Men with cap rising

I have a few questions
Do they want someone who is 100% independent, has her life together, has class OR someone who THEY can nurture (likes to be taken care of), is fun-loving mess but she is classy (never goes to clubs), mostly independent

So which one is it?

Its a scenario......not actually -.-

Yea that helped, thank you 🙂 but which is better independent or dependent woman? Its all confusing for me because cappies are like the "dad of the zodiac" and i've read that they like to nurture the one they love but i see alot of cappies i know going for the independent ones

So basically, you like to be needed by the lady you love but you dont want her mooching off of you either, right? And she has to be someone who likes being taken care of?

Someone willing to give you the reins in some parts of her life