Aqua's libra-ex

hi!

It's been three months since I've started something with "my" aqua.
We have a wonderful time.
Whenever there's a problem, we are both very willing to talk things over.
He's a very honest, to-the-point-type of guy..... So everything is A-OK.
His friends are very important to him, and that's NO PROBLEM at all for me, I like the fact that he's a very social person. But... his ex-girlfriend is also (one of) his best friend(s). She's a libra and she's always very kind to me, but there's something I don't trust about her.. When she was with my aqua-boyfriend, she cheated on him with one of his friends. He was hurt, but he never judged them, so his ex and his friend are still good friends of him. Eventually she broke up with this certain friend too, but on new year's eve (when me and my aqua were a couple) she was fooling around with that guy AGAIN (they didn't get back together though). One of my best friends (a very down to earth-virgo) told me she's very flirtatious with other guys too.
Yesterday she said goodbye and gave my aqua this very strange soft kiss on his cheeck and stared at him and she claims him whenever she's around him (which might be normal since they know each other for years now). I don't want to make a problem out of this, but I'm a bit worried that she might be taking advantage of him. He's very constant and she's a bit variable. I think she appreciates the fact that he's always there for her.. Of course, I have to say.. they were going to meet a week ago, but since I had exams and since he hadn't seen me for a while, he "let her down" because he wanted to spend time with me first.
Now, there's this carnival-happening-thing in our city and she asked me whether I would be present (... uhm NO). So now they're both going and everybody's gonna be SO wasted/drunk.. Brrr, I'm a bit confused and worried here.

hehe 🙂

it's just... Aqua's are so very peaceful! Mine is though =D and she's just a sleezy diplomatic (indeed) c*nt, I say!

I am afraid of conflict..
I'm going to sit back and analyse the situation for a while. If it really starts bothering me I will certainly stand up for myself!
I feel like he's already appologizing for the fact that he gives her "extra" attention..

Ah Antibling! My right hand in crime!! 😄

It's a libra we're talking about.. Diplomacy is her middle name!
Grr I hate it 🙂

Trying to separate a libra and an aqua is one game you can never win. Dont waste your time worrying over that. It wont happen. Its not just love or friendship. There is so much of mutual respect.

* Eventually she broke up with this certain friend too, but on new year's eve (when me and my aqua were a couple) she was fooling around with that guy AGAIN (they didn't get back together though). One of my best friends (a very down to earth-virgo) told me she's very flirtatious with other guys too.

So? lol!

What does that have to do with anything? lol!

People have sex and hook up all the time. Especially their exs too. Doesn't mean anything. It is just a part of life. Just because you have sex with someone or just because you date someone doesn't mean you are going to spend your life with them.

There is a very good chance that she asked you if you were going because she wanted to include you NOT because she is trying to steal your man. Chances are she wants to get to know you because you are important to him.

I can tell you one thing, continue to be jealous of this girl you are going to end up losing him. Not because she did anything but because he will tire of YOUR insecurity.

You obviously don't understand libragirl. Just get to know her. One of the best things I did in my relationship with my ex was get to know his ex. Once I put away my worries I realized she was my best ally, a great friend, and had no interest in him WhAtSoEvEr. She loved him but wasn't interested in him romantically at all. She was over it. Chances are libragirl is too. Sounds like she is more hooked on new years eve guy anyway.

Libras remain close friends with their exs. We also set them up with other people and are happiest person at their weddings. Get to know her before you decide she is the enemy. She might just be your best ally.

And if you don't trust HIM (which is what is really going on) then you have bigger problems.