRy tO Make iT riGht w/o lOokin liKe a laMe,buT iF i tHink i caNt aPologize oR makE it riGht, i wouLd tEll my beSt sCorpio fRiend tO fix iT foR mE =)

Damn it! He caught me completely off guard. I haven't heard from him in weeks, since the last time we got into an argument, and he just called me and invited me for lunch. I was so shocked I said yes. I am still shocked.

Arrrgh!

nOt me. If I am pissed off enough to end it, I NEVER look back. I may regret it or miss it, but I will never lower myself to beg or be weak in that way.

Oh they don't beg. It is all very casual and friendly. They pretend they didn't make a huge mistake, you pretend they didn't make a huge mistake ... and before you know it ... you are dating again.

I told mine to stop contacting me which he has honoured. I miss him but it is for the best.