Aquarians and Libras. Match made in Heaven?

Are Aquarians and Libras Compatible in Love

Aquarians and Libras generally share a strong connection due to their shared air element, fostering intellectual stimulation and mutual understanding. They often enjoy harmonious relationships with good communication and shared interests. However, challenges can arise from their independent natures and differing approaches to emotions, so compatibility depends on mutual effort and emotional openness.

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Hi there, name's Jim and I hail from the Lone Star State (or Republic, as we down here like to pretend). Back in December I got out of a long and serious relationship with a Capricorn (I have since learned this was not a good idea). We were madly in love with each other, but we had numerous fights--big fights. Not just small, insignificant little spats, but serious yelling matches. Eventually we broke up. I got over her almost instantly, or so I thought. She took a lot longer, but she finally did, or so I thought. 'Round about May I was "seeing" this Leo and because me ex put on this act that she was over me and ok with me moving on, I invited them both over to a barbeque I was having. My ex acted ok with this, but I found out a month or so later that she wasn't. So, of course, I felt like crap for doing that to her. My ex and I were still great friends after the break up, and still are some eight months later.

The problems begin:

Towards the beginning of June, I realized that I was still in love with this Capricorn, eff the Zodiac. So, I tell her (she doesn't believe in the Zodiac, so I don't even bring that up. She tells me she had just finally gotten over me (like, literally a few days before I tell her that I still love her) because she had been holding out hope that we would be getting back together, and she had just given that hope up. I was too late.

She was seeing someone (not sure of his sign) and I quit "seeing" the Leo while she and I decided we were going to try to wrok some stuff out and maybe get back together. She also told me that she quit seeing this other guy. She lied.

So anyway, trying to make this long story as short as possible (not exactly an Aquarian strong-point), I find out that she's been lying to me and is still seeing this other guy, et cetera. I think I have decided that it wasn't meant to be, and I want to move on. But, a big part of me really doesn't want to move on. A big part of me wants to be with her forever, despite the way she's treated me, and the fact that our signs are so completely incompatible its a wonder we made it two years without murdering one another.

I'm not sitting around waiting for her anymore. A very good friend of mine is a Libra, and I have been there for her for the better part of a year while she's trying to get over her ex, and I've been trying to help them get back together, although now I don't see that he wants that anymore--its just her. My point-I'm starting to fall for my Li
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TexasWaterBearer
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18 Years

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My damn, it doesn't take long to get replies on here does it? And are we ever off topic...

Anyway, The Capricorn was seriously emotional and her jealousy was ridiculous. She got jealous once when I carpooled to school with a girl friend of mine. It was insane. I have read a lot about Caps and Aquas being horrible matching, and now I'm one more example. I've also read a lot about Aquas and Libras being great together. But, I'm just now (like in the past IDK like four days maybe?) started to have feelings for her, and I know she doesn't have them for me, at least not yet anyway.

After she and her ex (who's a good friend of mine...don't know how that's gonna work) broke up I helped her through it and now here a year later I'm still helping her get over this guy. She wants to get back together with him, but I think he's ruled that out.

Anyway, my Cap ex thought I had cheated on her with my Libra friend. And My Libra friends ex thought we had a thing after they broke up. Apparently a lot of our other mutual friends thought the same thing. So, obviously there's been something going on between us that both of us are oblivious to.

I've been trying to convince her that she needs to consider the possibility that she's wrong about being with her ex, not b/c I'm starting to fall for her, but b/c he isn't interested and she's gonna get burned in the end. I'm starting to worry that she's going to think that the reason I'm telling her to forget about her ex is so that I can move in on her. And that, I know, would scare her away.

When she describes the kind of person she wants to me, she basically describes me. And vice versa. I'm only now starting to see that, she hasn't yet b/c of her infatuation with her ex (I think). But, if its in the stars, and all of our friends saw it way before we did...it can't be too wrong. Can it?
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TexasWaterBearer
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Yes, yes, I know it isn't cut and paste. I guess, I just believe in it more strongly than some people because I see it working. I read about the personalities of the Zodiac, and look at the people I know (and some famous people) and see it match exactly. I just really believe that history was written long before we ever got involved with the making of it, and I just refuse to believe that things happen by chance. So, I look for ways to explain them, and the Zodiac is pretty damn accurate. LOL. But, yes, your point is well taken.
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astrology works,who says it doesnt,but just keep in mind that its not just the sunsign which makes up a character,but also many more influences,like other planets >moon,rising etc.
that is what makes up an individual.and if those other dynamics don't match well,then mere sunsign match will not work at any level.
but if the case is that the sunsigns don't match,but other aspects match extremely well,then the union is work brilliantly.
as my fiance says> permutations and combinations🙂
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TexasWaterBearer
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18 Years

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No offense at all. How could you know what I know unless I tell you? LOL. Yes, there is SO much more than the Zodiac, this is true. The Zodiac is kind of like a guide line to me. For instance, judging by the information I already have, I and my Libra friend match extremely well (in regards to the Zodiac), but we also match extremely well in terms of things we like to do, things we believe in, politics, some-what on religion, future plans yada yada, all that works incredibly well together, too. And I attribute part of that to the Zodiac. Now, my Libra friend is a vegetarian. I happen to be a hunter, and I love to spoil the women in my life with the material and I can get kind of lavish--furs, leather designer purses, et cetera. I am willing to work out these differences with my Libra friend because of how compatible we are both in regards to the Zodiac, and otherwise. However, I'm not so willing to try to work on the numerous problems Capricorn and I had because we are so incompatible in the Zodiac. I see it as some what of a guide that tells me when its worth trying. Make any sense?
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