Please help Arians!

Hello to the new people on here and old =)


I have yet again met another aries male! Lol. Well..........
We met we spoke hours and hours and hours as gemini's and aries do. Of course a spark. He told me from the getco he was scared of being hurt however was looking for a relationship, basically saying he was ready he was successful and stable. I was a bit guarded to but also ready so i let him hunt me down (lol). We grew close pretty quickly emotionally,mentally,& even on a spiritual level ...sexually came a bit after. In this process we saw eachother every weekend (we both worked during the week)After we became intimate we started spending every weekend together. In this time i became terrified as gemini's also do lol (i started feeling pretty attactched to him) though i was still my social self with my own life, I began looking at my phone to see if he actually had texted back Lmao! Well we got into a little tiffy, well heated tiffy and told eachother both to "F'off!" with me starting it sigh lol. We didn't speak for a week and I contacted him. Just casual hi how are you he said it was nice to hear from you, spoke a bit on the phone and he began the hunt again Lol This time i was READY! bring on the heat....Yeah well what comes around goes around i suppose. His behavior starts to change....We were slow dancing one night after we went out *veryyyy cuteee* lol The look in his eyes were.......It looked like the look of deep lust/love. He then told me after a little spat which i didn't start this time that maybe things aren't working out, he started to cry on the phone.I had asked him i was pretty upset too, to please be sure what he was saying & he responded i'm not sure. I felt he felt scared. I Didn't pressure him, I tried to reassure him but stubborn stubborn stubborn, So I said i really don't want to let you go but i do respect what your saying. I understood although I was hurt. We have been to two family weddings with eachother as dates and met parents & close friends. It's about 5 months into it. He then contacted me back a week later. Saying "hey, sorry to bother you but i was wondering if you were interested in a job yada yada " LOL He knew i was in the process looking for a different job. At this time i'm confused . I do not like back and fourth so any advice—