urbansophisticate
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awwww man........
Posted by Cancan26And I don't wanna treat him like sh*t. I wanna be nurturing and sweet! Unfortunately, he doesn't respond well to that side of me.
awwww man........
Posted by urbansophisticatewell truthfully ...I have recently went out with an aries ....I still refusing him to be honest...I don't think we are right for each other ...he's a good guy....I just don't think it will...work ...Posted by Cancan26And I don't wanna treat him like sh*t. I wanna be nurturing and sweet! Unfortunately, he doesn't respond well to that side of me.
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from what I understand aries men like the chase ...once the chase is over they are bored ..you don't have to treat him bad ...just keep it interesting ...and challenging ...
Posted by Cancan26This.Posted by urbansophisticatewell truthfully ...I have recently went out with an aries ....I still refusing him to be honest...I don't think we are right for each other ...he's a good guy....I just don't think it will...work ...Posted by Cancan26And I don't wanna treat him like sh*t. I wanna be nurturing and sweet! Unfortunately, he doesn't respond well to that side of me.
awwww man........
from what I understand aries men like the chase ...once the chase is over they are bored ..you don't have to treat him bad ...just keep it interesting ...and challenging ...
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Although that doesn't mean you stop being nurturing. You just can't become complacent around us.
*eyeroll*
@arieslove hmmm, basically he likes being treated like shit?
When I finally accepted his offer and went out with him to a function that involved his close friends, he was bubbly and wouldn't stop talking about how happy he was that I came.
So I started opening up. For ex: responding "I miss you too" whenever he'd say I miss you. When I would respond positively, it's like he wasn't accepting it. So I backed up and started ignoring him, telling him I didn't have time to see him, I didn't feel like texting. Then wallah, he's back doing that mushy shit.
Makes sense that he likes the chase. I'll give him a chase if that's what he desire. However, I'm not up for the games. I'll eat the karma but I won't accept his gaming behavior.
When I finally accepted his offer and went out with him to a function that involved his close friends, he was bubbly and wouldn't stop talking about how happy he was that I came.
So I started opening up. For ex: responding "I miss you too" whenever he'd say I miss you. When I would respond positively, it's like he wasn't accepting it. So I backed up and started ignoring him, telling him I didn't have time to see him, I didn't feel like texting. Then wallah, he's back doing that mushy shit.
Makes sense that he likes the chase. I'll give him a chase if that's what he desire. However, I'm not up for the games. I'll eat the karma but I won't accept his gaming behavior.
Deciding whether an aries man is seeking a chase or playing games is difficult :/
because I like knowing, I'm going to test the waters some more to find out.
because I like knowing, I'm going to test the waters some more to find out.
@arieslove didn't look at it in that perspective.
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