What the Hell Happened :(

Howdy Y'all, So I met this virgo woman on a dating site. Im a typical Aries. I'm a real smooth dude but I haven't had a exclusive relationship b4. Im 33 and finally just getting my life together I was as wild and reckless as they come. After the last time I got arrested I changed my life for the positive and haven't looked back since about 7 years ago. I've since graduated college and just a month or so ago was offered a 6 figure position opening up a new office in a different city which I accepted.
With that being said I also met the first woman(the virgo) that I think I could be exclusive and build with. Things moved fast we got along great. When we met I brought the fire out of her. We didn't have sex
So heres the thing she had a stalker b4 I came around which she told me about. Of course me being Aries I challenged her one night by sending some emotional messages nothing hostile or evening stalkerish just expressing my feeling. Basically I text her a mean joke than I felt bad and sent about 5 love text to make up for it which she ignored it all.
Next day she tells me I scared her and it's too much so I said cool. I told her she's too emotionally damaged by this stalker dude and Im not him she needs to let that go. I even told her Im here to help her overcome her fear.
So long story short she stopped pursuing me after I sent those emotional text. She would respond to my text but was distant. I told her when she realizes how amazing I am and how much she missing out to call me.
A week went past and valentines was yesterday which i don't celebrate that butter with me everyday is valentines so I didn't contact her. By the way I did come on really strong in the beginning I had told her I was moving but we would be fine and she was with it.
So I been texting her messages and love songs via youtube today and I even told her I was leaving to my new city and would she like to see me.
NOTHING
Im not going to pursue her anymore I have nothing but opportunity ahead me. We just seemed so perfect for each other. Neither of us has kids and we both are seekers of knowledge.
I just would like to hear any comments you can share about the situation. I know virgo goes distant when thinking but treetrunk it plus she petty as hell I think she just moved on. I understand why she was upset and I did apologize for making her uncomfortable. I made myself look a little weak but damn Im Awesome What the Hell Happened 😢

I didn't do it on purpose. So I gave her space and didn't do anything else like that because Im the furthest from a stalker. Yeah I guess its my fault but damn everything was perfect I guess it wasn't meant to be. I think she was upset up the stupid joke although she says she thought it was funny

Cant lie she was a great catch. Lets me know there is somebody out there for me even more amazing. Hopefully Ill be ready but who knows Im impulsive

Why are you asking us? You know exactly what you did.. You came off as creepy and like a stalker and she "dumped" your ass.. Come on.. You're a great catch? Please. You sound full of yourself and really annoying.. I really want to like my Aries "brothers" and "sisters" but damn.. I'm about to start trolling my own damn sign.. grow up.. and quit acting like your the shit.. you're not..She's not missing much.. you are.

Wait, Damnata is this your man?

*breathes* okay, I needed to let that out, sorry.. What did you say to her exactly? Women love to overreact and it really depends, she could have taken you too seriously, it happens..

How long have you known her? You didn't lose her because you were weak, you lost her because of the way you were expressing yourself to her.. You moved too fast.. and now you need to back off. Quit sending her lovey dovey videos and messages.. back off.. right now. Its coming across as creepy. Even to me.. I've been there, wanting to prove to someone you're not who they think you are but it's not worth it.

For real I am that deal and Im just realizing my power. I am NOT perfect and neither is she. Im telling you because I've been lifeless reading every virgo and aries page online for the last 2 weeks. I didn't know her but a few weeks. She was the first female I respected. If it wasn't for that stalker shit she could of been perfect. I told her I was single because women always treat me inappropriately based on other mens actions. Acusing me of shit that I won't tolerate Such as stalking. She knows Im awesome and so does everybody else the thing is Im just realizing it. I have insecurity issue but not anymore she just helped me with that. It's my fault but its hers too. Im happy because I actually found someone I can love. I blew it but I bet I will find some better.
I just text her that Im sorry and I can feel she is gone So I'll go away I told her I let her down and myself with my impulsive ego. I told her that since I can't be with her I hope when I find someone else their just like her hopefully I'll be ready.
THANKS FAMILY

Really its her loss She's new to america were in Chicago. I feel sorry for her these lame dudes out here will eat here alive Ha!

Posted by JustBlaze
For real I am that deal and Im just realizing my power. I am NOT perfect and neither is she. Im telling you because I've been lifeless reading every virgo and aries page online for the last 2 weeks. I didn't know her but a few weeks. She was the first female I respected. If it wasn't for that stalker shit she could of been perfect. I told her I was single because women always treat me inappropriately based on other mens actions. Acusing me of shit that I won't tolerate Such as stalking. She knows Im awesome and so does everybody else the thing is Im just realizing it. I have insecurity issue but not anymore she just helped me with that. It's my fault but its hers too. Im happy because I actually found someone I can love. I blew it but I bet I will find some better.
I just text her that Im sorry and I can feel she is gone So I'll go away I told her I let her down and myself with my impulsive ego. I told her that since I can't be with her I hope when I find someone else their just like her hopefully I'll be ready.
THANKS FAMILY

Really its her loss She's new to america were in Chicago. I feel sorry for her these lame dudes out here will eat here alive Ha!

I understand. just try and calm that ego.. and stop the creepy messages..more women will come along and stay..

I need someone who accepts me just like I accept them. Im an Aries I make mistakes. Im honest and I say whats on my mind. I need to be me. I can accept anything from anybody as long as their sincere. I don't play games. I take risk. I like a challenge I guess she was to easy. Just needed a little chaos. I fall in love with the right chick it doesn't matter what she wants. I thought she could handle me. I will try to take your advice so I stay out of trouble. I don't like to date I know what I want. I guess I need to date so I have few women that way I don't give one too much of me because women can't handle me. Im looking for someone I can build a spiritual connection with. These women are emotionally scarred so it's hard.

and how the hell would i know how stalkers text. not like i said or did anything hostile. Al Green said aint nothin wrong with being in love with someone. Well she was Awesome I think I want a virgo. Maybe I need an aries

Bro you are very wise that darkness line was incredible. Yeah I always been fly but I never had my shit together so yeah your right. I just got my shit together so the proving myself days should be over especially after I just had this super woman fall for me. Bro she is exotic and accomplished. Always been a little intimidated by the accomplished. She fell for me it was beautiful we just messed it up. She will come back they all do but Im changing my number for work in the new city so she might be assed out. She is my new standard Ha Ha. I feel amazing Im about to finally enjoy my life. I didn't need to be doing no LDR anyway Im about to rock St louis. I need to just not show my love so fast. I didn't use to be passionate with women so this is new to me. I use to only bang other dudes girls so there was never any emotion but now Im evolving and want my own for spiritual purposes. Yeah Im going to control my emotions better thats the key. Stay Cooler than a fan and I can have it all and than Ill be perfect. WATCH! I love this and I love you all! Zodiac Don watch my feet! ARIES GODS OF PASSION!!!!!!!!!!

I know but Im not conceited Im Aries

Posted by JustBlaze
and how the hell would i know how stalkers text. not like i said or did anything hostile. Al Green said aint nothin wrong with being in love with someone. Well she was Awesome I think I want a virgo. Maybe I need an aries

2 Aries equals too much ego.. go for a Sagittarius or Leo.. they're both fire signs but have less ego.. astrologically speaking..

Thanks for the direction. I love reading about aries because it makes me feel good and its spot on. I don't read about other signs until some shit pops off. So far as far as I know I had Taurus, Pieces, and gemini all of them came with super drama the rest of the girls I didn't care enough about to know their birthdays but my virgo was the business. I think I might of just needed to learn from her though. I introduced her to a lot of information. I wan't to suck the bartholin gland out of her while standing upside down I wish she was here! ZODIAC DON! ARIES

Posted by JustBlaze
I told her when she realizes how amazing I am and how much she missing out to call me.

Yeah, you should start by getting over yourself.

You didn't make her feel a little weak..but in your ego, I doubt you can see past that. You insult her by calling her emotionally damaged, then start the lovey dovey shit but this love is so deep for you, you just rejoice at the world of opportunity before you.

She's smart.

Keep being too awesome for Virgos!

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Why are you asking us? You know exactly what you did.. You came off as creepy and like a stalker and she "dumped" your ass.. Come on.. You're a great catch? Please. You sound full of yourself and really annoying.. I really want to like my Aries "brothers" and "sisters" but damn.. I'm about to start trolling my own damn sign.. grow up.. and quit acting like your the shit.. you're not..She's not missing much.. you are.

Wait, Damnata is this your man?

No hon, he is *truly* awesome. No irony here.

And a gentleman to boot. It's just he has a lot of problems on the family front and I need to let him solve that. Everything's ok 🙂

Posted by JustBlaze
If it wasn't for that stalker shit she could of been perfect.

Just shows how much you understand about people.

LOL

Posted by JustBlaze
I need someone who accepts me just like I accept them.

Just like you accepted her how she was...stalker shit and everything. You really understood that didn't you?

Damn, I never met Aries like this in real life...me and Tiz must have dealt with the extreme in Aries folks

Posted by JustBlaze
She will come back they all do

Lol...we didn't get how awesome you were from all the other posts.

Not settling down comes as no surprise...you love yourself too much so there's no love left for another.

I see where your coming from. I said I was a little weak. She is emotionally damaged. She associated me with a dude from a past relationship over an incident when you look at it really have nothing in common with me. She needs to get over it Forgive but don't forget. Any PERSON that cares about here will send and emotional text. I said the same shit I said every other day. I just sent a silly joke and felt bad. I didn't do any stalker shit. I was already telling her how amazing she is all the time in detail.
I want to settle down I don't wanna be a being a whore I just realize that women don't appreciate when a man is totally into them especially in the beginning. They think your needy or stupid shit like that so since Im ready to love hard maybe I should spread it around since being focused on the one who I think is right can be too much for them that they have to call me a stalker or some silly shit.
You right you never met an Aries like me ZODIAK DON ARIES and you probably never will just like everybody else. So if you don't see potential and you wan't to focus on my mistake rather than all the love and truth and optimism and respect in my post thats your choice do you. I appreciate your view. I can't make everybody happy. Were Awesome ZODIAK DON ARIES

Posted by tiziani
"The road to darkness is a journey... not a lightswitch."

A Libra talking about the darkness? Did you randomly picked a word Libra or is it the merc retro? 😛

Ok, if you're ZODIAK DON ARIES I cannot argue with that.

*bows before you*

He must have stolen it from someone else, then 😛

Posted by Damnata

Posted by JustBlaze
I need someone who accepts me just like I accept them.

Just like you accepted her how she was...stalker shit and everything. You really understood that didn't you?

Damn, I never met Aries like this in real life...me and Tiz must have dealt with the extreme in Aries folks

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I did accept her I told her I was here to help her overcome her fear. What do you call that I could've not taken her serious then but she is amazing and we could work on that just like we could work on my anxiety.

Dude, you're bouncing from one emotion to the next. Get steady.

It's too soon to talk about love and that's what made her head for the hills. It comes across as stalkerish. How can you not see that?

She was talking that love shit too.

I swear I will use "ZODIAC DON ARIES" as my signature in a lot of posts.

This is so funny.

You love me already

I do, I do. 😄

I just made some simple mistakes. I really am sad although now I getting over it. Like I said Im not use to relationships or dealing with quality women. She was amazing and I feel bad that I upset her but I will do better. I didn't even mean to meet her my whole purpose of going on the dating site was to meet women in the city I am moving to. I met her and became infatuated. Last thing I needed is to be in love when I move to St Louis to start a new life. I hadn't been interested in anyone in a while so I was rusty so now I'm ready to get it in with a awesome lady.

Awww..you ARE adorable.

I'm moving to St. Louis with you.

For real I need love!

You're a fucking idiot and an asshole.

Aren't you embarrassed that you admitted to being 33 and you're behaving like an 18 year old boy?

30 is the new 20 yes I feel like a idiot

you must be a woman. You know us Aries will always be childlike in some ways some times

No, you're just a moron with an atrocious ego. Any sane woman would head for the hills.

sad but true. too bad because my love is second to none

Rocky; he's a typical Aries in the fact that he always wants the last word

*eye roll*

IM not unreasonable it might take 1 to mess up a relationship but it takes two to make one work. I only told u of the one mistake i made and not all the sweet things she knows i care about her deeply thats why she never told me to leave her alone although i am. its not how you fall down its how you get up. She didn't want to get up quick enough for me at that time. Who knows maybe Im the one who was saved a lot of grief. You have to remember I may have been a little unique but I never actually said or did anything to disrespect her. Have I become her enemy because I told her the truth?

Posted by AriesGirl74
Rocky; he's a typical Aries in the fact that he always wants the last word

*eye roll*

I call troll, tbh.

Im going to give you an example of my awesomeness. As I said the last time I was arrested I decided to change my life. Before then I had been selling dope since a teenager in and out of trouble gang banging and being an outlaw not just in chicago but everywhere detroit vegas even in Asia. The law took everything the last time including my ego. I worked when I came home from the bootcamp went throough discrimination at my job and won some money. Used that money to pay for college and graduated with honors. Went into sales because I still wanted to hustle just legally. This new job I have is with a fortune 500 company. I've only been there 5 months and the've offered me an opportunity to open a new office. I should easily make 200+ this year and I promise I will work less than full time hours. I get brand new 2014 Large crew cab truck plus two paid 5star week vacations for me and a lady. Im just getting started. Thats just scratching the surface. When I say I'm awesome I don't mean Im perfect I mean I am a living inspiration in many ways. Read this thread and the virgo one with an open mind and not only will you recognize awesomeness you will recognize aries at it finest. ZODIAK DON! ARIES GODS OF PASSION!!!!!!!!

I text her a silly joke??_. The monkey said to the father father why do all these people think were so ugly. The father said son relax look at the one who reads this. Then I sent another one more corny. I was always telling her how amazing and beautiful she is all the time I thought I should switch it up a little. Subconsciously I think I was testing her strength. When she didn't respond I started feeling bad and sent her about 5 text over a few hours saying please forgive me for my bad jokes and how much I adore her. In the morning she act like I stalked her a little bit and asked was I emotionally unstable. I told her I was a lil crazy but not emotionally unstable. I told her I thought I might of hurt her feeling with my joke and in case I did I wanted to cheer her up by sending the 5 messages. I don't know shit about stalking and all that I just follow my heart and do whats feels right. She said she fell asleep and that she liked my joke but I really don't believe her. I told her next time I will wait for her response and I won't send her multiple text like that. She still went cold I really break norms I don't follow rules especially dating rules. I do what I want I just deal with the consequences and thats what happened here. She didn't want to let it go. She acted distant with me which I understood I just didn't deserve it and she really didn't deserve me if she is so petty. I was in love with the idea of being in love with her.

thats exactly what happened. she had been stalked b4 I came around and she said she didn't want to take any chances. Obviously she still traumatized by her experience with that dude. Im actually offended that she associated me with that dude. I tried to be patient with her virgo analytical mind but I got bored with it all. I was just too much and to exciting too passionate and made her to hot to fast. Plus she knew I was moving and probably was scared to invest to much in me. One thing is for sure Im not a stalker and she pushed away an awesome aries because she being controlled by her bogeyman. She so sweet and wonderful she has to let that shit go. I do understand but it is what it is. I wish I could be there for her and protect but I guess it aint meant to be. She's wise she'll figure it out

Its been a couple weeks I been trying to give her space and let her come to me. So I just send text her a nice song or some knowledge to let her know I was thinking of her now and then she would usually say thanks but thats it. I couldn't get used to her not showing interest in me. Im a fool for her love but not a goofy. I WILL NOT except feeling taken for granted for long. Especially right now this is the best time of my life!

Wow thats awesome lol. Feb thanks for your insight you are very wise and your time is very much appreciated!

Thanks Soultalk I wasn't ready for her, Hopefully this situation helps her someway as well.

I have to admit Im so horny and fired up over this woman that Im going to completely ravish the first woman I seduce to my new home. Im so hot that Im going to lust every inch of her body until she has 100 orgasms. Im going to release all her pressure points Im talking hours of pleasure i might even worship her feet something I never do. I need to get this out of my system. I have a burning desire for this woman that I need to fulfill. I can't wait I go back to my new city today! ARIES ON FIRE ZODIAK DON GOD OF PASSION!!!!!!!!!!!!! GO ARIES

Yeah dude this is my life

Thats not the case at all I had her so hot the first night we were together I had to push her off me. I did that because I wasn't in a hurry with her. See you all take me as a arrogant jerk. I can be but with her I was all about romance and respect thats why I know that she likes me if not more. She was all in I treated her like a knight in shining armor would. I swept her of her feet. I was bringing the divinity out of her and she was loving it. I just made one mistake and she let that ruin our relationship. Thats what I mean by emotional damage. She has that stalker in her head and she projected it on me the first chance she could. Im not pushing her away she's my treasure we just are not ready. Since she acts like Im not worthy of her attention I have plenty else to focus on. Im not very experienced building relationships thats why Im picky. Ive been a lonely guy since Ive changed my life. She woke up the desire for affection that I didn't know existed and she did it at the perfect time because yes everything else in my life is on point for the first time ever. If she was talking to me and just wanted to slow down I'd be happy with that but she's not she's treating me like garbage and I am very sensitive. I opened my heart up for this woman and she doesn't know what to do with it.

Posted by JustBlaze
I text her a silly joke??_. The monkey said to the father father why do all these people think were so ugly. The father said son relax look at the one who reads this.

Bahahahahah...that was a good one!

Sounds like she's still uptight from her stalking issue, lacks sense of humor, and you 'may' have been too overbearing. Don't worry too much dude - plenty more out there that will appreciate your awesomeness! 😛