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DeeLovesRed
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Is there anyone on here that's fed up of their moon in 6th house?? B/c I AM!!!! —
But honestly, what's up?
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Like the attraction of lost souls or needy people.. Basically I feel like anyone who's attracted to me needs me or needs some type of saving.... Like come onnnnnnn!!! M from friends to family members to significant others...
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I don't have that, but I have 5 planets in the 6th.

What don't you like about your moon in the 6th?
I hate the selfless ways about me.. & I HATE that only lost souls or needy people are drawn to me... How's your 6th? Do you ever feel like this??
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I can relate! I'm still learning how to be true to my giving/service nature in a way that doesn't drain me. Some of the people I've been giving to haven't been willing to do the work in their lives that's needed to not be so needy and lost in the first place. I'm getting better at identifying that so I'm not as likely to get involved closely.

I have Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Uranus and Pluto in 6th.

Some of the energy goes into being very health conscious, so at least with that, it's for me.

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I don't have that, but I have 5 planets in the 6th.

What don't you like about your moon in the 6th?
I hate the selfless ways about me.. & I HATE that only lost souls or needy people are drawn to me... How's your 6th? Do you ever feel like this??

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I can relate! I'm still learning how to be true to my giving/service nature in a way that doesn't drain me. Some of the people I've been giving to haven't been willing to do the work in their lives that's needed to not be so needy and lost in the first place. I'm getting better at identifying that so I'm not as likely to get involved closely.

I have Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Uranus and Pluto in 6th.

Some of the energy goes into being very health conscious, so at least with that, it's for me.

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Health conscious I can relate... But channeling and controlling the service ways... That's something I need to learn... I mean people are always asking for something to be done & in return they can never do it for me... & I really try hard to say no but then I feel "guilty" like as if "IM SUPPOSE TO DO IT"

Ex: my uncle...anytime he knows I'm coming to visit him.. He'll leave his house in a complete mess and expect me to clean it.. Which I always do.. & then I always scold him but then I find myself cleaning it again and again

Ex: people would do some hurtful things to me.. But as soon as they say they need a helping hand.. I'm there to offer one..

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Posted by LeDominoes
Posted by DeeLovesRed
Posted by LeDominoes
Posted by DeeLovesRed
Is there anyone on here that's fed up of their moon in 6th house?? B/c I AM!!!! —
But honestly, what's up?
Like the attraction of lost souls or needy people.. Basically I feel like anyone who's attracted to me needs me or needs some type of saving.... Like come onnnnnnn!!! M from friends to family members to significant others...


Time to arm up... we got some bitches to hunt down.

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Hahaha... That's exactly the type of mood I'm in..
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Posted by DeeLovesRed
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I don't have that, but I have 5 planets in the 6th.

What don't you like about your moon in the 6th?
I hate the selfless ways about me.. & I HATE that only lost souls or needy people are drawn to me... How's your 6th? Do you ever feel like this??

'

I can relate! I'm still learning how to be true to my giving/service nature in a way that doesn't drain me. Some of the people I've been giving to haven't been willing to do the work in their lives that's needed to not be so needy and lost in the first place. I'm getting better at identifying that so I'm not as likely to get involved closely.

I have Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Uranus and Pluto in 6th.

Some of the energy goes into being very health conscious, so at least with that, it's for me.


Health conscious I can relate... But channeling and controlling the service ways... That's something I need to learn... I mean people are always asking for something to be done & in return they can never do it for me... & I really try hard to say no but then I feel "guilty" like as if "IM SUPPOSE TO DO IT"

Ex: my uncle...anytime he knows I'm coming to visit him.. He'll leave his house in a complete mess and expect me to clean it.. Which I always do.. & then I always scold him but then I find myself cleaning it again and again

Ex: people would do some hurtful things to me.. But as soon as they say they need a helping hand.. I'm there to offer one..

Why—? —
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I think the no just has to be practiced many times, and the guilt felt, as unpleasant as it is, until it becomes easier and the guilt isn't so strong because you get totally fed up with being taken advantage of by some people. Self protection ultimately can win over any anxiety about not offering help to certain people.

Some people aren't deliberately trying to take advantage of our giving nature, they just assume that we want to give and like it, but then they take it for granted and that ends up being draining. Others play the victim in life of course - it starts in a really unhealthy way and if we stop supplying them they find another person who will give them the unhealthy attention they want.

I'm going to be doing some cognitive therapy to try to address related things and maybe that's something you could check out? It can help to retrain your mind to react differently to things. There are books on it, if you can't see a therapist in person.

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I have sun, Jupiter, venus, merc, south node and pretty much an entire solar system of asteroids there and moon in 12th. 6th house is an interesting house....
What do you find interesting about it? Bc I find it to be a pain sometimes... Just the draining feeling I get from always giving to others..
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Maybe because it's my sun there but I get energized from it - I made a career in health related nonprofits.