@beebeeN
10 Years
Told Aries Man no more sex...
Understanding Aries Men's Intentions After Rejection
When an Aries man asks to hang out after being told no sex, he may still be interested in a friendship or testing boundaries. Aries men often pursue what they want, but their intentions can vary from genuine friendship to subtle pursuit of intimacy. Clear communication can clarify his true motives and set healthy boundaries.
Hes trying to have sex.
He's knows your full of it and he's calling ypur bluff.
If you wanna have sex, have sex.
If you don't. Dont.
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
We all teach you, and you still receive your "F". 😑✔
Lmao
I think he’s trying to call my bluff too 🤷🏾♀️ I don’t want to have sex so.......that’s that lol
Posted by Ikyfl
You think he wants to play chess?
Probably not 😂
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
We all teach you, and you still receive your "F". 😑✔
I love to learn the hard way, can’t you tell lol
I dunno girl, if MY fwb said no more sex and just “chill out” or hang out or whatever anything along the lines I’d
1. Think they might be catching feelings and then cut ties so there is nothing I do to give them the wrong idea
2. Probably be too uninterested in them otherwise to have much of a relationship as just friends with them unless we were really close before, and therefore just cut ties with them
3. Hold off for a bit to see if they would want to try again.
A friend with benefits if for benefits without the romantic title, take the benefits away it becomes basic and a bit boring. Loses the pazzaz, but if you guys are close I don’t see the issue.
Yes I have a FWB, and this is truly what I could say from my own perspective. Him and I are close though, BUT he is a cancer so I do cut things with him when I notice he’s getting emotional.
Aries men are sex crazed. The ones I've known anyway. That's what puts me off of them.
But I'm Aries and the same way sometimes not gonna lie so IDK.
Posted by miriyahhh
Aries men are sex crazed. The ones I've known anyway. That's what puts me off of them.But I'm Aries and the same way sometimes not gonna lie so IDK.
He’s very sex crazed! 🙄 I can be as well but I’m not right now lol not having pointless sex anymore so Aries Man might have to kick me to the curb
Posted by RooSagicorn
Haha he’s not taking no for an answer!
He’s not! And I’ve gone back on the no sex thing in the past so he is definitely calling my bluff
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
What are you again, Gemini?
Yep 😃
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
What are you again, Gemini?
surprise 🙂
beebeeN, please stay away from this Aries, he will eat you for breakfast with your everchanging bluff..
I can understand that you are interested in him, you thought you two are dating exclusively or it may lead to it, you were exited, and then the not nice reality kicked in with this "dating multiple people" jerk of yours...
then out of pride you told him you will be okey with fwb.... and what more, believing in it yourself, and telling us here, that "you will date and have sex whenever you want, so things will be uncomplicated"
I am really happy you backtracked from this insane fwb idea...
are you dating anybody else? you seem still too much interested in him.... so just be completely honest with yourself and with us (but not with him, or at least not for now, until you finally get clean with yourself first)
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
What are you again, Gemini?surprise 🙂
beebeeN, please stay away from this Aries, he will eat you for breakfast with your everchanging bluff..
I can understand that you are interested in him, you thought you two are dating exclusively or it may lead to it, you were exited, and then the not nice reality kicked in with this "dating multiple people" jerk of yours...
then out of pride you told him you will be okey with fwb.... and what more, believing in it yourself, and telling us here, that "you will date and have sex whenever you want, so things will be uncomplicated"
I am really happy you backtracked from this insane fwb idea...
are you dating anybody else? you seem still too much interested in him.... so just be completely honest with yourself and with us (but not with him, or at least not for now, until you finally get clean with yourself first)
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Hey! I’m not dating anyone else at the moment, not really looking to. I thought about it and back tracked because I know myself.
So like I thought, he was going to try and have sex lol I had to remind him of what I said and that I meant it. He seems salty but I don’t care, it’s not like we are really friends anyway so he doesn’t have to deal with me and i don’t have to deal with him.
Honestly, I think I just got ahead of myself, like I️ usually do. He’s cool and while I do like him, it’s not going anywhere so why waste my time and energy?
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
What are you again, Gemini?surprise 🙂
beebeeN, please stay away from this Aries, he will eat you for breakfast with your everchanging bluff..
I can understand that you are interested in him, you thought you two are dating exclusively or it may lead to it, you were exited, and then the not nice reality kicked in with this "dating multiple people" jerk of yours...
then out of pride you told him you will be okey with fwb.... and what more, believing in it yourself, and telling us here, that "you will date and have sex whenever you want, so things will be uncomplicated"
I am really happy you backtracked from this insane fwb idea...
are you dating anybody else? you seem still too much interested in him.... so just be completely honest with yourself and with us (but not with him, or at least not for now, until you finally get clean with yourself first)
Lol you're quoting me. I'm not messing around with Aries dudes, they are my little brothers 🙂 .
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They’re a handful, never have I seen anything like it. I do love how honest they are
I told him we can just be cool and we can hang out in the future but no sex...
he's not going to like that
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He doesn’t lol oh well 🤷🏾♀️ He has other options and in life we don’t always get what we want, but we survive lol
Posted by Senorita_LL
Told ya NO, told ya SO.Aries aren't made for us the Gems. Lol
I guess not lmao again, gotta learn the hard way. I respect that he has been honest though so I’m not mad
Posted by Senorita_LL
Told ya NO, told ya SO.Aries aren't made for us the Gems. Lol
I guess not lmao again, gotta learn the hard way. I respect that he has been honest though so I’m not mad
Yeah, but I understand.
We Gems always need to learn through the hard way. It's all good. At least we try! I'm with you baby!
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Haha we try, it turns into a shit show, then we keep it moving lol
Posted by Senorita_LL
Told ya NO, told ya SO.Aries aren't made for us the Gems. Lol
I guess not lmao again, gotta learn the hard way. I respect that he has been honest though so I’m not mad
Yeah, but I understand.
We Gems always need to learn through the hard way. It's all good. At least we try! I'm with you baby!
Haha we try, it turns into a shit show, then we keep it moving lol
Exactly! Haha...
I don't dwell for long if the person can't be on the same page. I will just sulk for a bit and push my move forward button.
The only one that gave me a hard time was my ex Sag. Geez...lol
Eh, find an earth man. Lmaooooo
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I am the exact same way...I’ll give myself a few days then i don’t care anymore lol
And giiiiirl my Sag “ex” stayed in my system for awhile....... no more fire signs 🤦🏾♀️
I thought Gemini’s don’t mesh well with Earth signs?
Posted by Rametta
I dunno girl, if MY fwb said no more sex and just “chill out” or hang out or whatever anything along the lines I’d1. Think they might be catching feelings and then cut ties so there is nothing I do to give them the wrong idea
2. Probably be too uninterested in them otherwise to have much of a relationship as just friends with them unless we were really close before, and therefore just cut ties with them
3. Hold off for a bit to see if they would want to try again.
A friend with benefits if for benefits without the romantic title, take the benefits away it becomes basic and a bit boring. Loses the pazzaz, but if you guys are close I don’t see the issue.
He definitely was trying to have sex lol I called him on it.,,, I had to reiterate what I told him I wouldn’t mind just hanging with him but if he feels he can change my mind then I won’t..... who knows wtf is going on with him...I’m pretty sure he just wants to fuck.
Posted by Rametta
I dunno girl, if MY fwb said no more sex and just “chill out” or hang out or whatever anything along the lines I’d1. Think they might be catching feelings and then cut ties so there is nothing I do to give them the wrong idea
2. Probably be too uninterested in them otherwise to have much of a relationship as just friends with them unless we were really close before, and therefore just cut ties with them
3. Hold off for a bit to see if they would want to try again.
A friend with benefits if for benefits without the romantic title, take the benefits away it becomes basic and a bit boring. Loses the pazzaz, but if you guys are close I don’t see the issue.
He definitely was trying to have sex lol I called him on it.,,, I had to reiterate what I told him I wouldn’t mind just hanging with him but if he feels he can change my mind then I won’t..... who knows wtf is going on with him...I’m pretty sure he just wants to fuck.
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Why are you saying you’re “pretty sure” I think it’s obviously that sex is what he cares about. You are friends with benefits, what exactly is the problem?
Have you told him no sex before and then fucked him anyways? If you’ve set a precedent the damage is already done.
Posted by Rametta
I dunno girl, if MY fwb said no more sex and just “chill out” or hang out or whatever anything along the lines I’d1. Think they might be catching feelings and then cut ties so there is nothing I do to give them the wrong idea
2. Probably be too uninterested in them otherwise to have much of a relationship as just friends with them unless we were really close before, and therefore just cut ties with them
3. Hold off for a bit to see if they would want to try again.
A friend with benefits if for benefits without the romantic title, take the benefits away it becomes basic and a bit boring. Loses the pazzaz, but if you guys are close I don’t see the issue.
He definitely was trying to have sex lol I called him on it.,,, I had to reiterate what I told him I wouldn’t mind just hanging with him but if he feels he can change my mind then I won’t..... who knows wtf is going on with him...I’m pretty sure he just wants to fuck.
Why are you saying you’re “pretty sure” I think it’s obviously that sex is what he cares about. You are friends with benefits, what exactly is the problem?
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Cause you said that maybe he might be catching feelings while anythingbis possible I’m pretty sure that sex is all he wants
Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you told him no sex before and then fucked him anyways? If you’ve set a precedent the damage is already done.
I have done that before so i don’t blame him for trying again....this time my actions will speak for me
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I’ve posted about this Aries guy before....(Aries Man dating multiple people).
Long story short, was fwb with an Aries guy and decided to stop having axe with him. I let him know this, I told him we can just be cool and we can hang out in the future but no sex...
He asked to link up and hang out. Is he still trying to have sex or is he genuinely trying to chill?