
msvyce
@msvyce
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Posted by miriyahhhLol duly noted. He just texted me and was saying that I WAS his world, and that he felt like he lost his lover and friend. I don't think a relationship is in the future between us.... I may actually avoid dating for a while unless it's with him. But you're totally right about hating killjoys lol.
I'm an Aries two times but I'm not a man.
All I can input is that we aries as a whole area extremely jealous but only if we like you. And once I've shown you that please act accordingly lol.
Also he mentioned something not being the same may be a red flag. I would only say that if you have done something I can't forget or move on from. When you do something I Cant forget I'll usually move on and never look back.
You can wait it out but date on and proceed with caution.
Don't try to bring too much drama or baggage. We are fun people and hate killjoys

Posted by msvyceHmmmm I would try harder to focus on you and your children and your world and "date" whomever you wish to - that is the only way you will find your way after a divorce. Keep it light and try not to get wrapped up in things that are not good for you.Posted by miriyahhhLol duly noted. He just texted me and was saying that I WAS his world, and that he felt like he lost his lover and friend. I don't think a relationship is in the future between us.... I may actually avoid dating for a while unless it's with him. But you're totally right about hating killjoys lol.
I'm an Aries two times but I'm not a man.
All I can input is that we aries as a whole area extremely jealous but only if we like you. And once I've shown you that please act accordingly lol.
Also he mentioned something not being the same may be a red flag. I would only say that if you have done something I can't forget or move on from. When you do something I Cant forget I'll usually move on and never look back.
You can wait it out but date on and proceed with caution.
Don't try to bring too much drama or baggage. We are fun people and hate killjoys
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Posted by tctaoI absolutely need to focus more on myself and my children. What is frustrating is that I was before I met him and was content being single. I opened up to this person and it left me feeling vulnerable. I'm literally learning as I go along and don't want to make mistakes. And I absolutely agree with you in keeping it light.Posted by msvyceHmmmm I would try harder to focus on you and your children and your world and "date" whomever you wish to - that is the only way you will find your way after a divorce. Keep it light and try not to get wrapped up in things that are not good for you.Posted by miriyahhhLol duly noted. He just texted me and was saying that I WAS his world, and that he felt like he lost his lover and friend. I don't think a relationship is in the future between us.... I may actually avoid dating for a while unless it's with him. But you're totally right about hating killjoys lol.
I'm an Aries two times but I'm not a man.
All I can input is that we aries as a whole area extremely jealous but only if we like you. And once I've shown you that please act accordingly lol.
Also he mentioned something not being the same may be a red flag. I would only say that if you have done something I can't forget or move on from. When you do something I Cant forget I'll usually move on and never look back.
You can wait it out but date on and proceed with caution.
Don't try to bring too much drama or baggage. We are fun people and hate killjoys
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Posted by msvyceI know, we get all wrapped up in the relationship and other things in our lives fall by the wayside. Then when we can't get what we think we want from that person as things are growing, it's becomes all or nothing in our minds. I have struggled with that balance myself. I have to keep reminding myself to focus on me and my goals and that relationships are optional - like desert.Posted by tctaoI absolutely need to focus more on myself and my children. What is frustrating is that I was before I met him and was content being single. I opened up to this person and it left me feeling vulnerable. I'm literally learning as I go along and don't want to make mistakes. And I absolutely agree with you in keeping it light.Posted by msvyceHmmmm I would try harder to focus on you and your children and your world and "date" whomever you wish to - that is the only way you will find your way after a divorce. Keep it light and try not to get wrapped up in things that are not good for you.Posted by miriyahhhLol duly noted. He just texted me and was saying that I WAS his world, and that he felt like he lost his lover and friend. I don't think a relationship is in the future between us.... I may actually avoid dating for a while unless it's with him. But you're totally right about hating killjoys lol.
I'm an Aries two times but I'm not a man.
All I can input is that we aries as a whole area extremely jealous but only if we like you. And once I've shown you that please act accordingly lol.
Also he mentioned something not being the same may be a red flag. I would only say that if you have done something I can't forget or move on from. When you do something I Cant forget I'll usually move on and never look back.
You can wait it out but date on and proceed with caution.
Don't try to bring too much drama or baggage. We are fun people and hate killjoys
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Posted by tctaoPosted by msvyceI know, we get all wrapped up in the relationship and other things in our lives fall by the wayside. Then when we can't get what we think we want from that person as things are growing, it's becomes all or nothing in our minds. I have struggled with that balance myself. I have to keep reminding myself to focus on me and my goals and that relationships are optional - like desert.Posted by tctaoI absolutely need to focus more on myself and my children. What is frustrating is that I was before I met him and was content being single. I opened up to this person and it left me feeling vulnerable. I'm literally learning as I go along and don't want to make mistakes. And I absolutely agree with you in keeping it light.Posted by msvyceHmmmm I would try harder to focus on you and your children and your world and "date" whomever you wish to - that is the only way you will find your way after a divorce. Keep it light and try not to get wrapped up in things that are not good for you.Posted by miriyahhhLol duly noted. He just texted me and was saying that I WAS his world, and that he felt like he lost his lover and friend. I don't think a relationship is in the future between us.... I may actually avoid dating for a while unless it's with him. But you're totally right about hating killjoys lol.
I'm an Aries two times but I'm not a man.
All I can input is that we aries as a whole area extremely jealous but only if we like you. And once I've shown you that please act accordingly lol.
Also he mentioned something not being the same may be a red flag. I would only say that if you have done something I can't forget or move on from. When you do something I Cant forget I'll usually move on and never look back.
You can wait it out but date on and proceed with caution.
Don't try to bring too much drama or baggage. We are fun people and hate killjoys
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Posted by msvyceme too lolPosted by tctaoPosted by msvyceI know, we get all wrapped up in the relationship and other things in our lives fall by the wayside. Then when we can't get what we think we want from that person as things are growing, it's becomes all or nothing in our minds. I have struggled with that balance myself. I have to keep reminding myself to focus on me and my goals and that relationships are optional - like desert.Posted by tctaoI absolutely need to focus more on myself and my children. What is frustrating is that I was before I met him and was content being single. I opened up to this person and it left me feeling vulnerable. I'm literally learning as I go along and don't want to make mistakes. And I absolutely agree with you in keeping it light.Posted by msvyceHmmmm I would try harder to focus on you and your children and your world and "date" whomever you wish to - that is the only way you will find your way after a divorce. Keep it light and try not to get wrapped up in things that are not good for you.Posted by miriyahhhLol duly noted. He just texted me and was saying that I WAS his world, and that he felt like he lost his lover and friend. I don't think a relationship is in the future between us.... I may actually avoid dating for a while unless it's with him. But you're totally right about hating killjoys lol.
I'm an Aries two times but I'm not a man.
All I can input is that we aries as a whole area extremely jealous but only if we like you. And once I've shown you that please act accordingly lol.
Also he mentioned something not being the same may be a red flag. I would only say that if you have done something I can't forget or move on from. When you do something I Cant forget I'll usually move on and never look back.
You can wait it out but date on and proceed with caution.
Don't try to bring too much drama or baggage. We are fun people and hate killjoys
Urgh you are so right. But what I find hard is to date without any real intention behind it. No I'm not looking for anything serious but I also don't want to date multiple people. I like connecting with just one. But I sure do love me some dessert lol
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I'm your quintessential Taurus. I love stability and security. When I first met my Aries I was skeptical because he was so intense in declaring his love for me, in such a short period of time. With that being said, I'm newly divorced (1 year but separated for almost 2) and so is my Aries (divorced 3 years) so he was my first real relationship after my ex husband.
Long story short: he wouldn't contact me for days at a time and then when he did it was as if it was always at the same time and only to tell me how his day went. This was driving me nuts but I didn't complain because I was busy with my kids ( we both have em but mine live with me and his doesn't live with him). The time that we didn't speak I was paranoid that he was talking to other women and that ultimately made me think he was creeping.
Fast forward to the holidays, we spent 2 days together and he left on Christmas eve. We had our first fight in public during this time as I realized he has a jealous streak, but things seemed ok when he left. However, Christmas day comes and he says nothing. So out of feeling embarrassed and my feelings hurt I broke up with him through text. I explained that I felt alone while dating him because he wasn't able to be around ( my son is special needs and during this particular time he was having a rough time, and I wanted his emotional support). He ends up responding the following day saying that he is angry that I broke it off and then I don't hear from him. I decided to reach out because I realized how clingy and crazy i was acting and apologized, I also asked if I could remain in his life as a friend. He replied by saying I had embarrassed him, and yes he wants me in his life, but ultimately he said that he still loves me.
Now I have come to the realization that I am in fact, still healing from my toxic marriage and am still carrying some baggage with me. And I am facing it head on. However, he messaged me last night and said that he wants me around but right now things won't be the same. Has he given up on the idea of us as a couple? I'm planning to work thru my shit before getting back together with him or even in another relationship. I just want to know if I should let him go. Does he want me to go? Should I stress us being friends and leave it like that? If he's willing to give me some time to work on me, I would get back with him in a heart beat.
What do you think?