Aries women - Gemini man, any sucessful stories—

This topic was created in the Aries forum by thelibran on Sunday, May 4, 2008 and has 31 replies.

Are Aries Women and Gemini Men a Successful Match

Some Aries women and Gemini men have successful relationships, characterized by mutual curiosity and communication. While challenges like losing interest can occur, compatibility depends on shared values and effort. Not all stories end negatively, and many couples find harmony through understanding and patience.

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@thelibran
20 Years1,000+ Posts

I mean for more than a year going without troubles and negative ideas. I know Aries women always gets attracted to Gemini men but i still haven't seen one success story. It goes the same way like Leo women falling for Libra man and Saggi women falling for Aqua man. All end up hurt when the air guy begin to loose interest and try to disappear.

Jus curious.
Thanks. 🙂

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@phoenixblaze26
18 Years

I've heard a lot of amazing stories of the two signs crossing paths, but never heard of them staying together. a gf of mine hooked up with one last year, they were hot n heavy the min they met, and then she found out he had a gf or ex gf. it ended with the two girls meeting at his place and him literally fleeing the scene, was a definitely a moment to remember. My gf and his ex ended up becoming the best of friends... so odd

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@dward417
19 Years1,000+ Posts

well i am a aries woman and very much in love with a gemini man....so far its been really good....i think its working because hes older and more mature....its been told to best catch a older gemini male thats ready to settle....he was married for about 10 years but it ended in divorce...i try not to compare him to much by his horoscope ...he is just naturally a good person. So it can work.....you just have to be right for one another...regardless of horoscope..I hope hes my soulmate.....my name is Donna and his name is Donnie...interesting huh?

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@dward417
19 Years1,000+ Posts

thanks guys......i just hope we all are able to find the one for us.....regardless of horoscope...i notice that the horoscope thing never works for me...when i start basing my relationship on compatibility it goes wrong...why is that?

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@thelibran
20 Years1,000+ Posts

((famous couple that comes to mind that lasted
are warren Beaty (aries male) & Annette Benning (Gemini female)))

Aries male and gemini female is a good combo. But the other way around i always see trouble.

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@imthisperson
18 Years

I have personal experience with this type of a matching. Though it is only on a friendship level, it is very gratifying and extremely testing all at the same time. When we fight, we FIGHT. It doesn't matter where or when, if the convo comes up that happens to spark an argument, we have at it right then and there. This includes all the screaming, tears, and all those thing you regret when you are fighting with a person...in public or in privacy doesn't matter. We have a very deep bond. One that I haven't had with any other friend, and trust me we test this bond often. I push him away and he lets me have space for months on end, but he always lets me come back and we start over as if nothing has happened. He's my best friend and I love him with everything I have. But at the same time he is able to hurt me like no one has ever been able to.

The greatest thing about this combo I think is that we both intrinsically understand each other. He understands my need to be dominate and isn't threatened by it. He challenges me often and keeps me on my toes. I allow him to be free and I typically don't get offended when he starts talking around in circles when he is a joking mood. But, as I have been saying when it goes bad, it goes bad fast and it hurts like hell. To me, it is worth it though. I truly have never had a friendship like this before.

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@thelibran
20 Years1,000+ Posts

lol. I know so many Aries females. Everyone of them have chased at least one gemini man in their life and ended up hurt and disappointed. They always felt like its the best they can find and went on to chase full swing but gemini changed once he knew she is in. Irrespective of my warnings, Aries always jumped in and started the chase and called me stupid and came back and apologized after a few months. Already a few cases. Most times its so exciting that you feel like its gonna work and you keep trying but it slowly falls apart. So i wanted to cross check if its just few cases or if there is some general pattern.

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@thelibran
20 Years1,000+ Posts

gemfox, i hope you realize that things are not same for Aries female - gemini man like how it goes btween Aries male - gemini female. So your reply doesn't really help.

If you look at all the success stories btween Leo man and Libra girl vs Leo women and Libra man, you will see the same pattern.

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@harue23
18 Years

I'm an Aries woman with a Gem man. We have been seeing each other for about 4 months but he swears it has been 6 months and will not let it go...lol
The whole thing was really confusing and frustrating to me at first. It's like, they kinda lead you on at first. I really liked him and we got along absolutely great but he never wanted a commitment. He wanted to not be serious with anyone. I was actually going to stop seeing him because of this. I just felt that even though I didn't want a serious relationship at the time either, eventually it will progress to that point. I felt that there was no point of living on a 5& chance.
It flipped his wig! He has done a total 360! Now he wants to be with me all the time, calls me all the time, and just committed to me last week! He told me that he realizes he needs me and doesn't want anyone else to have me. So cute!
Arians and Gems can definitely make it work, but Aries has to have patience and bite your tounge a little. We are about ourselves, but if you want your Gem; it's gotta be about him. At least until you win him...
If you have any more questions, definitely hit me up and I can help you out....

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@dward417
19 Years1,000+ Posts

I am very seriously involved with a gemini male...I love him already and weve only been dating for 3mos.... I feel I am truly blessed to have him in my life...hes already talking about marriage and everything. I can honestly say i have met my soulmate...aries and gemini are a excellent combination....

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@Joe Stickler
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes that's true I think that Aries besides Aquarius can tolerate Geminian duality but I think that the fierce directness of Aries is refreshing to Geminis since this sign > typical types don't have this essence.

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@Joe Stickler
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Yoikes! I don't know if Gemini men are like this but

Starsky and Cox > Aries Woman Straight Turn Ons

younger men
swarthy looks
rugged builds
body hair, stubble, beards
large penises, foreskin
f-f-m threesomes
mutual masturbation
laborers, lumberjacks
big hands, meaty forearms
girl on top
face sitting
(active) b + d, humiliation
cuckolding, groveling
(passive) analingus
standing sex, on the floor
one-night stands
male rape fantasies
strangers, casual sex
male strippers, escorts
role-reversal
male locker rooms
sweat, body odor

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@Joe Stickler
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Starsky and Cox > Straight Gemini Man Turn - Ons

small women
home girls
red heads (ALV!)
hour glass figures
white panties
snake eyes
long legs
m-f-f threesomes
girl - on - girl porn
little boy role - play
high class hookers
lite b + d (wot is this!?)
(active) oral
(active) humiliation
spanking
mind games
high heels
peep shows, striptease
g-strings, lingerie
manicured muffs
swinging, swapping
facials
lipstick, nail polish
tag - teaming

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@imthisperson
18 Years

b+d=bondage and discipline. just thought I would share.

I am also glad to know that my fantasies aren't as dark as I thought they were...

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@G.L
16 Years

yea that's kinda true us gems can hurt an aries but we don't mean 2 do it.. 2 be honest some gems will lie 2 an aries but some gems i know like myself is somewhat intimidating by an aries sex appeal/ personality so sometimes we tend to give them too much space where they might just forget about us completely.. On some realness though my opinion is that i feel aries & gems can work out great but both signs gotta work on their negativeness & help one another out so they can respect each other's values..

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@G.L
16 Years

aries can deal with us in a way that most signs can't & for that I respect & cherish them.... Gemini's just need a strong physical type of sign who can understand our duality & need for freedom once they understand that we can be some faithful partners & that's what most people don't believe but an aries can yet somehow understand our pros & cons and vice versa as well.. shouts to my Arians keep Ramming your way to the top.. Don't worry bout us ( We always end up at the Top)

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@Firefly20
15 Years

I am a Gemini woman ENGAGED to an Aries man! I know it's reversed than what the original poster asked. I, too, was with an ex (Cancer) for a total of 9 years, I divorced (no kids). I dated a Libra right off the bat, then a 6 month relationship with a Leo and now to an Aries that I am marring and it's been the best love I have ever had. I'm a older gem in my later 30's. Good luck to you all.

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@Mistery
18 Years500+ Posts

I've always been attracted to Gemini's & they seem to like me. My first love was a Gemini and he was wonderful. Had a few other relationships with Gemini's & friends too. I love their wit & charm. Never had a real argument with them either. Think Aries female & male Gemini can work well together and the good thing is you'll know it pretty fast as a relationship ignites fast or it won't happen period.

Oh, Bluemoon2, you don't like men anyway. 😛

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@Geminithefox
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

they do work out and pretty amazing too but like all relationships there
will be things to test that love but it's pretty amazing when it's going
on and the two of you are there for each other. I loved every moment we
shared & they were the greatest memories of love for me but one day hope
to lay them to rest with a new aries man