My aries man!!

This topic was created in the Aries forum by confusedleoo on Wednesday, May 18, 2011 and has 68 replies.

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@confusedleoo
15 Years
So, I was introduced to my Aries man about two months ago. We hit it off, laughed for ages on our first evening together. Then I forgot about him. I was super busy with work. He'd call, I'd forget to call back - he'd text, and I'd miss his texts. So one day he caught me online and he seemed moody. Then finally he bursts out that he hates how I don't bother calling him back etc, and how I don't ever bother meeting him again. I pacify him, and we end up telling each other how there's nothing wrong, and we're both in a good happy friendly place!!

Then I went traveling, and fell sick - he'd call all the time, be very gentle, concerned about me. We'd text each other alot, and text kisses, and hugs. One night I finally have a chat with him, and ask him that I really didn't understand what we have. We hang up, and go off to sleep. He calls me early next morning, and tells me for all practical purposes "you are my girlfriend". Surprised, but happy, I just reply back with meek acceptance.

Once I returned he fell sick again, really bad. And again I couldn't meet him, we'd talk all the time, I' sent him flowers, he was happy. Then he went to see a doctor, who told him that he has major childhood issues because of which he should seek medical help, maybe see a clinical psychologist. He was really down that day and wanted to come see me right away, I was stuck with family issues and couldn't see him. He said it's okay. And things were fine.

Then my illness came back (yes, again!!!!), and I was bed ridden. We'd talk once a day, and kisses were still on over the phone.

Last few days however, he seems distant. He doesn't call the way he did, I have finally recovered, and I was asking him today if we should go out tonight or tomorrow night. He said he's busy, maybe day after or after. He gives me several kisses, and when he sensed I'm not happy with him not wanting to meet, he pacified me, saying "my love, I have work to do".

He does like to work, and has just started his venture. Also, an MBA from the topmost B-school, he is extremely ambitious and could be working after all. Is he taking me for granted? If he is indeed working, that is fine by me, but I feel there must be someone else 😢 Am I being paranoid? Has he just lost interest in me?
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@KingOfAries
15 Years1,000+ PostsAries
hm well lets see.. get him jealous, if you have mutual friends tell them to tell him that a guy has asked you out, there can be 2 outcomes, he either doesnt give a crap about that and says whatever - and you know to leave him, or he calls you and makes arrangements for tonight.. and finally, if we are busy it means we are busy, so when it resolves just keep that in mind
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@confusedleoo
15 Years
amethyst - Hehe! I swear I've been feeling like I'm just being over dramatic here and there may be nothing. To be honest, I'm hoping it's that too and that it's all my head. He is definitely acting distant though. I don't get my wake up calls like I did, no text nothing all day. A call in the night at most. I just hope it's work, and nothing else 😢 Let's see.

I am absolutely nuts about him, and it sucks for me that I can't tell him just how crazy about him I really am!
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@confusedleoo
15 Years
I know something has happened, cause he was very very into me. I just wish I knew what I did. Calling and demanding an explanation would be clingy no?
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@confusedleoo
15 Years
He hasn't called in two days now. I sent a sweet email earlier this evening, no acknowledgment. Hasn't called before sleeping like he alwaysss does. Haven't even received a simple text from him 😢 Not logged in his BB (he's always logged in).
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@confusedleoo
15 Years
True that. Insecure like hell 🙂

He did call, much much later in the night, he'd been out - did't ask where, didn't tell me where - during the conversation it came out inadvertently that he was with some female friend - I didn't discuss it and just ignored that he even mentioned being with her - we talked for a few hours, about work mostly - his business plans - mine - etc etc! And slept off.

I hope he isn't playing me!
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@zenalchemy
17 Years5,000+ Posts
Posted by confusedleoo
True that. Insecure like hell 🙂

He did call, much much later in the night, he'd been out - did't ask where, didn't tell me where - during the conversation it came out inadvertently that he was with some female friend - I didn't discuss it and just ignored that he even mentioned being with her - we talked for a few hours, about work mostly - his business plans - mine - etc etc! And slept off.

I hope he isn't playing me!



How will he be playing you? You think he's keeping several ladies on the line? :O
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@zenalchemy
17 Years5,000+ Posts
Actually, reminds me of Geminis too, not saying they act stupid, but they just get into the whole thing, makes me dizzy. Cute really 🙂

Confusedleoo, take it easy please, Rome was apparently not built in a day.
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@confusedleoo
15 Years
@Impressme - Okay okay, backing off 😄

I hate game playing too - so I'm gonna do just that. I've been holding myself back, cause I feel like i'll scare him away with my feelings! I thought aries men like to be the ones to lead and be the first in feelings, so I thought I should let him lead. Anyway, I'll be myself - if he cannot handle it (and I think he can) - then I'll move on.

@zenal - 😉
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@zenalchemy
17 Years5,000+ Posts
lol

Actually, talking about business/school stuff is a great move if it is something you are already interested in (& not faking it).
One of the main ways to get close to people is by talking about what they are actually interested in. You got him talking to you for hours with the schedule you said he had, that's something... !
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@heroic_guy
16 Years500+ PostsAries
I think it can be sweet when Leo gals or even Leo guys go on and on about their love woes. But there has to be a point where it is too much, at least Leo's know that at some point even if they can't stop it, lol

I don't understand it all just like Amethyst, why oh why does it have to be this way ... ugh.

Glad I have a built in Aries-Gonna-Find-Out-Now button.
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@confusedleoo
15 Years
Haha, oddly enough I couldn't log back in to see all the fresh comments - but erm instinctively I did something similar to all the advice given here - when I felt his attention getting diverted I sent him a couple of dirty jokes, and even though he was in the middle of a serious meeting we started texting - and he was like I shouldn't tease him, it'll get out of hand for me 😄 so anyway we continued till late and I was leaving outta town again that night for conferences - and we talked late in the night till I boarded my flight - talked all the time throughout the trip - and I came back last night and he picked me up at the airport and it was insaneeee - took all my will power to stop him - I do want us to have something solid before jumping into bed - and he was soo cute about it - and kept asking me what is he supposed to do with the delicate sexual state that I have put him in - he also told me that the place I have in his life - no woman can even comes close in comparison to me - so I shouldn't ever feel insecure!

I'm sorry for all the unnecessary fretting and whining. I guess we Leo women need some serious insecurity issues. Which doesn't go well with the fact that I'm confident about tons of things, most of the time!

Anyway, he has been going wild! I don't think I can tease him anymore - We're going out again Saturday night, he's planning a whole night out - so Saturday is the night. I'm very very nervous! 🙂
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@zenalchemy
17 Years5,000+ Posts
wow... Leo lady, that was a brilliant move!
Talk dirty and business/work at the same time? That's a dude's dream come true... I think.

It's still 2 months in though, I'm not recommending sex just yet if you are thinking long term. I know it may not be the popular decision (shut up yous!) but try uncovering more, turning over more stones, becoming good friends, learning about willpower (lol! I feel your pain)...

I think I want a Leo now, in light of this, I can never get any to stick... hmmmm, what am I doing wrong? 😢
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@zenalchemy
17 Years5,000+ Posts
Posted by ActionStallion
Posted by zenalchemy
^lol

Amey, ouch 😢 somehow I'm clutching my imaginary balls in sympathy for this dude.



Shut up
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Yes Action Master Sir, I'll use the pacifier to shut my gay mouth until you get back and use your masculinity to complete the job me.love you long time

wait, which Zen is gay? I think there are 2 Zen's in the building now...

Blingy, that you? Oops, shutting up now Action Master Sensei
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@ActionStallion
16 Years
Posted by zenalchemy
Posted by ActionStallion
Posted by zenalchemy
^lol

Amey, ouch 😢 somehow I'm clutching my imaginary balls in sympathy for this dude.



Shut up



Yes Action Master Sir, I'll use the pacifier to shut my gay mouth until you get back and use your masculinity to complete the job me.love you long time

wait, which Zen is gay? I think there are 2 Zen's in the building now...

Blingy, that you? Oops, shutting up now Action Master Sensei
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Which Zen is gay? Both of you zenalchemy and zentientsquirrelsentinel.
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@ActionStallion
16 Years
LOL I'm not suited to complete the job.... I'm way too masculine for that, it's your gay job zenalchemy to complete the job Even zentientsquirrelsentinel is agreeing and he even said "Haha okay then". lol
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@zentientsquirrelsentinel
15 Years
Posted by ActionStallion
LOL I'm not suited to complete the job.... I'm way too masculine for that, it's your gay job zenalchemy to complete the job Even zentientsquirrelsentinel is agreeing and he even said "Haha okay then". lol




Sure, If that's what you've chosen to take from that post.
I was aiming for sarcasm, each to their own I guess lol


Again, for continuity 🙂
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@ActionStallion
16 Years
LOL zentientsquirrelsentinel and zenalchemy both of you look good together both of you should complete the job for each other lmao.

Again for continuity.

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@ActionStallion
16 Years
Posted by Strider
Posted by ActionStallion
LOL I'm not suited to complete the job.... I'm way too masculine for that, it's your gay job zenalchemy to complete the job Even zentientsquirrelsentinel is agreeing and he even said "Haha okay then". lol



I think you are quite feminine and sensitive . Most masculine guys never feel the need to yell at the top of their lungs that they are "manly" . A true male presence is "felt" not spoken like a 5 year old kid etc .

Though i do agree that squirrel dude is a bit queer .
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Strider you have no right to tell me that I'm quite feminine and sensitive because you don't know me. You're the one whose a tomboy. Only my mere posts cries outloud extremely manly. I'm proud to be extremly manly so i yell it at the top of my lungs but you on the other hand doesn't yell at the top of your lungs that you're a tomboy because you don't want people to know that you're a tomboy. People I know say it to me that I'm extremely manly and I don't even do anything and I'm proud they tell me that I'm extremly manly.
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@ActionStallion
16 Years
What can I say I don't have English as mothertongue... If I did you'd better pay attention at what you say.... Lack of communication skills doesn't mean that I'm not serious about what I'm talking about.
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