Question for the Aries women, she hates or what?

Hello,

I come here because I'm curious about an Aries woman I met not long ago. Let's say uh... she got mad, MAD to the point she tried to keep pestering me afterwards.

Please ladies if I write something that sounds a bit offensive don't take it personal, I've met plenty of Aries women who are great people (hell... my own mother is Aries).

I'm just curious and come here askin for questions.

This girl (Aries) sat down next to me and just bluntly asked my name an all that jazz, she seemed cool and all. She told me she had a boyfriend and how she has no friends. (which I found cute somehow lol)

anyway... she started to be overly critical about my opinions, but to the point it was even a bit offensive, like she mas makin fun of me and not in a good way (I don't really take myself seriously but hate when people act like they're always right).

It got so bad that I just didn't want to get along with her no more, just one day told her through a FB message that she better stop talkin to me, that I couldn't stand her anymore (lol) and didn't care about her, he writes back a bunch of stuff that I didn't even care to read but it was along the lines that I did care because I wrote her that through FB.

I didn't even reply and forgot about it.

So... next day and first thing in the morning she enters classroom, comes to me and starts YELLING at me how I should just leave our team (we were in the same working group) if I couldn't stand her no more.

I was surprised about this but didn't even answer anything to her, I was so tired that day because I worked all night long on some project and just got myself to sleep again waiting for class to start.

So she leaves and sits down.

We stopped talking and everything's good, but from now on whenever she had the chance to get at me for something she did, it was freaking me out. (If I said something in class she would say something to bother me, and again I just didn't care to reply and ignored it).

So one day she did this and I wasn't in the mood, and told her I was tired about her and she bothering me all the time.

"You're the one who started it!" she said

She got so mad, she was yelling and makin a scene, she even insulted me.

"Wbat?" I asked

She told me that I started it because of what I said on FB.

"Get over it already, I don't even pay attention to you no more" I told her, she got SO MAD after this and started YELLING more

"I'm the one who doesn't pay attention to you! Get

(Cont.)

"I'm the one who doesn't pay attention to you! Get over it yourself" she told me

I just didn't care to reply to this, and a teacher walked our way saw this and told us to stop "fighting".

Time passed and one day this girl came to me, saw my shirt and was like "Oh nice shirt 🙂" and left. I was like WTF

Can you girls explain this to me? LOL

lol

does she have a crush?

Posted by bkbella86
lol

does she have a crush?

She has a boyfriend.

but I'm asking, is this normal?

why she kept doing this? I don't get women

Posted by Capricorn808

Posted by bkbella86
lol

does she have a crush?

She has a boyfriend.

but I'm asking, is this normal?

why she kept doing this? I don't get women

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Doesn't matter if she has a bf... she might have a crush.

Posted by Capricorn808

Posted by bkbella86
lol

does she have a crush?

She has a boyfriend.

but I'm asking, is this normal?

why she kept doing this? I don't get women

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maybe she has a lot of fire in her chart, hence the loudness...yeah she probs just has a crush on you and doesn't know how to deal with it.

She's being an idiot.
She's an aries who took your comments as "critisism" completely to heart and then tried to make you suffer for it publicly. Immature aries people always dish out criticism but HATE receiving it; they just can't deal with it.

Then after time had passed, she had claimed down and decided to be nice to you.
I think she assumed you were a bit of a pushover. But your perceived criticism was a perfect excuse to blow up at you.

We are fire signs, and fight fire with fire. The best and most effective way to deal with this girl is to not give her the fire...and ignore her. She might goad you from time to time, but DO NOT BITE. Just chuckle at her and move on, as she will be the one who will look stupid.
If you fight with her she will think you care and that will encourage her more lol

Posted by AriesGirl74
She's being an idiot.
She's an aries who took your comments as "critisism" completely to heart and then tried to make you suffer for it publicly. Immature aries people always dish out criticism but HATE receiving it; they just can't deal with it.

Then after time had passed, she had claimed down and decided to be nice to you.
I think she assumed you were a bit of a pushover. But your perceived criticism was a perfect excuse to blow up at you.

We are fire signs, and fight fire with fire. The best and most effective way to deal with this girl is to not give her the fire...and ignore her. She might goad you from time to time, but DO NOT BITE. Just chuckle at her and move on, as she will be the one who will look stupid.
If you fight with her she will think you care and that will encourage her more lol

+1

Posted by AriesGirl74
She's being an idiot.
She's an aries who took your comments as "critisism" completely to heart and then tried to make you suffer for it publicly. Immature aries people always dish out criticism but HATE receiving it; they just can't deal with it.

Then after time had passed, she had claimed down and decided to be nice to you.
I think she assumed you were a bit of a pushover. But your perceived criticism was a perfect excuse to blow up at you.

We are fire signs, and fight fire with fire. The best and most effective way to deal with this girl is to not give her the fire...and ignore her. She might goad you from time to time, but DO NOT BITE. Just chuckle at her and move on, as she will be the one who will look stupid.
If you fight with her she will think you care and that will encourage her more lol

Pushover?

How does an Aries woman assume I'm a pushover?

I'm normally very respectful, hardly offensive towards anybody, even when they deserve it.

But if you make me mad (which is hard), people get scared and get frightened, I can be very violent when is needed but tend to repress it ALOT

alot of self control

Posted by Capricorn808

Posted by AriesGirl74
She's being an idiot.
She's an aries who took your comments as "critisism" completely to heart and then tried to make you suffer for it publicly. Immature aries people always dish out criticism but HATE receiving it; they just can't deal with it.

Then after time had passed, she had claimed down and decided to be nice to you.
I think she assumed you were a bit of a pushover. But your perceived criticism was a perfect excuse to blow up at you.

We are fire signs, and fight fire with fire. The best and most effective way to deal with this girl is to not give her the fire...and ignore her. She might goad you from time to time, but DO NOT BITE. Just chuckle at her and move on, as she will be the one who will look stupid.
If you fight with her she will think you care and that will encourage her more lol

Pushover?

How does an Aries woman assume I'm a pushover?

I'm normally very respectful, hardly offensive towards anybody, even when they deserve it.

But if you make me mad (which is hard), people get scared and get frightened, I can be very violent when is needed but tend to repress it ALOT

alot of self control

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lol, you're not like that..I think what she was trying to say was..the girl wants to test your waters and gauge your reactions. She doesn't know how to deal with her emotions properly, so she's reacting instead of thinking before she acts.

Posted by biosynthesis

Posted by Capricorn808

Posted by AriesGirl74
She's being an idiot.
She's an aries who took your comments as "critisism" completely to heart and then tried to make you suffer for it publicly. Immature aries people always dish out criticism but HATE receiving it; they just can't deal with it.

Then after time had passed, she had claimed down and decided to be nice to you.
I think she assumed you were a bit of a pushover. But your perceived criticism was a perfect excuse to blow up at you.

We are fire signs, and fight fire with fire. The best and most effective way to deal with this girl is to not give her the fire...and ignore her. She might goad you from time to time, but DO NOT BITE. Just chuckle at her and move on, as she will be the one who will look stupid.
If you fight with her she will think you care and that will encourage her more lol

Pushover?

How does an Aries woman assume I'm a pushover?

I'm normally very respectful, hardly offensive towards anybody, even when they deserve it.

But if you make me mad (which is hard), people get scared and get frightened, I can be very violent when is needed but tend to repress it ALOT

alot of self control

lol, you're not like that..I think what she was trying to say was..the girl wants to test your waters and gauge your reactions. She doesn't know how to deal with her emotions properly, so she's reacting instead of thinking before she acts.

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Lol

She actually was scared of me, I remember now.

After our little "fight" I once opened the door for her (because yes, that's how mom and dad raised me), and the ENTIRE time she was looking at me like if I were about to hit her in the face or something

Also, I tried to invite her to a house party I was throwing to make peace, and she was like "But you hate me, why should I go? you probably want to kill me or hit me"

I asked her if I looked like a bad person to her

and she said that I did

I rolled my eyes and left

^lol..yeah you just have to do that. I don't think this is an aries thing, she's just immature. But her natural aries tendencies have come out in this scenario. However, the fact that you are asking about her actions and analyzing this might also imply that you kind of like her back 😉...jk 😛

Posted by biosynthesis
^lol..yeah you just have to do that. I don't think this is an aries thing, she's just immature. But her natural aries tendencies have come out in this scenario. However, the fact that you are asking about her actions and analyzing this might also imply that you kind of like her back 😉...jk 😛

I analize everything, EVERYTHING

it doesn't matter if I like someone or not, I like to understand people and their psyche.

Yes she's extremely attractive (she knows this), typical blonde barbie doll or something that everyone wants to treetrunk.

I wasn't fazed by her looks because I've always been around beautiful women, she somehow liked the fact that I didn't try to get in her pants or something

Posted by Capricorn808

Posted by biosynthesis
^lol..yeah you just have to do that. I don't think this is an aries thing, she's just immature. But her natural aries tendencies have come out in this scenario. However, the fact that you are asking about her actions and analyzing this might also imply that you kind of like her back 😉...jk 😛

I analize everything, EVERYTHING

it doesn't matter if I like someone or not, I like to understand people and their psyche.

Yes she's extremely attractive (she knows this), typical blonde barbie doll or something that everyone wants to treetrunk.

I wasn't fazed by her looks because I've always been around beautiful women, she somehow liked the fact that I didn't try to get in her pants or something

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lol. knew it! Someone's smitten!!

ah the revelations 😄..I'm just playin. Don't overthink it.

Posted by biosynthesis
ah the revelations 😄..I'm just playin. Don't overthink it.

and you wouldn't be far from the truth, I'm not smitten by her exactly, but in general I LOVE aries women. There's something sexy about their hot tempers and confidence.

They're the kind of girl who approach me out of the blue, quite ballsy in my opinion and I absolutely LOVE when they do it.

Posted by Capricorn808

Posted by biosynthesis
ah the revelations 😄..I'm just playin. Don't overthink it.

and you wouldn't be far from the truth, I'm not smitten by her exactly, but in general I LOVE aries women. There's something sexy about their hot tempers and confidence.

They're the kind of girl who approach me out of the blue, quite ballsy in my opinion and I absolutely LOVE when they do it.

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maybe you have some fire in you chart? Whats your rising and moon?

Ah so now we get more of the story... More that you decide to tell us and now it's YOU that sounds immature with no idea how to act with her and not just the other way round!
Sounds like you should both get a life, analysing this shit is not the issue, it's the low maturity levels you both have which means neither of you can deal with this