aries sun/ moon cancer/ venus in aries

does any experts have advice for me regarding how I am in relationship? I tend to fall hard in love and hard to break the weak emotional cycle. how can i utilize my sun aries and venus in aries to more aggressive? i think my moon cancer has been holding me down to passivity. thank you for all replies

I have moon, merc, mars in cancer... polish yourself to shine 😛 it will only affect you if you let it.

Sun Aries 19.55 AscendantSagittarius 2.32
Moon Cancer 24.44 II Capricorn 1.26
Mercury Taurus 6.26 III Aquarius 1.09
Venus Aries 2.10 IV Pisces 2.42
Mars Scorpio 28.15 R V Aries 4.57
Jupiter Capricorn 12.20 VI Taurus 5.17
Saturn Scorpio 14.47 R VII Gemini 2.32
Uranus Sagittarius 13.21 R VIII Cancer 1.26
Neptune Capricorn 1.25 R IX Leo 1.09
Pluto Scorpio 1.03 R Midheaven Virgo 2.42
Lilith Pisces 13.21 XI Libra 4.57
Asc node Gemini 7.47 XII Scorpio 5.17

than you in advance for those who can help. i feel like my needing love n being in love frustrates me since im aries dude.

^^^ those are def. traits of cancer moon (ie: emotions) & mars in scorpio (very passionate individual). Also, have lilith in Pisces. Aside from that it's human nature to want love. Find a healthy balance within yourself - needs, desires, feelings, what you want & don't want... and project that.

thank you for the feedback, it does seems like past few years my water side has been dominating the way i feel and think. I hope next year 2011 will be a new beginning for all aries with saturn transitting, or is it uranus?

oh dang blue, i have saturn in 7th too. uranus as well.

Thanks Blue. That's interesting because Saturn in 7th = commit, whilst Uranus in 7th = freedom.

lol there aint any experts on dxp yo better off googling everything

his saturn is not in the 7th house, its in the 11th

he has a 5th house sun and 8th house moon which can explain he desire to break and end a cycle of some sort and sicne the moon is domicle its easier for him to recognize this pattern

as for what can you do? You dont have to utilize your chart to be more aggressive you make your chart your chart doesnt make you

you have a 12th house mars and that can make you want to be more agressive and blind to you assertiveness

your sun trine uranus can make you imply change more easily so if you do want to be more aggressive that would help, look at your whole chart for changes not just what says aries and dont percieve cancer as weak either, yes aries is strong but something in your chart besides the cancer moon can bring you down tremendously

another thing, if anything your cancer moon is helping you be strong, its trine your scorpio mars making you brave and giving your emotions some fire and umph to them making you more direct with how you fell and who you feel it towards, it gives courage to the emotions and bravery but since your mars is in the 12th house you might not recognize this right away

your venus and neptune are square and that can make you fall hard in relationships also b/c you are not seeing people clearly, only how you want to see them or how they present themselves, so your venus in sries can be your source of trouble also

interesting assessing, mostly accurate. i guess illusions will hurt when truth hits the fan. what i mean is that you are right that i tend to see people the way i want to see them; i am kinda of a hermit, but tend to only want to be close to those who i want to be close too. i don't like the casual relationship, feels like investing for no return. I think because of this way of thinking it can lead to unwanted consequences of disobeying the law of averages.