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Aries Men Exclusivity
Signs an Aries man just wants to be friends
An Aries man often just wants to be friends when he stops chasing, keeps conversations casual, avoids making real plans, or treats you like one of the group. In real situations, many people notice he may still joke, text, or hang around because Aries energy can feel flirty even when he is not trying to date. The clearest sign is whether he takes action toward you or only enjoys the attention without moving things forward.
Just talk to him. Be direct and ask him flat-out. No hypotheticals.
Aries are caring partners who really want to please the person they find worthy. If you don't want to share him, let him know... But also know that he may either want commitment or he may just be enjoying getting his dick wet with several other ladies. You have to be okay with his answer, whatever it may be.
If this guy cares about you he'll be honest and you both can either move forward together or you can move on to someone better suited for what you're willing to commit to right now.
Signs that a Aries likes you is communication. If he reaches out to you, that's perfect. They're also pretty goofy and will do absurd things to make you laugh. They'll want to spend time with you and may get a little needy or clingy. An Aries guy imo is one of the many signs looking for a mother figure A woman who will lay the hammer down and tell him to chill the fuck out when he's acting manic, but will coddle him and kiss his forehead when he's sick or has been wounded.
If an Aries likes you, you'll know it. They don't tend to be shy.
Posted by Pandala
Just talk to him. Be direct and ask him flat-out. No hypotheticals.Aries are caring partners who really want to please the person they find worthy. If you don't want to share him, let him know... But also know that he may either want commitment or he may just be enjoying getting his dick wet with several other ladies. You have to be okay with his answer, whatever it may be.
If this guy cares about you he'll be honest and you both can either move forward together or you can move on to someone better suited for what you're willing to commit to right now.
Signs that a Aries likes you is communication. If he reaches out to you, that's perfect. They're also pretty goofy and will do absurd things to make you laugh. They'll want to spend time with you and may get a little needy or clingy. An Aries guy imo is one of the many signs looking for a mother figure A woman who will lay the hammer down and tell him to chill the fuck out when he's acting manic, but will coddle him and kiss his forehead when he's sick or has been wounded.
If an Aries likes you, you'll know it. They don't tend to be shy.
Thank you for your answer, I️ so appreciate it! I️ think I’m going to wait another month or two (let things develop a little more and for me to be sure of what I️ want) and I’ll have a convo with him. I️ usually end up being a mother figure to my lovies so that’s cool lol. He reaches out to me so that’s reassuring 😀
He let me know that he doesn’t like to feel like he’s being controlled (typical Aries lol) so I️ usually give him space to contact me. I️ doninitiate dates/seeing
Sorry got cut off lol I️ do initiate seeing him though cause fuck that lol.
We kinda had a weird start but I️ see that he’s feeling me so let’s see what happens!
Posted by Pandala
Just talk to him. Be direct and ask him flat-out. No hypotheticals.Aries are caring partners who really want to please the person they find worthy. If you don't want to share him, let him know... But also know that he may either want commitment or he may just be enjoying getting his dick wet with several other ladies. You have to be okay with his answer, whatever it may be.
If this guy cares about you he'll be honest and you both can either move forward together or you can move on to someone better suited for what you're willing to commit to right now.
Signs that a Aries likes you is communication. If he reaches out to you, that's perfect. They're also pretty goofy and will do absurd things to make you laugh. They'll want to spend time with you and may get a little needy or clingy. An Aries guy imo is one of the many signs looking for a mother figure A woman who will lay the hammer down and tell him to chill the fuck out when he's acting manic, but will coddle him and kiss his forehead when he's sick or has been wounded.
If an Aries likes you, you'll know it. They don't tend to be shy.
Agree 👌
Posted by RooSagicorn
If an Aries likes you,he will make effort to see you. If you have fun together, you’re not telling him what to do, and there is connection and chemistry. My ex asked me to go steady after 7 dates. We hadn’t even had sex yet. It was a long time ago, but we ended up being together 20 years, kids and marriage.
Awwww I️ love it. A man that knows what he wants. I️ want to see him so since he initiated contact I’ll initiate seeing him cause I️ miss him 😊.
Btw, how is it being with an Aries Man long term?
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Why nobody asks stupid questions about Aries women? Nothing to ask about? Of course!!!! Aries men are babies, leave that child alone for his own struggles !
Ohhhh no I’ve read this before lol I️ read that they’re selfish and big babies. Aries women are bitches but I️ Love you guys
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only you
They like honesty
Posted by RooSagicorn
If an Aries likes you,he will make effort to see you. If you have fun together, you’re not telling him what to do, and there is connection and chemistry. My ex asked me to go steady after 7 dates. We hadn’t even had sex yet. It was a long time ago, but we ended up being together 20 years, kids and marriage.Awwww I️ love it. A man that knows what he wants. I️ want to see him so since he initiated contact I’ll initiate seeing him cause I️ miss him 😊.
Btw, how is it being with an Aries Man long term?
Always a lot of fun, but frustrating. Things always had to be his way, and he was selfish. Ignore me and the kids when he wasn’t happy. No compromise. But we had a lot of good years too. He always had my back, we made a good team as parents and in life also.
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I’ve heard that they like to sulk, ugh I️ hate that! Nice to hear that Aries Men can have your back though. I️ feel like everyone has their flaws, I️ try to see the good in people though.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Can I️ just say,Aries Man in the bedroom though?! Yummy lol
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Why nobody asks stupid questions about Aries women? Nothing to ask about? Of course!!!! Aries men are babies, leave that child alone for his own struggles !Ohhhh no I’ve read this before lol I️ read that they’re selfish and big babies. Aries women are bitches but I️ Love you guys
Awww thanks, honey 🤗
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Haha no problem love!
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
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Well, i would do it now........Aries rising 🙂
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Well, i would do it now........Aries rising 🙂
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So.....any thoughts? Lol
Posted by RooSagicorn
If an Aries likes you,he will make effort to see you. If you have fun together, you’re not telling him what to do, and there is connection and chemistry. My ex asked me to go steady after 7 dates. We hadn’t even had sex yet. It was a long time ago, but we ended up being together 20 years, kids and marriage.Awwww I️ love it. A man that knows what he wants. I️ want to see him so since he initiated contact I’ll initiate seeing him cause I️ miss him 😊.
Btw, how is it being with an Aries Man long term?
Always a lot of fun, but frustrating. Things always had to be his way, and he was selfish. Ignore me and the kids when he wasn’t happy. No compromise. But we had a lot of good years too. He always had my back, we made a good team as parents and in life also.
I’ve heard that they like to sulk, ugh I️ hate that! Nice to hear that Aries Men can have your back though. I️ feel like everyone has their flaws, I️ try to see the good in people though.
Well yeah the good & the bad 🙂 Oh he still has my back. We’ve been divorced for 5 years, and if I need anything all I have to do is ask. More the thing is me letting him help me lol. Loyal if they love you too.
Oh I’m a Sag if that makes a difference. 😉
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Awwww yes a sag lol my best friend is one and you are head strong as hell!!
What would you say is a quick way to an Aries man’s heart?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Well, i would do it now........Aries rising 🙂
So.....any thoughts? Lol
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Be confident
Every guy I was dating, I set the boundary line early on.....I said I don't share so if you want to be with other women, you ain't with me
It never backfired
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Well, i would do it now........Aries rising 🙂
So.....any thoughts? Lol
Be confident
Every guy I was dating, I set the boundary line early on.....I said I don't share so if you want to be with other women, you ain't with me
It never backfired
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Yassssss! Lol I️ love it. I️ mean early on I️ knew he was dealing with someone else . I️ basically ended things. I️ told him “I️ don’t like to share”. The other day he mentioned that he hasn’t seen the girl he was messing with in three weeks.... granted nothing is set in stone until I️ ask again but I️ definitely agree. I’m at a point in my life where I’m done with settling. When I️ know for sure that I️ don’t want to share them that’s what it is. He can leave me alone if he’s not on board
When I️ ended things, he came back around, offered to bring me some food he cooked (I️ think he was trying to get in my good graces lol)
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Well, i would do it now........Aries rising 🙂
So.....any thoughts? Lol
Be confident
Every guy I was dating, I set the boundary line early on.....I said I don't share so if you want to be with other women, you ain't with me
It never backfired
Yassssss! Lol I️ love it. I️ mean early on I️ knew he was dealing with someone else . I️ basically ended things. I️ told him “I️ don’t like to share”. The other day he mentioned that he hasn’t seen the girl he was messing with in three weeks.... granted nothing is set in stone until I️ ask again but I️ definitely agree. I’m at a point in my life where I’m done with settling. When I️ know for sure that I️ don’t want to share them that’s what it is. He can leave me alone if he’s not on board
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He was seeing her until three weeks ago?
Tell him again no sharing.
If he don't agree, he isn't worthy of you
Men need rules lol
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Well, i would do it now........Aries rising 🙂
So.....any thoughts? Lol
Be confident
Every guy I was dating, I set the boundary line early on.....I said I don't share so if you want to be with other women, you ain't with me
It never backfired
Yassssss! Lol I️ love it. I️ mean early on I️ knew he was dealing with someone else . I️ basically ended things. I️ told him “I️ don’t like to share”. The other day he mentioned that he hasn’t seen the girl he was messing with in three weeks.... granted nothing is set in stone until I️ ask again but I️ definitely agree. I’m at a point in my life where I’m done with settling. When I️ know for sure that I️ don’t want to share them that’s what it is. He can leave me alone if he’s not on board
He was seeing her until three weeks ago?
Tell him again no sharing.
If he don't agree, he isn't worthy of you
Men need rules lol
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So he says lol I️ told him I️ didn’t want to share like a month ago....the I️ my thing in unsure of is the timing. Like when should I️ bring this to him?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Well, i would do it now........Aries rising 🙂
So.....any thoughts? Lol
Be confident
Every guy I was dating, I set the boundary line early on.....I said I don't share so if you want to be with other women, you ain't with me
It never backfired
Yassssss! Lol I️ love it. I️ mean early on I️ knew he was dealing with someone else . I️ basically ended things. I️ told him “I️ don’t like to share”. The other day he mentioned that he hasn’t seen the girl he was messing with in three weeks.... granted nothing is set in stone until I️ ask again but I️ definitely agree. I’m at a point in my life where I’m done with settling. When I️ know for sure that I️ don’t want to share them that’s what it is. He can leave me alone if he’s not on board
He was seeing her until three weeks ago?
Tell him again no sharing.
If he don't agree, he isn't worthy of you
Men need rules lol
So he says lol I️ told him I️ didn’t want to share like a month ago....the I️ my thing in unsure of is the timing. Like when should I️ bring this to him?
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Sorry I️ just saw that you said that you’d do it now lol
Posted by RooSagicorn
If an Aries likes you,he will make effort to see you. If you have fun together, you’re not telling him what to do, and there is connection and chemistry. My ex asked me to go steady after 7 dates. We hadn’t even had sex yet. It was a long time ago, but we ended up being together 20 years, kids and marriage.Awwww I️ love it. A man that knows what he wants. I️ want to see him so since he initiated contact I’ll initiate seeing him cause I️ miss him 😊.
Btw, how is it being with an Aries Man long term?
Always a lot of fun, but frustrating. Things always had to be his way, and he was selfish. Ignore me and the kids when he wasn’t happy. No compromise. But we had a lot of good years too. He always had my back, we made a good team as parents and in life also.
I’ve heard that they like to sulk, ugh I️ hate that! Nice to hear that Aries Men can have your back though. I️ feel like everyone has their flaws, I️ try to see the good in people though.
Well yeah the good & the bad 🙂 Oh he still has my back. We’ve been divorced for 5 years, and if I need anything all I have to do is ask. More the thing is me letting him help me lol. Loyal if they love you too.
Oh I’m a Sag if that makes a difference. 😉
Awwww yes a sag lol my best friend is one and you are head strong as hell!!
What would you say is a quick way to an Aries man’s heart?
Have fun with him. Do exciting, adventurous things. Enjoy life! I don’t remember being concerned about the relationship or being anything up about it for the first couple of years until we were considering living together. We just enjoyed life.
He raced motorcycles in the desert. From the beginning, he took me with him to the races. I hung out with his friends and their girlfriends, was part of his pit crew. He got me a used bike & he taught me how to ride. At that time, they were racing every weekend because they were all going for the #1 plate for the reason for their respective classes.
You know I didn’t really think about relationship things, I was just having fun. He wanted me around and fell for me.
Maybe it’s parts of the Sag charm, guys always seem to pay attention when I’m not. Lol 🤷♀️
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Hmmmmm I️ see I️ see. Ugh it’s so tricky because I’m not really concerned with where things are going because I’m sure it’ll fall into place. I’m moreso at a point where I️ don’t want to share lol I’m sure if we are meant to be something we will be but I just don’t know how to go about it. I feel like dating is either not saying anything and assuming shit and going with the flow or speaking my mind but speaking it too soon.
I’m a Gemini so I’m impulsive lol when I️ feel a way, I️ want to speak on it immediately.
Posted by RooSagicorn
If an Aries likes you,he will make effort to see you. If you have fun together, you’re not telling him what to do, and there is connection and chemistry. My ex asked me to go steady after 7 dates. We hadn’t even had sex yet. It was a long time ago, but we ended up being together 20 years, kids and marriage.Awwww I️ love it. A man that knows what he wants. I️ want to see him so since he initiated contact I’ll initiate seeing him cause I️ miss him 😊.
Btw, how is it being with an Aries Man long term?
Always a lot of fun, but frustrating. Things always had to be his way, and he was selfish. Ignore me and the kids when he wasn’t happy. No compromise. But we had a lot of good years too. He always had my back, we made a good team as parents and in life also.
I’ve heard that they like to sulk, ugh I️ hate that! Nice to hear that Aries Men can have your back though. I️ feel like everyone has their flaws, I️ try to see the good in people though.
Well yeah the good & the bad 🙂 Oh he still has my back. We’ve been divorced for 5 years, and if I need anything all I have to do is ask. More the thing is me letting him help me lol. Loyal if they love you too.
Oh I’m a Sag if that makes a difference. 😉
Awwww yes a sag lol my best friend is one and you are head strong as hell!!
What would you say is a quick way to an Aries man’s heart?
Lmao on head strong.. Yep!! You can imagine the children we produced 😂😂😂
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Ooooih yeah I️ know about you sag women lol my best friend of 14 years shares this sign. I️ envy how blunt you women are though
Posted by RooSagicorn
If an Aries likes you,he will make effort to see you. If you have fun together, you’re not telling him what to do, and there is connection and chemistry. My ex asked me to go steady after 7 dates. We hadn’t even had sex yet. It was a long time ago, but we ended up being together 20 years, kids and marriage.Awwww I️ love it. A man that knows what he wants. I️ want to see him so since he initiated contact I’ll initiate seeing him cause I️ miss him 😊.
Btw, how is it being with an Aries Man long term?
Always a lot of fun, but frustrating. Things always had to be his way, and he was selfish. Ignore me and the kids when he wasn’t happy. No compromise. But we had a lot of good years too. He always had my back, we made a good team as parents and in life also.
I’ve heard that they like to sulk, ugh I️ hate that! Nice to hear that Aries Men can have your back though. I️ feel like everyone has their flaws, I️ try to see the good in people though.
Well yeah the good & the bad 🙂 Oh he still has my back. We’ve been divorced for 5 years, and if I need anything all I have to do is ask. More the thing is me letting him help me lol. Loyal if they love you too.
Oh I’m a Sag if that makes a difference. 😉
Awwww yes a sag lol my best friend is one and you are head strong as hell!!
What would you say is a quick way to an Aries man’s heart?
Have fun with him. Do exciting, adventurous things. Enjoy life! I don’t remember being concerned about the relationship or being anything up about it for the first couple of years until we were considering living together. We just enjoyed life.
He raced motorcycles in the desert. From the beginning, he took me with him to the races. I hung out with his friends and their girlfriends, was part of his pit crew. He got me a used bike & he taught me how to ride. At that time, they were racing every weekend because they were all going for the #1 plate for the reason for their respective classes.
You know I didn’t really think about relationship things, I was just having fun. He wanted me around and fell for me.
Maybe it’s parts of the Sag charm, guys always seem to pay attention when I’m not. Lol 🤷♀️
Hmmmmm I️ see I️ see. Ugh it’s so tricky because I’m not really concerned with where things are going because I’m sure it’ll fall into place. I’m moreso at a point where I️ don’t want to share lol I’m sure if we are meant to be something we will be but I just don’t know how to go about it. I feel like dating is either not saying anything and assuming shit and going with the flow or speaking my mind but speaking it too soon.
I’m a Gemini so I’m impulsive lol when I️ feel a way, I️ want to speak on it immediately.
Lol. Well I do not share. If I sense a guys not all there, I’m gone. I just don’t deal with that bullshit. I have never needed to ask what we were actually, they make sure it’s clear cuz they want me to stay.
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I need some pointers then lol cause I️ would really prefer he ask me like hey what are we doing? Lol that would be ideal
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
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Should have said something before you first fucked, or after the first few times. So the next time you see him, before the panties come off, talk about it.
Posted by RooSagicorn
If an Aries likes you,he will make effort to see you. If you have fun together, you’re not telling him what to do, and there is connection and chemistry. My ex asked me to go steady after 7 dates. We hadn’t even had sex yet. It was a long time ago, but we ended up being together 20 years, kids and marriage.Awwww I️ love it. A man that knows what he wants. I️ want to see him so since he initiated contact I’ll initiate seeing him cause I️ miss him 😊.
Btw, how is it being with an Aries Man long term?
Always a lot of fun, but frustrating. Things always had to be his way, and he was selfish. Ignore me and the kids when he wasn’t happy. No compromise. But we had a lot of good years too. He always had my back, we made a good team as parents and in life also.
I’ve heard that they like to sulk, ugh I️ hate that! Nice to hear that Aries Men can have your back though. I️ feel like everyone has their flaws, I️ try to see the good in people though.
Well yeah the good & the bad 🙂 Oh he still has my back. We’ve been divorced for 5 years, and if I need anything all I have to do is ask. More the thing is me letting him help me lol. Loyal if they love you too.
Oh I’m a Sag if that makes a difference. 😉
Awwww yes a sag lol my best friend is one and you are head strong as hell!!
What would you say is a quick way to an Aries man’s heart?
Have fun with him. Do exciting, adventurous things. Enjoy life! I don’t remember being concerned about the relationship or being anything up about it for the first couple of years until we were considering living together. We just enjoyed life.
He raced motorcycles in the desert. From the beginning, he took me with him to the races. I hung out with his friends and their girlfriends, was part of his pit crew. He got me a used bike & he taught me how to ride. At that time, they were racing every weekend because they were all going for the #1 plate for the reason for their respective classes.
You know I didn’t really think about relationship things, I was just having fun. He wanted me around and fell for me.
Maybe it’s parts of the Sag charm, guys always seem to pay attention when I’m not. Lol 🤷♀️
Hmmmmm I️ see I️ see. Ugh it’s so tricky because I’m not really concerned with where things are going because I’m sure it’ll fall into place. I’m moreso at a point where I️ don’t want to share lol I’m sure if we are meant to be something we will be but I just don’t know how to go about it. I feel like dating is either not saying anything and assuming shit and going with the flow or speaking my mind but speaking it too soon.
I’m a Gemini so I’m impulsive lol when I️ feel a way, I️ want to speak on it immediately.
Lol. Well I do not share. If I sense a guys not all there, I’m gone. I just don’t deal with that bullshit. I have never needed to ask what we were actually, they make sure it’s clear cuz they want me to stay.
I need some pointers then lol cause I️ would really prefer he ask me like hey what are we doing? Lol that would be ideal
Well I don’t initiate.
My theory is that they need to choose you. They need to choose they want you around, they want to see you, they don’t want you to be with anyone else.. so you have to let them do that. Which means they have to show you they want to see you, not you asking to see them aka beg to choose you.
When you don’t initiate, you give them a chance to miss you. When they miss you, they reach out, ask to see you etc.
Especially for fire signs, you should not have to initiate. Even my current boyfriend ( a Cap) had to learn I won’t stick around unless he treats me right, like he wants me there. When I first met him & he was acting wishy washy, I just didn’t make effort anymore and he didn’t and that was it. Umm until he missed me and wanted to see me, and was ready to date me for real.it was 4 months later - Caps are slow! But they take their chance you won’t be available then. 3 weeks after we started dating for real, he asked to be exclusive. Prior to that he told me he doesn’t share & kept asking me if there was anyone else. Lol.
Does this help?
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It does!! Thanks 😊 now I️ feel like I️ might not say anything anymore and make him bring it up lol. I️ haven’t seen him since thanksgiving so I’ll let him initiate it. I️ totally agree though a man should choose you, not the other way around. What I️ think I’ll do is play it cool and give him some time to put his cards on my table. The first month, I️ kept busy and wasn’t always available when he asked to see me ( I’m the same way now except I️ ask to see him from time to time). He said he has the tendency of getting “addicted” and when he does he starts to “act stupid” and wants that person when he wants them and if he can’t have them, he “acts out”. I️ reeeeeeallly want to see him but I’ll let him ask me this time 😩😩
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Should have said something before you first fucked, or after the first few times. So the next time you see him, before the panties come off, talk about it.
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Thanks for the advice! How should I️ frame the convo? Sorry for all the questions, I’m horrible at expressing myself.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Should have said something before you first fucked, or after the first few times. So the next time you see him, before the panties come off, talk about it.
Thanks for the advice! How should I️ frame the convo? Sorry for all the questions, I’m horrible at expressing myself.
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Just take his temperature. It’s entirely likely he feels the same way.
“I’m excited to explore where this goes. I want you to know that your the only one I’m sleeping with. What about you?”
Posted by RooSagicorn
If an Aries likes you,he will make effort to see you. If you have fun together, you’re not telling him what to do, and there is connection and chemistry. My ex asked me to go steady after 7 dates. We hadn’t even had sex yet. It was a long time ago, but we ended up being together 20 years, kids and marriage.Awwww I️ love it. A man that knows what he wants. I️ want to see him so since he initiated contact I’ll initiate seeing him cause I️ miss him 😊.
Btw, how is it being with an Aries Man long term?
Always a lot of fun, but frustrating. Things always had to be his way, and he was selfish. Ignore me and the kids when he wasn’t happy. No compromise. But we had a lot of good years too. He always had my back, we made a good team as parents and in life also.
I’ve heard that they like to sulk, ugh I️ hate that! Nice to hear that Aries Men can have your back though. I️ feel like everyone has their flaws, I️ try to see the good in people though.
Well yeah the good & the bad 🙂 Oh he still has my back. We’ve been divorced for 5 years, and if I need anything all I have to do is ask. More the thing is me letting him help me lol. Loyal if they love you too.
Oh I’m a Sag if that makes a difference. 😉
Awwww yes a sag lol my best friend is one and you are head strong as hell!!
What would you say is a quick way to an Aries man’s heart?
Have fun with him. Do exciting, adventurous things. Enjoy life! I don’t remember being concerned about the relationship or being anything up about it for the first couple of years until we were considering living together. We just enjoyed life.
He raced motorcycles in the desert. From the beginning, he took me with him to the races. I hung out with his friends and their girlfriends, was part of his pit crew. He got me a used bike & he taught me how to ride. At that time, they were racing every weekend because they were all going for the #1 plate for the reason for their respective classes.
You know I didn’t really think about relationship things, I was just having fun. He wanted me around and fell for me.
Maybe it’s parts of the Sag charm, guys always seem to pay attention when I’m not. Lol 🤷♀️
Hmmmmm I️ see I️ see. Ugh it’s so tricky because I’m not really concerned with where things are going because I’m sure it’ll fall into place. I’m moreso at a point where I️ don’t want to share lol I’m sure if we are meant to be something we will be but I just don’t know how to go about it. I feel like dating is either not saying anything and assuming shit and going with the flow or speaking my mind but speaking it too soon.
I’m a Gemini so I’m impulsive lol when I️ feel a way, I️ want to speak on it immediately.
Lol. Well I do not share. If I sense a guys not all there, I’m gone. I just don’t deal with that bullshit. I have never needed to ask what we were actually, they make sure it’s clear cuz they want me to stay.
I need some pointers then lol cause I️ would really prefer he ask me like hey what are we doing? Lol that would be ideal
Well I don’t initiate.
My theory is that they need to choose you. They need to choose they want you around, they want to see you, they don’t want you to be with anyone else.. so you have to let them do that. Which means they have to show you they want to see you, not you asking to see them aka beg to choose you.
When you don’t initiate, you give them a chance to miss you. When they miss you, they reach out, ask to see you etc.
Especially for fire signs, you should not have to initiate. Even my current boyfriend ( a Cap) had to learn I won’t stick around unless he treats me right, like he wants me there. When I first met him & he was acting wishy washy, I just didn’t make effort anymore and he didn’t and that was it. Umm until he missed me and wanted to see me, and was ready to date me for real.it was 4 months later - Caps are slow! But they take their chance you won’t be available then. 3 weeks after we started dating for real, he asked to be exclusive. Prior to that he told me he doesn’t share & kept asking me if there was anyone else. Lol.
Does this help?
It does!! Thanks 😊 now I️ feel like I️ might not say anything anymore and make him bring it up lol. I️ haven’t seen him since thanksgiving so I’ll let him initiate it. I️ totally agree though a man should choose you, not the other way around. What I️ think I’ll do is play it cool and give him some time to put his cards on my table. The first month, I️ kept busy and wasn’t always available when he asked to see me ( I’m the same way now except I️ ask to see him from time to time). He said he has the tendency of getting “addicted” and when he does he starts to “act stupid” and wants that person when he wants them and if he can’t have them, he “acts out”. I️ reeeeeeallly want to see him but I’ll let him ask me this time 😩😩
Haha he sounds just like a fire sign when he falls for someone 😉 yeah wait a little. Maybe he’s just afraid of acting “stupid” lol. But let him figure out what’s worse - not seeing you or acting stupid 😜
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He really is the typical fire sign, down to the quick temper too lol I’ll wait a little and see what happens. Seriously thanks for the advice!!!!! You’re awesome.
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Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Should have said something before you first fucked, or after the first few times. So the next time you see him, before the panties come off, talk about it.
Thanks for the advice! How should I️ frame the convo? Sorry for all the questions, I’m horrible at expressing myself.
Just take his temperature. It’s entirely likely he feels the same way.
“I’m excited to explore where this goes. I want you to know that your the only one I’m sleeping with. What about you?”
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Thanks!!! I’ll wait a little (maybe a month or so) and I’ll bring it to him. I’ll keep you posted 😀
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Should have said something before you first fucked, or after the first few times. So the next time you see him, before the panties come off, talk about it.
Thanks for the advice! How should I️ frame the convo? Sorry for all the questions, I’m horrible at expressing myself.
Just take his temperature. It’s entirely likely he feels the same way.
“I’m excited to explore where this goes. I want you to know that your the only one I’m sleeping with. What about you?”
Thanks!!! I’ll wait a little (maybe a month or so) and I’ll bring it to him. I’ll keep you posted 😀
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Why would you wait 🤦♀️ be direct
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Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Why nobody asks stupid questions about Aries women? Nothing to ask about? Of course!!!! Aries men are babies, leave that child alone for his own struggles !Whaaaat?
Aries men are hot af!
I will look at your chart but wanna see the progressions. Will you pm me your birth details?
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I️ love them so mysterious and aggressive lol
I️ have no idea how to pm so...
My bday is June 15 1992 born around 1am in Fort Lauderdale Florida
Posted by MyStarsShine
Well you have had sex with him so tell him if he wants to carry on seeing you, he sees only youThey like honesty
Hmmmm, how long do you think I️ should wait before bringing this to him? It’s been like two months.
Should have said something before you first fucked, or after the first few times. So the next time you see him, before the panties come off, talk about it.
Thanks for the advice! How should I️ frame the convo? Sorry for all the questions, I’m horrible at expressing myself.
Just take his temperature. It’s entirely likely he feels the same way.
“I’m excited to explore where this goes. I want you to know that your the only one I’m sleeping with. What about you?”
Thanks!!! I’ll wait a little (maybe a month or so) and I’ll bring it to him. I’ll keep you posted 😀
Why would you wait 🤦♀️ be direct
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Cause I️ suck lol I️ wanted to wait and have him show me something more.
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Why nobody asks stupid questions about Aries women?why do they have balls?
Adjusted balls. We take them out when needed.
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😂😂😂😂
Posted by beebeeN
Hey all!So I’m a Gemini girl who is currently “dating” an Aries Man. We go out on dates, chill at home, and talk every other day (he mostly contacts me first, call text and FaceTime). We’ve had sex btw.
So it’s still early, but I️ like him and I️ know he likes me too. I️ was wondering when I️ should have a talk about being exclusive? Not trying to be in a relationship but I️ don’t want to share him.
Also, what are some signs that Aries Man really likes you? Thanks guys!
They don’t give you any space and will be pervy. I highly recommend birth control. Good luck!
Posted by beebeeN
Hey all!So I’m a Gemini girl who is currently “dating” an Aries Man. We go out on dates, chill at home, and talk every other day (he mostly contacts me first, call text and FaceTime). We’ve had sex btw.
So it’s still early, but I️ like him and I️ know he likes me too. I️ was wondering when I️ should have a talk about being exclusive? Not trying to be in a relationship but I️ don’t want to share him.
Also, what are some signs that Aries Man really likes you? Thanks guys!
They don’t give you any space and will be pervy. I highly recommend birth control. Good luck!
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Lmao why do you recommend birth control?! Lol
Posted by beebeeN
Hey all!So I’m a Gemini girl who is currently “dating” an Aries Man. We go out on dates, chill at home, and talk every other day (he mostly contacts me first, call text and FaceTime). We’ve had sex btw.
So it’s still early, but I️ like him and I️ know he likes me too. I️ was wondering when I️ should have a talk about being exclusive? Not trying to be in a relationship but I️ don’t want to share him.
Also, what are some signs that Aries Man really likes you? Thanks guys!
They don’t give you any space and will be pervy. I highly recommend birth control. Good luck!
Lmao why do you recommend birth control?! Lol
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Sex Daily, multiple times a day daily once their hooked. I know a girl that lost tons of weight via using her Aries man as sex for exercise. It was ridiculous because Everyone knew they were going to go exercise. He’s now married to my close friend & they have gone 2-3x a day for 5 years.
Posted by beebeeN
Hey all!So I’m a Gemini girl who is currently “dating” an Aries Man. We go out on dates, chill at home, and talk every other day (he mostly contacts me first, call text and FaceTime). We’ve had sex btw.
So it’s still early, but I️ like him and I️ know he likes me too. I️ was wondering when I️ should have a talk about being exclusive? Not trying to be in a relationship but I️ don’t want to share him.
Also, what are some signs that Aries Man really likes you? Thanks guys!
They don’t give you any space and will be pervy. I highly recommend birth control. Good luck!
Lmao why do you recommend birth control?! Lol
Sex Daily, multiple times a day daily once their hooked. I know a girl that lost tons of weight via using her Aries man as sex for exercise. It was ridiculous because Everyone knew they were going to go exercise. He’s now married to my close friend & they have gone 2-3x a day for 5 years.
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I️ can handle that lmao
OP: "Yassssss! Lol I️ love it. I️ mean early on I️ knew he was dealing with someone else . I️ basically ended things. I️ told him “I️ don’t like to share”. The other day he mentioned that he hasn’t seen the girl he was messing with in three weeks.... granted nothing is set in stone until I️ ask again but I️ definitely agree. I’m at a point in my life where I’m done with settling. When I️ know for sure that I️ don’t want to share them that’s what it is. He can leave me alone if he’s not on board"
you already told him
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Hey all!
So I’m a Gemini girl who is currently “dating” an Aries Man. We go out on dates, chill at home, and talk every other day (he mostly contacts me first, call text and FaceTime). We’ve had sex btw.
So it’s still early, but I️ like him and I️ know he likes me too. I️ was wondering when I️ should have a talk about being exclusive? Not trying to be in a relationship but I️ don’t want to share him.
Also, what are some signs that Aries Man really likes you? Thanks guys!