Idea for date?!??!

This topic was created in the Aries forum by insatiableo on Monday, May 30, 2011 and has 8 replies.

Best Date Ideas for Aries Men to Ease Awkwardness

Choosing a relaxed and engaging activity like a casual outdoor walk or a fun interactive experience can help Aries men feel comfortable and foster connection. Avoid overly formal or high-pressure settings. Focus on shared interests and lighthearted fun to improve your date experience and strengthen your bond.

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@insatiableo
15 Years

So considering how awkward the Aries man and mine's last date was, I want to plan something which makes things easy for us

There is a movie he's been wanting to see but last movie being such a disaster I'm not very keen on it!!

Any ideas??

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@highfructosecornsyrup
15 YearsCancer

Go-carts. See if you can make it a double date with some of his friends. They'll have a race amongst themselves and have a blast. I speak from experience - my ex aries loved that idea so much we kept going back and doing it over and over.

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@insatiableo
15 Years

I don't even know anymore if there will be another date - he's just been really busy working - and hasn't mentioned anything about meeting again - we're still talking but it's much lesser and the convos are very casual now and somewhat dry.

However, if we do go out, then I'm thinking of going to this modern art gallery which is doing a great exhibition, and then visiting this awsm tarot woman I know together - or if he wants to do smthn fun then Karting.

Let's see. For all I know, here I am pondering, and he's already lost interest 😢

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@insatiableo
15 Years

We're going out again on Sunday, he's picking me up so we should have time to chat in the car first. I'm dragging him to the tarot woman first, that should pull us in comfort zones, then maybe movie if he wants.

I just don't get this guy - he's been a little distant, and been working alot more since we went out on our last date - but the moment I go missing he starts calling me like mad, trying to reach me. At the same time, if I write anything cutesy or make a gf-like remark when we talk, he just acts moody and backs off. Our talks have become totally platonic, with no kisses or anything but he's been impatient last coupla of days for us to go out, and I've been caught up with work.

What's the dealio? Does he just want us to be friends?

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@insatiableo
15 Years

Or I'm guessing he isn't sure, and wants us to meet again, and until then he doesn't want to lead me on.

Sigh. Please tell me I'm wrong 😢

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@Lady Aries
17 Years

Posted by Pandybear
Sky diving..
Zip Lining..
Hiking a mntn
Biking/skating at the beach

Do some kind of fun activity, Aries guys are always up for that (yes, sex is included as a fun activity)

You stole the words out of my mouth before I could post. To add to the list:
Kayaking/canoeing you can converse leisurely. I love stand up paddling.
Jet skiing I love the water, period.
Take him out to the race track... Cars, atvs, anything that picks up speed. I'm not talking about watching from the sidelines.
Group sports. I'd invite myself into someone's game at the park, for spontaneity purposes of course.
I can't stand the thought of doing any activity twice if there is so much ground to cover conquer. Kehe habitat for humanity, you can just walk up, sign a waiver, and start swinging a hammer.
Something as simple as trail running.

Sounds like this is more about me :/ , but tbh, something I enjoy doing, I would love the other person to watch me shine in my natural habitat, at the same time watch them enjoy themselves. Two birds in one stone. GL!

I've suggested cliff diving for first dates. No takers yet.

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@Lady Aries
17 Years

E3, roaring! I'll remember that for myself if ever the opportunity arrises. Haha I think that your talking about is also called indoor Skydiving. Screaming reminds me of when I took my first class for solo free fall. The first thing the guy that took the course with me said when he came in from his jump was that he heard someone screaming in the air. He couldn't figure out who it was that screamed. There was only one person that jumped with him, and that person is an instructor. Lmfao! Turns out it was him. There's tape to prove it!