Pisces guy Aries girl

Hey guys,

I've been talking to this Aries girl for a little over a year now, It's a long distance relationship although we haven't made it official yet. She's a somewhat shy,sweet,caring, and beautiful girl. I really want to meet this girl and take it to the next level with her, we have had a few bumps on the way in this relationship and she won't let me live it down that she won't forgive me for what I've done until I've come and see her. Lately she has been kind of unresponsive when I try to talk to her and about my feelings for her.
Do you think that after all the heartache she still wants to be with me?

I guess it's the Aries trait that she likes actions more than words.

If you need more details please ask
Thanks

Really? 😢 That's kind of disappointing. I'm sorry about that.
I mean she says "If I come and see her and prove that I really want to be with her thing will/could change"

You are a fellow Aries what do you think?
And how did yours go/end?
Are you the Aries female or male?

@Amethyst: Thanks for the reply I really appreciate your comments

I know the long distance relationship thing does suck, It's terrible and hard. We live a few states away. I in Arkansas and her in Michigan
but I'm originally from MI and was planning on moving back anyways. Also there is this family get together we are having this summer and it so happens to be in Michigan. I really wanna play on my mysterious Pisces aspect and kind of pay her a nice surprise visit 🙂
How well do you think that would go.

Thanks for replies

Posted by lovelygirl89
we believe in actions more than words cause we ourselves are action oriented, send her flowers and chocolates or something like a nice card, be sweet and caring like she is without asking for much , then see her reactions changing

Yes that is so true, I am really trying to make an effort to send her flowers, chocolates Etc.
I mean I'm sweet in nature and showing her that I care is no obstacle for me. I rather enjoy it very much.
Any suggestions on what kind of flowers and Aries might like or does it really even matter?

Posted by lovelygirl89
hey fishey you seem nice, good luck for you and your aries 🙂
O and by the way u mentioned earlier that you did something she would nt forgive you for ? was that 'something' really intense?
cause once an arian pride is damaged it might take a long time for it to be recovered, even if we love the person , we respect ourselves, thats the reason i wanted to say to keep the discussion and the flower thingi light and airy so u too can get close together and shell open up to you a little

What had happened was lol
IT kind of goes on the lines of this. She was in a really vulnerable emotional state. Her dad was in the hospital for a week or so and she is really close to her family. I hadn't talked to her that much during all of this and I kind of forgot she was kind of hurting from this. I tried my best to comfort and reassure her that her dad would be alright but one day during it all she was with some cousins of her or w/e (hanging out) while talking to me over the phone I could barely hear her and I was trying to tell her that I was kind of sad that we weren't talking much and I felt that she was ignoring me and I was dumb enough to say to her "oh I'm starting to think this isn't going to work out" even though deep down in my heart I didn't want to believe that for one second. I guess I was being a little insecure. But having said that really upset her in more ways than one. She said after hearing that from me she didn't have a feeling of self worth dissipated, all of her familys expectations and then mine falling through the roof.

She told me she cried that night and was still kind of when she was telling me all of this over the phone. My heart sank because I had no idea how strongly she really felt about me and that I was that important, Aries really have an odd way of showing I guess.
I mean she never really lets her guard down, ya know? I felt like the most horrible person in the world after hearing this. Those were never my intentions. I never wanted to hurt her I was just craving some attention which was selfish of me. I really just want to let her know that I'm sorry and hope and pray for her forgiveness.

Do you think her wounds will ever heal and that she will forgive me? I mean would you?

I'm such an asshole 😢

BTW thanks for all the advice

Posted by lovelygirl89
to be really honest with you, that kinda hurts really bad to an aries, if u really like someone and that someone tell you , oh i dont think its gona work out so we should move on and stuff, shes away from you cause now she is thinking maybe youll leave her eventually and u dont think its gona work out , so she s kinda backing out, preparing herself to move , ofcouse she liked you and was thankful to you during all those times you supported her ! we dont care about people we dont like, if she spent time talking to you then she obviously likes ya, arians hate to waste time on someone they dont like or care about. ....will she ever forgive you?
umm yes ! she will eventually try to remember the time show she was so sweet to you and all that if youll be sweet the same way, she will eventually forgive you but itll take quite sometime for her to forget it, u could make her forget it quicker but it still wont be that quick , it takes quite a while for arians to forget something that caused their heart to break unfortunately 😢
hope that helps letme know if u need any more advice 🙂 o and np !

Thanks Lovely girl

Yeah she let me know how much it hurt, she still is by not giving me any kind of affection so I can feel the pain.
Yeah, she told me that she still cares for me and trust me but only like 5% , but is that 5% enough to have hope that she won't leave and is honest with me? Her brother who I'm cool with say that she like another guy right now but is too shy to tell him how she feels. Am I just on the sidelines now? She gave me a deadline a few days ago to come see her or were finished. IF I do though, she just says "well see what happens" I'm guessing she is still unsure but if I take this action of coming to see her which she knows would be a lot for me considering my situation. Would that be enough to prove that, YES I do want this and I do want to be with you, Look how far I just traveled. 🙂

Posted by Invigorate_Me

I am very proud of this Aries for being in a long distance relationship. LOL, the thought of an Aries in a long distance relationship and faithful thats kind of hard to believe. Aries need action honey. Mr. Fishy I suggest you take off the rose colored glasses, and please get out of your head. See this situation for what it is. When she needed you the most all you could think about was your self??_.Oh!!! and Aries are selfish, lol. You wanted all her attention and when you didn't get it, well you whined like a fucking baby. To make her give you the attention that you so desperately needed??_You used the —I don't think this is going to work?? to get whatever attention you wanted. That was said to see where her heart is, and OMG the shit backfired. One thing about an Aries they will forgive but they will never forget the bullshit you did. So, if you love and care about this Aries woman I suggest you get out of your fucking head and make the shit happen.

Thank you so much, That is exactly what I wanted to hear. Oh did It backfire alright. I wasn't even thinking when I said it. The litte voice in me was saying. You probably shouldn't say that.. but I did anyways. I realized how much I fucked up and that her still sticking around shows that she REALLY REALLY REALLY does care about me more than I ever realized.
I am so ashamed of hurting her. I feel like such an asshole. I LOVE this girl what do I do?

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Posted by Invigorate_Me

I am very proud of this Aries for being in a long distance relationship. LOL, the thought of an Aries in a long distance relationship and faithful thats kind of hard to believe. Aries need action honey. Mr. Fishy I suggest you take off the rose colored glasses, and please get out of your head. See this situation for what it is. When she needed you the most all you could think about was your self??_.Oh!!! and Aries are selfish, lol. You wanted all her attention and when you didn't get it, well you whined like a fucking baby. To make her give you the attention that you so desperately needed??_You used the —I don't think this is going to work?? to get whatever attention you wanted. That was said to see where her heart is, and OMG the shit backfired. One thing about an Aries they will forgive but they will never forget the bullshit you did. So, if you love and care about this Aries woman I suggest you get out of your fucking head and make the shit happen.

Thank you so much, That is exactly what I wanted to hear. Oh did It backfire alright. I wasn't even thinking when I said it. The litte voice in me was saying. You probably shouldn't say that.. but I did anyways. I realized how much I fucked up and that her still sticking around shows that she REALLY REALLY REALLY does care about me more than I ever realized.
I am so ashamed of hurting her. I feel like such an asshole. I LOVE this girl what do I do?

Show her how much you love her, and sweep her off her feet. Use your Pisces charm. You KNOW what she needs, and give it to her. Use your Pisces intuition. Please Please stop with the doing things to see how she really feels. Oh and try to be positive about the relationship, because Pisces can be so negative and dark and that will dampen the Aries spirits.

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Yes yes!! I know Pisces can be that way but I just want her to believe that I am sincerely sorry and that I did not mean it and still Love her and she is important to me. If Aries just wasn't so damn impatient lol I guess I can relate though. I have an Aries moon 🙂

Posted by Invigorate_Me

Posted by Fishey_Fishey

Posted by Invigorate_Me

I am very proud of this Aries for being in a long distance relationship. LOL, the thought of an Aries in a long distance relationship and faithful thats kind of hard to believe. Aries need action honey. Mr. Fishy I suggest you take off the rose colored glasses, and please get out of your head. See this situation for what it is. When she needed you the most all you could think about was your self??_.Oh!!! and Aries are selfish, lol. You wanted all her attention and when you didn't get it, well you whined like a fucking baby. To make her give you the attention that you so desperately needed??_You used the —I don't think this is going to work?? to get whatever attention you wanted. That was said to see where her heart is, and OMG the shit backfired. One thing about an Aries they will forgive but they will never forget the bullshit you did. So, if you love and care about this Aries woman I suggest you get out of your fucking head and make the shit happen.

Thank you so much, That is exactly what I wanted to hear. Oh did It backfire alright. I wasn't even thinking when I said it. The litte voice in me was saying. You probably shouldn't say that.. but I did anyways. I realized how much I fucked up and that her still sticking around shows that she REALLY REALLY REALLY does care about me more than I ever realized.
I am so ashamed of hurting her. I feel like such an asshole. I LOVE this girl what do I do?

Show her how much you love her, and sweep her off her feet. Use your Pisces charm. You KNOW what she needs, and give it to her. Use your Pisces intuition. Please Please stop with the doing things to see how she really feels. Oh and try to be positive about the relationship, because Pisces can be so negative and dark and that will dampen the Aries spirits.

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Yes yes!! I know Pisces can be that way but I try to always be positive about this relationship but she jokes around like she doesn't care and that does hurt me in a way I guess that why I tested her so many times. I've learned to trust her because my Aries is loyal to me and always has been. I just want her to believe that I am sincerely sorry and that I did

Posted by Invigorate_Me
OMG!!! She is laughing so you feel like she doesn't care. Are you kidding me? Lighten up!!!! TRUST ME??_If an Aries don't give a fuck they will tell you with NO FEAR. Since you have an Aries moon you should know how her emotions work. Wait, isn't she checking some other guy out that her brother told you about.

Yeah I agree I do need to lighten up a bit. And yes, at least that is what I heard... 😢

Posted by Midgetbull
Check your mail Fishy

HUH?

Posted by Midgetbull
Check your private messages... your mail.

Okay?.... What's the point of this, it's empty..

Posted by Midgetbull
Well it's in my sent box. Just forget it.

Send it again...

Posted by Midgetbull
I sent it 3 times, it keeps giving me an error. I don't know what the deal is. It's not that important though, was basically just saying i can relate to you.

Oh.. haha You could have just said that then dummie Xp

I know the original people who read this probably don't read it anymore but I have great news.
Me and my Aries finally patched things up.
We worked things out and I even got her to confess her great love for me 🙂
Which was hard to do because she was so stubborn but she said it. HAHAHAHA

FLAWLESS VICTORY!!!

lol


Yes, you should listen to all these Aries girls in here and basically tear your balls off, put them in a bag and deliver them to her.

Posted by P-Angel
lol


Yes, you should listen to all these Aries girls in here and basically tear your balls off, put them in a bag and deliver them to her.

LOL!!!

Posted by amethyst2002
I hope you don't have that same attitude with her face to face.

Nah, I'm not dumb, I know not to act that way around her. She hates egotistical guys. Although She says I'm one over the phone.

Posted by P-Angel
lol


Yes, you should listen to all these Aries girls in here and basically tear your balls off, put them in a bag and deliver them to her.

HA!

Posted by GATECRASHER
this thread is kinda crazy..didnt you say in another thread that the two of you have never met in person?

Yes that is true but I think that was this thread...

Posted by P-Angel
lol


Yes, you should listen to all these Aries girls in here and basically tear your balls off, put them in a bag and deliver them to her.

lol... randomness

Posted by zenalchemy

Posted by P-Angel
lol


Yes, you should listen to all these Aries girls in here and basically tear your balls off, put them in a bag and deliver them to her.

lol... randomness

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The only way my balls are being delivered to her is if they are being delivered straight into her mouth 🙂

^^^ she'll prolly like that maybe

Posted by zenalchemy
^^^ she'll prolly like that maybe

GRIN 😄

Posted by GATECRASHER
you two are professing love for each other but have never met in person. how did you meet her?

My cousin

Posted by GATECRASHER
so your cousin knows her and gives you her number and you two have been in phone contact for how long? is this right? and how old are you?

Yeah that's about right, I'm 20 years old and so is she. Is this 20 questions now? LOL