Are you attracted to the elements you lack in your chart?

For example I lack water in my chart. I attract guys that are dominant water. Vice versa.

I lack Air.

I dont really like any of the air signs. Not even as friends.

I only have 1 sign in earth and it’s my 12th house, so I’m lacking of that.

Nope I don’t understand them. I’m grounded in a different way then them. I don’t seem to have a connection to them at all. I think Taurus would be the only sign I could handle because they are charming and sweet.

Yes, now that im thinking about it....

I lack fire and water and i seem to be attracted to those signs.

And people who have the heavy water and fire signs in their chart.

My bull is fire dom, and i love it being mostly air myself.

Before him i dated a lot of scorps or water, they didnt seem to work as well...

Posted by Lovelyy

For example I lack water in my chart. I attract guys that are dominant water. Vice versa.

I seem to attract air signs. I only have one air sign in my chart and that’s libra Mercury.

Either there are a lot of libra men on earth or I’ve just drawn in a fair share of them.

Gemini’s have also been into me but I was always scared of them based on what I read here, but now I’m in a LTR with one surprisingly.

And then I’ve been with a couple aquas, but not enough to say there’s a pattern of them being into me, but I like them.

Posted by Black-Mamba

No!

I lack air

Air to me is dead

I'm all fire and i still can't stand air

So no

I also don't have enough earth (more than air) but i like earth

Same. I'm not a huge of it. Like more than 1 or two placements is a no for me

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Posted by Black-Mamba

No!

I lack air

Air to me is dead

I'm all fire and i still can't stand air

So no

I also don't have enough earth (more than air) but i like earth

Ah, perfect timing for my post haha. Then I guess you won't like my persona either haha

I feel the world is getting more emotionally stunted

Why would i freely interact with those who are the most emotionally stunted in my opinion

I'm a passionate person who desires an emotional connection

I hear you, I wonder who you have come across with loads of air who came across as emotionally stunted.

Personally, yes, I have had a lot of trouble in feeling my emotions. My reflex is to intellectualize all emotions. It has been a struggle, I am working thru it tho. However, I do think having an earth ascending (Taurus for myself) may combat the air in that people may find you trustworthy enough to expose their emotions. Whether or not I would expose my own feelings, that is always questionable, yes it can be a flaw big time.

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Every air dominate person I meant was emotional stunted. No offense

I have a hard time getting along with anyone who doesn't have a scorpio or Leo placement tbh

Posted by Bll

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Yes, I would say so! I have no air in my personal planets (which I’m a bit sad about. I like air), and I attract geminis and aquas, especially, and also a lot of people with air placements, particularly gemini moon, gemini mars and libra moon.

I also have no earth in my personal placements, and I attract all three earth signs as well.

But I’m cap dominant, and aqua is my third most dominant sign, by Pullen. So I don’t know what’s most accurate here 🤷🏽‍♀️ (My personal planets consist of fire and water ONLY)

But aqua is dominant in your chart

Why y'all act so slow

Depends on whether we should take Pullen seriously. I only have aqua saturn, and aqua in my 8th and 9th house. They don’t count all my water placements that much at all

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Which house and sign do you have a stellium in?

Posted by ScorpioDeeDee

Nope! I have zero earth in my chart. I have Cap family and friends but that is the extent of it.

I married an earth sign and it was a disaster

Which sign, Dee?

Any contact from the 🦁?

I lack water and my cap has venus and mars in water sign 🤷🏻‍♀️ I like it

But I don‘t naturally vibe with water suns

I lack air in my chart but not necessarily attract them. I do, however, envy air sign communication quite a bit as my Chiron (its sort of like an Achilles heel) is in Gemini. If I could articulate as well as an air sign, why I'd thrive..possibly.

Posted by Sag898

I have a hard time getting along with anyone who doesn't have a scorpio or Leo placement tbh

Getting along with Scorpios is like peanut butter and jelly for me too. There is just a comfort that I have with that placement.

I’m just getting to know my first Leo guy, so I’m hoping for the same thing.

Yes sometimes

No i lack water and attract water suns but not water dominants (ex pisces with aries dominant and cancer with leo dominant). I mostly have attracted air dominant for some reason and air is also one of my dominants

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Sag898

I have a hard time getting along with anyone who doesn't have a scorpio or Leo placement tbh

Getting along with Scorpios is like peanut butter and jelly for me too. There is just a comfort that I have with that placement.

I’m just getting to know my first Leo guy, so I’m hoping for the same thing.

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What’s the chart?!

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Sag898

I have a hard time getting along with anyone who doesn't have a scorpio or Leo placement tbh

Getting along with Scorpios is like peanut butter and jelly for me too. There is just a comfort that I have with that placement.

I’m just getting to know my first Leo guy, so I’m hoping for the same thing.

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What’s the chart?!

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Sag898

I have a hard time getting along with anyone who doesn't have a scorpio or Leo placement tbh

That's highly specific

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It’s something I’ve noticed lol

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Posted by Sag898

I have a hard time getting along with anyone who doesn't have a scorpio or Leo placement tbh

Getting along with Scorpios is like peanut butter and jelly for me too. There is just a comfort that I have with that placement.

I’m just getting to know my first Leo guy, so I’m hoping for the same thing.

What’s the chart?!

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He's a Leo Sun, Cancer Moon, Leo Mercury, Cancer Mars and Leo Venus.

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Posted by Sag898

I have a hard time getting along with anyone who doesn't have a scorpio or Leo placement tbh

Getting along with Scorpios is like peanut butter and jelly for me too. There is just a comfort that I have with that placement.

I’m just getting to know my first Leo guy, so I’m hoping for the same thing.

What’s the chart?!

He's a Leo Sun, Cancer Moon, Leo Mercury, Cancer Mars and Leo Venus.

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Ooooo! Let me know what that mars in cancer is like! Always wondered

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Posted by Lovelyy

For example I lack water in my chart. I attract guys that are dominant water. Vice versa.

Yes I do! I'm like you! I lack water in my chart and am obsessed with peeps who are mainly water dominant

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What’s ur dominant element?

Posted by Sag898

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Posted by Sag898

I have a hard time getting along with anyone who doesn't have a scorpio or Leo placement tbh

Getting along with Scorpios is like peanut butter and jelly for me too. There is just a comfort that I have with that placement.

I’m just getting to know my first Leo guy, so I’m hoping for the same thing.

What’s the chart?!

He's a Leo Sun, Cancer Moon, Leo Mercury, Cancer Mars and Leo Venus.

Ooooo! Let me know what that mars in cancer is like! Always wondered

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I’ll probably never find out. He seems to like being ignored and isn’t in any type of rush. 😏

I lack taurus in my birth chart. Defo not attracted to them but they are attracted to me.

They are way too needy and possessive, omg 😢 let me breath .... plus they don't handle rejection well.

I need me a fire sign man or an air sign man. But never a water sign man or earth man.

i attract fire dominant women or man which i lack in my chart

No im not attracted to fire signs their too impulsive for my taste

I'm Scorpio fixed water dominant and only have a 7th house stellium in Scorpio, so air isn't prominent

I like air signs as friends but the "in the head" energy doesn't work well romantically.....Pluto wants to connect deeply and air signs often find this difficult.

It's no surprise that all the air signs I've had rships with....Libra, Aqua x 2 and an Aqua moon didn't work out, I was left feeling hungry and them exhausted (((sorry guys))) 💙

I have all elements.