Aquarians and Libras. Match made in Heaven?

Hi there, name's Jim and I hail from the Lone Star State (or Republic, as we down here like to pretend). Back in December I got out of a long and serious relationship with a Capricorn (I have since learned this was not a good idea). We were madly in love with each other, but we had numerous fights--big fights. Not just small, insignificant little spats, but serious yelling matches. Eventually we broke up. I got over her almost instantly, or so I thought. She took a lot longer, but she finally did, or so I thought. 'Round about May I was "seeing" this Leo and because me ex put on this act that she was over me and ok with me moving on, I invited them both over to a barbeque I was having. My ex acted ok with this, but I found out a month or so later that she wasn't. So, of course, I felt like crap for doing that to her. My ex and I were still great friends after the break up, and still are some eight months later.

The problems begin:

Towards the beginning of June, I realized that I was still in love with this Capricorn, eff the Zodiac. So, I tell her (she doesn't believe in the Zodiac, so I don't even bring that up. She tells me she had just finally gotten over me (like, literally a few days before I tell her that I still love her) because she had been holding out hope that we would be getting back together, and she had just given that hope up. I was too late.

She was seeing someone (not sure of his sign) and I quit "seeing" the Leo while she and I decided we were going to try to wrok some stuff out and maybe get back together. She also told me that she quit seeing this other guy. She lied.

So anyway, trying to make this long story as short as possible (not exactly an Aquarian strong-point), I find out that she's been lying to me and is still seeing this other guy, et cetera. I think I have decided that it wasn't meant to be, and I want to move on. But, a big part of me really doesn't want to move on. A big part of me wants to be with her forever, despite the way she's treated me, and the fact that our signs are so completely incompatible its a wonder we made it two years without murdering one another.

I'm not sitting around waiting for her anymore. A very good friend of mine is a Libra, and I have been there for her for the better part of a year while she's trying to get over her ex, and I've been trying to help them get back together, although now I don't see that he wants that anymore--its just her. My point-I'm starting to fall for my Li

It cut me off...😢

Anyway, at the end, it should have read...

"I'm starting to fall for my Libra friend..."

oh boy, libras are annoying...but for some reason you cant stay mad at them for long...

I know a child predator/rapist/sadist cap man....
He has an issue with status, control, and power.

Yeah, those are all repeats...Ive seen them a few times. Its always odd how the men are come when Chris walks out. You'd think they'd run or something, like its the chicks father.

The cap guy I know is a professor, currently getting his PhD...but hopefully he wont get it after tomorrow!

*the men are calm

The new shows are done at beaches, etc...b/c the guys are getting wind of the bust now...but you still get those who show up. Why would a grown man want to have sex with a 12 yr old ?? It is beyond me...know matter how developed girls are these days. They drive for hours to get there usually.

There getting sue by the family of a govt. guy(district attorney, I think) who was supposed to go to the house of a 13 yr old boy...he never showed. BUT Dateline went to his house and when they got there he shot and killed himself.

The people in the sting arent sick. This was getting out of control: guys meeting young girls/boys online and sometimes they get killed/kidnapped/raped, etc.

Well the show has been around now 4 about 3 yrs and they say they've never got a woman yet. Women just dont do things like that I guess.

Well the guys who do plead guilty serve time. But those who plead not guilty just get stuck in the legal system for awhile.

You'd be surprised how many guys are willing to give you a cam show of them jerking off...guys are soo easy.

Well thats why some of your comments here dont seem to match the goings on of guys in our real lives.

The guys you know though.

My damn, it doesn't take long to get replies on here does it? And are we ever off topic...

Anyway, The Capricorn was seriously emotional and her jealousy was ridiculous. She got jealous once when I carpooled to school with a girl friend of mine. It was insane. I have read a lot about Caps and Aquas being horrible matching, and now I'm one more example. I've also read a lot about Aquas and Libras being great together. But, I'm just now (like in the past IDK like four days maybe?) started to have feelings for her, and I know she doesn't have them for me, at least not yet anyway.

After she and her ex (who's a good friend of mine...don't know how that's gonna work) broke up I helped her through it and now here a year later I'm still helping her get over this guy. She wants to get back together with him, but I think he's ruled that out.

Anyway, my Cap ex thought I had cheated on her with my Libra friend. And My Libra friends ex thought we had a thing after they broke up. Apparently a lot of our other mutual friends thought the same thing. So, obviously there's been something going on between us that both of us are oblivious to.

I've been trying to convince her that she needs to consider the possibility that she's wrong about being with her ex, not b/c I'm starting to fall for her, but b/c he isn't interested and she's gonna get burned in the end. I'm starting to worry that she's going to think that the reason I'm telling her to forget about her ex is so that I can move in on her. And that, I know, would scare her away.

When she describes the kind of person she wants to me, she basically describes me. And vice versa. I'm only now starting to see that, she hasn't yet b/c of her infatuation with her ex (I think). But, if its in the stars, and all of our friends saw it way before we did...it can't be too wrong. Can it?

Oh, and my favorite cut of beef is T-bone.

Someone asked that...

Auaj--my Cap ex is also a compulsive liar. And when she's proven wrong about something she gets all defensive and shit, and the claws come out. And it is not fun...............

texas,first things first,don't go with the belief in mere sunsign matches,its not a cut and paste rule

exactly primegen,because this not the first time i am trying to explain this.haahaa

i mean had it been so easy and by the rule book,then there would be not relationship trouble at all.
and i would have been in love with librans,which obviously is not the case. in reality i am sort of allergic to librans.

Yes, yes, I know it isn't cut and paste. I guess, I just believe in it more strongly than some people because I see it working. I read about the personalities of the Zodiac, and look at the people I know (and some famous people) and see it match exactly. I just really believe that history was written long before we ever got involved with the making of it, and I just refuse to believe that things happen by chance. So, I look for ways to explain them, and the Zodiac is pretty damn accurate. LOL. But, yes, your point is well taken.

astrology works,who says it doesnt,but just keep in mind that its not just the sunsign which makes up a character,but also many more influences,like other planets >moon,rising etc.
that is what makes up an individual.and if those other dynamics don't match well,then mere sunsign match will not work at any level.
but if the case is that the sunsigns don't match,but other aspects match extremely well,then the union is work brilliantly.
as my fiance says> permutations and combinations🙂

Remember, I have only come to the conclusion that I may like this girl in very recent days. Getting a complete chart/reading hasn't exactly been high on the list. Sorting out all this emotion, in classic Aquarian style , has taken priority. But, yes, I am aware there is more than just sun signs, lol.

No offense at all. How could you know what I know unless I tell you? LOL. Yes, there is SO much more than the Zodiac, this is true. The Zodiac is kind of like a guide line to me. For instance, judging by the information I already have, I and my Libra friend match extremely well (in regards to the Zodiac), but we also match extremely well in terms of things we like to do, things we believe in, politics, some-what on religion, future plans yada yada, all that works incredibly well together, too. And I attribute part of that to the Zodiac. Now, my Libra friend is a vegetarian. I happen to be a hunter, and I love to spoil the women in my life with the material and I can get kind of lavish--furs, leather designer purses, et cetera. I am willing to work out these differences with my Libra friend because of how compatible we are both in regards to the Zodiac, and otherwise. However, I'm not so willing to try to work on the numerous problems Capricorn and I had because we are so incompatible in the Zodiac. I see it as some what of a guide that tells me when its worth trying. Make any sense?

But, by no means do I use it as a definitive all-knowing phenomenon. I don't say to myself "Ok, I like this girl, so I'm gonna have our charts matched up and if it says yes, then I'll go for it. And, if it says no I won't". Its not a deal-breaker.

LOL I've been friends with this girl for two years, and I know ALL her issues. Im kind of like a counselor to her............

And Sola is......? (I just signed up on here like 18 hours ago, so if its someone on the threads I don't have a clue) More likely, I'm missing some sarcasm......

Libras, boring? LOL

but primegen i think sola has her own issues to sort out.no offence to her,but i have a feeling that chooses the wrong men all the time.
when she seems like a sweet girl to me,just a little more than confused.

i have never been to the libra board.i want them to live,atleast for now.😛
haahaa

oh boy the libra board is something else. Try it sometime Devil.🙂

I've told her that already about the men she goes after and where to find decent men.

but she didnt listen it seems.hmm
she is libra,why do i forget it.
*shakes head*

I dont go there often. Its rough.

Good Night Prime.

Are you trying to torture the guy, hell even I can't stand going there.

ladyM is always finding new ways to torture me,no surprises🙂

moreover,if i ever go to the libra board,it wont be me who will be tortured.haahaa
so i am just saving their guts.😛

goodnight primegen🙂

btw what time is it over there?

Who knows...theres always a defect.

3 AM for me Devil.

Boring, Narcissistic, Shallow...

Oh but F.Dravidian always keeps them on there toes LMAO!

Where does one go to find decent men?

million dollar question.
i think you don't need to go and look for the nice guys,more often than not,they are right beside you.

Yeah ,there the ones that are gay or you just dont want him.

Oh but F.Dravidian always keeps them on there toes LMAO!

btw is he doing some research work on astrology? his questions sound like a survey questionaire to me.haahaa

Meet guys you'll actually date through the nice guys 🙂
(im evil, I know).

Ive met my nice guy.

"btw is he doing some research work on astrology? his questions sound like a survey questionaire to me.haahaa"

who knows(I dont think so). One thing for sure he says he hates and will destroy all libras. Poor Guy.

Yeah ,there the ones that are gay or you just dont want him.

haahaa

'Plus, they're wierd. Like, some sort of clan. You can't tell one from the other. And they don't venture outside of it."

I know! All there posts seem like one big run on sentence...

Meet guys you'll actually date through the nice guys
(im evil, I know).

ah yes,evil girls always get the right guys😛

"I've met my nice guy, but I don't think I have the patience for him."

So true!
Aqi's my girl twin...wheres DK??

"awwww"

make that double...
it's cute and true.

"ah yes,evil girls always get the right guys"

hehe, well well well, what can I say...
Or evil girls make the guy into THE right guy.

Dont remind us Aqi😢
We looked like the cancer board.

hehe, well well well, what can I say...
Or evil girls make the guy into THE right guy.

oh i think i see a whip there.haahaa