telling the truth

im just wondering..when me and my aries broke up , he told me and everyone else it was because of the distance (tried a long distance relationship and only lasted two weeks)...
i know aries suposedly dont lie often so is he being fully honest or could there be a lie hes trying to cover up?

wat do you mean? as in.. its most likely the long distance? or lying?

What difference does it make if you two are broken up?

It's history ..

Today is a new day .. you have the option of enjoying what could be .. or you can allow your head to be bogged down over what was.

Gia63lo -

My guess would be that he is telling you the truth. The reason I say this is - I too am an Aries and did just that...ended a relationship because it was long distance. Each one of us have certain needs that need to be fulfilled and my needs cannot be met through long distance. Maybe he has the same needs?

I do know that us Aries do enjoy being with our pals - out of sight, out of mind for me.
Except for my family members and friends.

Hope this was of some help to you.

"Today is a new day .. you have the option of enjoying what could be .. or you can allow your head to be bogged down over what was."

I concur.

gia63lo 1/20/2008 3:58:07 AM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx

i was in a very intense relationship that only lasted 5 months.. he ended up breaking up with me saying that it was too hard with the distance and he realized he wasnt gonna be able to last all through college without seeing me everyday (5 years). I understood and we broke up . About two weeks later he had a girlfriend.
Was he lying to me? Did my boyfriend ffind someone new and break up with me? or could it really have been the distane and he rushed into a new relationship to get over me? So confusing.

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gia, the above is a portion from another thread you started about this same issue ..... and it was 4 months ago.

Let it pass .. it's over. For you to ask this question again, after 4 months appears to be obssessional. Whether he had a girlfriend before or after the break-up is irrevelant at this point because the relationship is over.

Men have a very hard time dealing with females who have emotional baggage that has been caused from them not being able to let feelings pass when relationships are over .. and if you allow this to fester in your mind then when you do find another boyfriend, you will inflict this injury onto the new man as if he is responsible .. there will be doubt as to whether the new man will be loyal to you, or not .. because you are carrying this injury around like it's herpes.

Just embrace what you gained from the experience ... and don't become one of those women who wallow in emotional torment because they can't get past the pains in life.

Shake it off ........ and move forward.

accept the story, aries tend not to lie... its to difficult to make up some bs for the hell of it. sometimes the distance is to much, im far to needy to deal with distance, but depends on the person. if anything im going with P-angel on the fact that, who cares its over!? No offense...but....

"There's no need to reminisce bout the past
Obviously cuz that shit did not last"

- mya 'case of the ex'.

Fact over fiction, whatever the story, even if it wasnt true, it'd ruin your memory of it all. sometimes its better not to know.

long distance is hard for aries. esp. if you had a physical relationship.

my husband knew that he'd lose me when he moved to china, so he just brought me with him, even tho i felt moving in with him was a little premature. (he didn't, but then, he's cancer, two dates and we're engaged guy) we HAD known one another for a long time, to be fair.

i have never been able to maintain a romantic relationship with anyone who was too far away. i need contact, physical and mental, to stay close. i'd say it was true.

hmmm....my standpoint is you're better off. I know that it doesn't feel that way, but try to look at it from this point of view, did you really want someone whose love had a mileage limit? We're talking about a relationship here not a vehicle lease.

I know that it is painful...I am going through something similar myself. I posted it on the board. And I have to tell you thing I tell myself which is, obviously the feelings were mutual or I saw more in you than you did in me, and that is okay. Therefore we both leave with something, you leave with knowing how it feels to be loved by someone unconditionally, and I leave with the ability to recognize someone who does not love me the same as I love them. So, if this behavior pattern ever presents itself in another person now you can recognize it off the bat, and not waste any time in a relationship that is stagnant.

*And I have to tell you the same thing I tell myself...

i know it does seem like a while, and i am a lot better now. But it still suprises me that he hasnt tried to contact me at all since we broke up ..especially since he said he did llove me and it was cuz of the distance... ..

I am a capricorn.. i thought we were supposed to need our partners close by as well but i realized i am capable of being in a long distance relationship (if i am truly inlove)..