What is Love to an Aries Woman?

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Fishey_Fishey
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Thank you once again for the wonderful replies 🙂

It's just a question that has been brewing in my mind for a while now.

I'm Sorta kind of with this Aries right now and I get a little confused now and again if she
how she shows affection and her caring side. She is the type that as she puts it "Never shows her weak side"
I feel that if I haven't really seen it yet then there was something that I was doing wrong or either not doing right.

And as one of you said something about "Love" being to an Aries woman Trust Admiration and respect. I strive so hard to please my Aries but don't think I'm making any progress. I try and give her all of these things because I want her to open up to me.
She just doesn't believe that after seeing all of her flaws that I still Love and care for her.
Maybe I'm playing it a little to passive.

But she has told me that she just wants me to be patient and I know that is an Aries thing I was once told before.. Aries are impatient but If you want them to be yours you have to be patient and they will make sure that you don't regret it. 😉

Thanks again 🙂
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Mistery
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"...But she has told me that she just wants me to be patient..."

It sounds like you are getting somewhere if she said that. Our love of freedom can be at odds with wanting to commit to a relationship. We take time to reconcile those opposite drives.

Her idea of 'weakness' may be quite different than yours. It may not even sound like weakness to you. For example, I consider it a weakness if I have to ask for help. In my mind, I should be able to take care of it and really hate imposing. You sound like you might want to feel needed by her and that's a tough one for us. We hate to ask for help but we don't realize that is how men show their love. I didn't get it until a bf got pissed at me for not calling him first when I needed someone.

Being sweet and attentive is not passive. It's the most effective way of bringing out the sensitive, romantic side in us.

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zenalchemy
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hmmm fishey,

I strive so hard to please my Aries but don't think I'm making any progress. I try and give her all of these things because I want her to open up to me.
She just doesn't believe that after seeing all of her flaws that I still Love and care for her.
Maybe I'm playing it a little to passive.


so what are your flaws? I am not sure I understand this... so you are playing her so she can fall for you? When you think she has, what next?

About your love question, following from what mistery says Her idea of 'weakness' may be quite different than yours. It may not even sound like weakness to you. , this is about how pisces and aries view life and express themselves, it is different. Love will NOT be expressed in the same way so what your idea is of how she should express, you may NEVER get that, what you want her to OPEN up to may NEVER be her idea of what opening up is, or she may be even opening up but you do not speak the same language so it is not easy to tell.

Just relax, ease up on the trying to please her if this is not real, you will teach her a few lessons anyway by just being you....as mutable signs are one of the most compatible with cardinal signs. No ego battle so you can have great peace between you.

But she has told me that she just wants me to be patient Are you pressuring her in any way? No matter how subtle.... The problem is if you don't let her express how she wants, when she wants and she doesn't let you express how you want, when you want She just doesn't believe that after seeing all of her flaws that I still Love and care for her.
This will start to happen more, flaws start to grow where they may not have been flaws for other more compatible pairing.

Remember, you are young and bound to be restless... go kick a football if you get impatient 😛
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HolmeSuckle
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This is a tricky question lol I guess it depends on the person im with I try to give them what they need as an individual not necessarily what i think they need. (that's in all my relationships, family, friends, romance etc. For me love is total honesty and having a laugh. So i guess i just be myself lol but i also let them see me at my most vulnerable. I also tend to show them my bad side first so they know what there getting themselves in for. "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
— Marilyn Monroe

I guess i do the normal things. Cook for them give them a massage when there tired from work make them smile when there feeling a little down and i don't judge them. You know that kinda stuff.

Hey, i'm 19 i know what love is to an extent but i don't think i'll truly ever know and i think thats the beauty of it.

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wateraries
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Posted by Run262
For me: I give 110% to the person I'm in love with - I want to learn about them, be around them, talk constantly about them, me, us...make plans, travel, share, trust, just plain BE THERE for them 110% .

The thing is, the trick, that which breaks our heart eventually - we want the same back - we want the other person to give 110% - rarely does that happen. Just my experience.



Wow, this is exactly how I feel...
What are your venus sign? Not to generalize, but it doesn't sound like you have venus in aries ^^
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Posted by wateraries
Posted by Run262
For me: I give 110% to the person I'm in love with - I want to learn about them, be around them, talk constantly about them, me, us...make plans, travel, share, trust, just plain BE THERE for them 110% .

The thing is, the trick, that which breaks our heart eventually - we want the same back - we want the other person to give 110% - rarely does that happen. Just my experience.



Wow, this is exactly how I feel...
What are your venus sign? Not to generalize, but it doesn't sound like you have venus in aries ^^
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I do. that's why i can relate as well 😄
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love for me (maybe other aries women too) is a partnership. I give you give, I care you care ect

If I'm giving and sharing and letting you into my life I expect the same from my man. If your agenda/plan is to use me as a ego boost, trophy, project, time filler (in the meantime casual thing), or sex toy then I guarantee the vibe is felt. If I want something serious that vibe you give will make me drop the whole thing and run

I don't get this silly idea people have that Aries women like to chase. That's stupid. Aries women like to win. We don't chase we just engage with you and have lots of passion and drive to show you we want to love you.

If your playing stupid games Aries women don't dwell on it to long. They just go, off they go.

don't play games I'd advise. Just be straight up and back your words with actions xx