When you're angry...

...does it ever hurt your pride whenever you cannot stand up for yourself or just can't fight back, due to circumstances? What do you do with the left over boiling emotions? Do you just punch or break something or just cool down and count to '10'? What do you do?

does it hurt my pride? nope.

I do stand up for myself however, it does not have to involve anger. I, personally do not see the point in getting angry.

AI, you must speak up , even a few words if you are pisssed. As an aries, you are fully capable of doing this. Don't keep your anger bottled up and take up unnecessary shit. 😉

I once suffered the same thing as you. perhaps you worried too much how damaging your words are if they leak out?

Most likely when someone is provoked by another, causing an emotional response of some type, it is most likely because they have touched upon an emotional wound that needs healing otherwise, there will be no emotional reaction.

In my past when these type of situations reared their heads, I welcomed the experience for it gave me an opportunity to discover within myself what button was pushed and why and then gave me the opportunity to resolve the issue.

It is quite possible with proper healing to avoid the experience of being angry and necessary for one's health IF they are desiring to experience a healthy life style .

when im under attack, misunderstood or cant fight back i dont think i react the way aries are thought to. i withdraw and want to be left alone. i rarely argue or get heated with people, i just dont bother with them anymore (unless they make the effort and im always down to be over it). but yeah, to get rid of the excess anger i just distract myself. i go to the gym or just watch a really happy movie or something dumb like that...but i HAVE to deal with it alone, other people trying to calm me down piss me off

Mata Hari 5/27/2008 3:34:28 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx

"best fight i ever witnessed was between two aries men. both were in it to the death and had to be dragged apart like wild dogs, foaming at the mouth.

and i'm DELIGHTED to say, they were fighting over me!!!"

LOL!

Anyway, if I can't fight back, I'll just go away and either forget about it, or plan for what I'll do on a later date.

FuckinA 5/27/2008 8:50:00 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx

"I'm not gonna lie. If I can't outwardly be angry or do something about the situation, I'll seek revenge in a more quiet and devious manner. Either way, I make sure I express my anger and get the person back"

That's basically the same thing I said.

Pride?

As in ... fighting makes you proud?


Something seems wrong with this picture .....



It's difficult to relate to the Aries pressure pot, though, I realize it exists ..... maybe if you changed your thoughts to just simmering, it would allow you to keep passion, however, ease the pain of being volatile all the time.

when I'm angry everything goes wrong, but if my anger is towards a person... run. i hate not being able to do something about a problem. I end up dwelling for long periods of time on the problem trying to figure a way to fix it. I met a wise Aries woman who said im dwelling due to ego.... then i dwelled on that! i feel like i try to fix things as quickly as possible so we can go on to better things, but when i cant help, i feel useless.