Why is Aries Man comin Back Around?

So me and this Aries guy dated off/on and kinda got serious for about 8 months......

Towards the end I realized he was lying about his where-abouts
(he didnt have to lie I told him we could keep it at the friends level & move on)

Anyway we kept arguing and we eventually broke it off....he was tired of me and I was tired of him....

I was hurt because we really hit it off GOOD. (Synasty was A plus-plus)

And I liked him a lot, I met his father whom he is close to and spoke to his sisters.
He would talk of serious plans for the future....

ANYWAY

After not speaking for about a month.....he wants to come back around sending me friendly texts (his Libra Rising)

wanting to help me with my military training,(he is in the army too) and have dinner.

I miss him but I dont want to be vulnerable to his ARIES B/S and games

WHY IS HE COMING BACK AROUND——?

Hello MY ARIES PEEPS!!!!!!!! Can I get some more responses PLZZZ

He did admit that he misses me......but thats it—?

Yes ImpressMe I asked.....

He said my easy going personality (there aint nothing easy going about me lol) especially towards the end.......

and my laugh (we laughed a lot) for the most part we enjoyed each other.

I just got off the phn with him....and he said that even though things ended the way they did he is amazed at how we still can talk, laugh and be honest.

He apologized for being a jerk, I apologized for spazin out on his ass.

He wants to hang out before I leave for Army training next week and he said he got me a early bday gift.......since I will be gone when my bday comes in 2 weeks.

Still I feel like "what do you REALLY want"

Aries are a little simple minded....
options

a. what amethyst said
b. amethyst's second post
c. bluemoon's second response
d. all of the above.

since he's offering SOME time, it's not all a lost cause.

Could be he felt needed to step back and think about what he was doing. It could be that he is at a point where he is really ready to make a real commitment, but wanted to think about it for a bit. Ask him that, and see what he says, and go from there.

LOL.....Yeah probably sex. SMH

@ bluemoon

He is an

ARIES SUN
Cancer Moon (Im a Cancer sun)
Taurus Venus
Pisces Merc
Aries Mars
and

Libra Asc


Im a

Cancer Sun
Sag Moon
Leo Venus
Cancer Merc
Gemini Mars
and

Sag rising

The way it happened for me was that I had met the person who I would marry, and had gotten to know her quite well. It was becoming clear that either I needed to "commit" or break if off. I essentially left town, for about a month. What I did during this month was a whole lot of soul searching. Was I really ready? Was this the person that I really wanted to marry? Did I really think it would work. I spent a lot of time worrying these questions and going back and forth with myself. In the end I decided she was, and I did manage to convince her that I was serious in my willingness to fully commit.

So, we are no longer together, but we were together for 30 years. I do not have all that much to go on, but your tale strikes me a being quite similar to mine. I needed to be by myself, and away from her, to work through all those issues, and others, before I felt that I was fully prepared to do what I did.


Hope that helps some.

Thanks dofacc that helps some......

I missed him too,
even as a friend, we laughed so much and we fit like a glove when we cuddled in bed. He is the first guy that made me forget about my taurus ex (which I never thought could happen).......

Bluemoon! Bluemoon!

What do our charts (synastry) indicate—?

Im intrested to know.....

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Cancer moon... has a very hard time letting go. He went into his shell and skuttled off to other shores to process emotions and think.

What are the degrees of everything? Tell me more. 😉

His sun 1 degree Aries
Moon 9 degrees Cancer
Merc 27 degrees Pisces
Venus 3 degree Taurus
Mars 19 degrees Aries

AND IM pretty sure he has a Libra Rising

Mine Sun 21 degree Cancer
Moon 14 degree Sagg
Merc 0 degree Cancer
Venus 17 degree Leo
Mars 26 degrees Gemini
I have a Sagg Rising 17 degrees

LOL.....

YOU BOTH R CRAZY!!

I read the first page, which obviously interprets as .....

... you want the Aries man to have changed so he's now the perfect man for you, and you want people to tell how this.


So, my question: Have you successfully found within this thread, satisfaction that this Aries man is now contacting you with intentions of being the man you want him to be?

Isn't it absolutely amazing how he could miraculously change simply because he apologized?

Lucky you ... not everybody has the ability to be so gullible.

ITA with Pangel..u are so right! I know a male pisces who does what this aries is doing..and all the women from his past fall for it...

If u want to have contact..be friends first, no sex..and you'll see what his true intentions are.

I am finding that I am tending to agree with the underlying sentiment I am reading here. Make him grovel a bit to prove he is sincere. If he was indeed doing the "soul searching" thing I mention, it will be well worth your time, and it will be a surprisingly rewarding experience for him to actually prove his intentions.

A bit old fashioned and romantic, perhaps, but my point is that with just a bit of luck, that is exactly what you have on your hands.

Posted by amethyst2002

Posted by capbaby


If u want to have contact..be friends first, no sex..and you'll see what his true intentions are.

This. I had the same thing with a Cap friend of mine. Hadn't really heard from him in 2 years. He gets back in touch, and for almost a year, on and off, he kept bringing up sex. When he realized he wasn't going to get any, I stopped hearing from him. This was after he went on and on about what a good friend I was and how much he valued my opinion. Because I knew what to look for, it was kind of obvious why he was "friends."

Haven't heard from him in awhile since I stopped bothering.

Point is that regardless of sign, if you pay the eff attention and don't live with your head up your ass like so MANY women choose to do, you WILL see what a guy's intentions are. If you don't hear from one for awhile and he SUDDENLY shows up out of nowhere, don't assume he's entirely genuine. He could be, but it's YOUR job not to rush into it and buy into words. Actions speak louder. The actions that gave it away with my friend was that he was only in touch when bored/needed someone to talk to/wanted to hook up. Other than that, it was like I didn't exist.

In your case, if you have to ask, YOU know something is up. Use common sense.

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@ Amethyst2002
I appreciate your passion....but I only asked WHY is he cominig back around?
I thought this would be a fun and interesting topic. My head is on my shoulders not up my ass. LoL
I understand and value "waiting" to truly determine what a man & "in this case" the Aries man really want.

We had a really good relationship and most importantly a good friendship. I do think he viewed me as someone he could move forward with.....but....his father is very ill in the hospital and that alone is taking a major toll on him.
We are both in the Military, Im very busy and so was he. I think he couldnt handle the intensity we shared and so he backed off. Plus he always thought I would leave him for someone of a higher rank than him.....because Im in a higher rank. Things like that just added up......

Either way he really wants to hang out before I leave which is cool with me....
And I wont do Anything that Im not emotionally strong enough to handle.
I may give em some AND I may not.

At the end of the day

Cont...



At the end of the day Woman should learn that we RUN things. Everthing that a man does is for a woman's attention.. from that nice car to cutting his hair and shaving in the morning. LOL

Its true Impress.....My grandpa told me that and so did one of my ex's, not in those same exact words though LOL

As woman, many of us...(not all) go through a lot of un needed pain. When we can just learn to value ourselves more, thats all Im sayin......

Plus Im always ahead!!!! (smiley face)

Posted by ImpressMe

Posted by pretty713
Its true Impress.....My grandpa told me that and so did one of my ex's, not in those same exact words though LOL

As woman, many of us...(not all) go through a lot of un needed pain. When we can just learn to value ourselves more, thats all Im sayin......

Plus Im always ahead!!!! (smiley face)

Sometimes pain is needed for growth hon.

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VERY-VERY TRUE!!!!!

Hi Impress!!!

I will def continue doing my thing......

What I want from Mr. Aries is direct honesty, thats all. Friendship or more.....doesnt matter if he cant be straight forward with me which is one of the reasons why I walked away.


I have to now focus on my Army training and my last year of graduate school.

Ive been hit hard by my SATURN RETURNING IN THE SIGN OF LIBRA and during these last two years I have learned that right now committment is something I cant manage because Im tooooo overwhelmed with career stuff.

Me and the Aries will always be good friendz though. (smiley face)



Thanks ARIES Fam!!!!

My aries also did the same thing. He has venus in taurus. He ask fir break up but we maintain frens. Just 1 nov we broke up.