Bettering Yourself Through Astrology

From Jan Spiller (her books are so amazing!) — the book refers to this as —Releasing Past Karma??
I??ll hopefully post them all by this time next week, hopefully Spiller??s people don't take this thread down!!! 😭


There's no way I can make this thread seem cool lol — but it's an interesting look at the dirty laundry of all the signs.

North Node in Aries/1th House
(also applies to strong Libra/7th House in the chart)


GOALS — release negative Libra tendencies and take on positive Aries qualities.


Strengthening Independence
- I want to easily find myself accepting responsibility for my own survival
- I want all unhealthy codependent tendencies totally lifted from me
- I want all resentment of other people being unfair with me totally lifted from me
- I want to consciously and consistently honour my needs for independence
- I want to easily find myself staying centred in my own identity
- I want the thought that I need others for my survival totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself depending on others in a healthy way that does not lead to disappointment
- I want to easily find myself establishing my own material independence

Encourage the Process of Self-Discovery
- I want the habit of comparing myself to others totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself honestly expressing what is true for me in my life
- I want the habit of seeing myself through others?? eyes easily lifted from me
- I want to be so centred within myself that I am not distracted by others?? perception of me
- I want to consciously and consistently view life as a process of self-discovery
- I want to consciously, consistently, be aware of my personal identity from inside of myself
- I want all self-limiting images of —who I should be?? totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself following my own impulses for self-leadership

Overcome Indecisiveness
- I want to easily find myself ACTING on my impulses!
- I want all guilt surrounding fulfilling my needs easily lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself trusting my instincts
- I want all self-defeating preoccupation with —justice?? totally lifted from me
- I want to consciously and consistently take action on my own inner impulses
- in making decisions, I want to easily find myself trusting and following my initial impulses

Promote Healthy Assertiveness
- I want courage to fill every area of my life, empowering me to speak my truth directly, in a loving way
- I want to easily find myself saying the right words that allow others to really hear me
- I want to easily find myself stating what I want first, and then listen to the desires of others
- I want all fears of asserting myself lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself initiating plans that are positive for me
- I want to easily find myself asserting what I want and need in a self-revealing way that results in others cooperating with me
- I want the notion that I have to always be —a nice person?? totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself handling my relationships in a way that is in my overall best interests.


To Maintain Inner Peace in the Midst of External Disruption
- I want to easily find myself experiencing the peace and love of my own energetic field when I am with others
- I want the habit of merging with the personalities of others totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself consciously and consistently centred within my own body and energy
- I want the habit of leaving my own serenity in order to restore harmony for others easily lifted from me
- When external disruption occur, I want to easily find myself resting in the harmonious love in my own nature
- I want the idea that I am responsible for the harmony of others totally lifted from me


Strengthen Self-Love
- I want to easily find myself appreciating the depth of love in my own nature
- I want to easily find myself fully accepting and loving myself
- I want to easily find myself consciously cooperating with the process of my metamorphosis, which will allow me to reflect more of my natural beauty
- I want to easily find myself being my own best partner
- I want to consciously and consistently be aware of loving myself and acting in my own best interests
- I want to easily find myself feeling complete and confident in just being myself

*1st House - I swear I finished school😛


Typed it all up myself so there may be a few errors. Will be posting Taurus tomorrow!!

I want North NOde in Gem/South Node Sag nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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lol I can't skip!😛 I might be able to do a few more later tonight -__-

I'll have to pull the old familiar Virgo-sheepish-grin then 🙂

I love Astrology for the Soul by her. All about north nodes. Mine was so dead on. Sent you a PM Lena!

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Posted by Slicks
ahhhhhh, damn you north node in pisces!

Lol
Cosigns

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funny how are north nodes reflect the signs we have had issues with. mine is in aqua. go figure.

lol expect Pisces sometime in February 😛

Posted by Dreamer02
I love Astrology for the Soul by her. All about north nodes. Mine was so dead on. Sent you a PM Lena!

I PMed you🙂

Posted by Dreamer02
funny how are north nodes reflect the signs we have had issues with. mine is in aqua. go figure.

Me too! Sometimes it's hit or miss. But I OBSESS over them lol. We're supposed to get on with them but I dunno, sometimes I wanna kick them😛

North Node in Taurus/2nd House
(also applies to strong Scorpio in the chart)


GOALS — release negative Scorpio tendencies and take on positive Taurus qualities.





Promote Feelings of Self-Worth
- I want to easily find myself consciously aware of what I NEED in various situations as they arise
- I want all feelings of guilt around stating my needs to others totally lifted from me
- I want the habit of invalidating my own needs totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself communicating my needs as they arise
- in choosing my direction, I want to easily find myself putting my own needs first
- I want to easily find myself making choices that are in alignment with raising my self-worth


Overcome Dependence on Validation from Others
- I want all feelings of needing validation from others totally lifted from me
- I want the idea that I need the energy of others to survive easily lifted from me
- I want to continuously and successfully rely on my own energy for survival
- I want all feelings of bondage to others?? values totally lifted from me
- I want all unhealthy attachment to other people's opinions of me totally lifted from me
- I want all tendencies to manipulate the views and values of others totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself actively pursuing my own independent directions


Increase Financial Responsibility
- I want all self-sabotaging thoughts and actions around money totally lifted from me
- I want all feelings of inadequacy around money totally lifted from me
- I want healthy self-confidence to enter all my dealings with money
- I want the notion that —I don't know what to do?? with money totally lifted from me
- in the issue of money, I want to be comfortable beyond fear
- I want to easily find myself taking charge with money in a way that is in my overall best interests
- I want to easily find myself consciously and consistently experiencing gratitude in every area of my life
- I want to easily find myself restoring my credit record to be acceptable for future loan applications

Develop Healthy Boundaries
- I want to easily find myself creating healthy boundaries between myself and those with whom I am close
- I want to easily find myself verbally acknowledging my feelings when something makes me uncomfortable, which will allow healthy boundaries to be identified
- I want to easily find myself supporting others without losing myself
- I want to easily find myself consistently asking the question: —Do I feel comfortable with this situation— and acting in accordance with what makes me feel at ease
- I want to easily find myself consciously aware of not crossing my own boundaries when I relate to others
- I want the habit of pushing past the boundaries of others easily lifted from me
- I want total clarity in seeing how to maintain healthy boundaries with others in a happy way


Promote a Step-by-Step Approach to Achieving Goals
- I want to easily find myself consciously aware of what MY values are in various situations as they arise
- I want to consciously be aware of what makes ME feel good about myself, and pursue those directions that give me a solid sense of self-worth
- I want the habit of postponing my own needs until my partner is —ready??, totally lifted from me
- I want the habit of pressing for instant results easily lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself relying on my own efforts for success
- I want to easily find myself approaching my goals with a step-by-step process that assures my needs will be met
- I want to easily find myself respecting myself for the steady progress I am making


Release the Tendency to Be Overly Concerned with Others?? Business
- I want to easily find myself focussing on my OWN LIFE, rather than the needs and desires of others
- I want to easily find myself learning from my experiences without self-judgment
- I want the habit of being preoccupied with the wants and needs of others totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself forgiving others in a way that is empowering for me
- I want to easily find myself staying out of other people's business
- I want to easily find myself enjoying what I have, without desiring to experience something from another person's life
- I want all tendencies to abuse power totally lifted from me

Release the Tendency to Create Crisis and Stress
- I want to easily find myself making choices that lead to the inner experiences of comfort, serenity, and peace
- I want all tendencies to overspending totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself becoming CONSCIOUS around money in a way that leads to increased security and financial ease
- I want the habit of attracting crisis-prone people into my life easily lifted from me
- I want the addiction to crisis totally lifted from me
- I want to consciously and consistently choose the path of peace over the path of crisis

I'm reeeeeeally surprised Scorpios battle with serious self worth issues.. just doesn't compute. They seem so tough and unbreakable.

Posted by ellybd
I LURVE AQUA! But I have lotsa 11th house too. However all the Aqua's I love are friends so big difference. Dated an Aqua once, but he gots another lady pregnant in that time, I didn't even love him or have sex him, all the while he was talking about getting married, LOL. Crazy. I think he had some cancer in em though, he was ALWAYS running home to mom.

wow another Aqua strikes again!!😢 And people wonder why I have issues with the guys😛

lol!! I see "Buttering Yourself" and these horrid images of greasy wrestling pop into my head😛


Working on Gemini now!🙂

North Node in Gemini/3rd House
(also applies to strong Sagittarius in the chart)


GOALS — release negative Sagittarius tendencies and take on positive Gemini qualities.





Enhance the Ability for True Communication
- I want all tendencies to self-righteousness totally lifted from me
- I want all attachment to —being right?? totally lifted from me
- I want the need for others to agree with my ideas totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself sincerely listening to the ideas of others with the intention of really understanding how they see the world
- I want to easily find myself allowing others to share their thoughts, without feeling I need to either agree or disagree with them
- I want to easily find myself deeply listening to the ideas of others and respecting their right to have their own point of view
- I want to easily find myself communicating my ideas in a way that is nonthreatening to others


Develop Tact
- I want to easily find myself successfully and joyfully connecting with a variety of different people
- I want to easily find myself sharing my thoughts without needing others to agree with me
- I want to easily find myself using the right words to say what I want in a way that others can easily understand
- I want to easily find myself deeply listening to others to enhance my ability to supply them with the information they may be asking for
- I want to easily find myself easily saying the right words that lead to others understanding my point of view in a way they can accept
- I want to easily find myself communicating my ideas in a way that creates love and closeness with others


Promote Comfort When Really Listening to Others
- I want all fears of —not knowing what to say?? totally listed from me
- I want to easily find myself breathing deeply whenever I feel anxious or upset
- I want the compulsion to provide answers totally lifted from me
- if I feel awkward, I want to easily find myself changing the subject by asking the person a friendly question about their life
- I want to easily find myself listening and learning from others, feeling the pleasure of a deep mental connection and an understanding of their point of view
- I want to easily find myself asking the right questions that lead to my understanding others on a deeper level

Promote Openness to Facts and Logic
- When I have trouble making a decision, I want to easily find myself verbalising my dilemma to the other people involved
- when I become panicky, I want clear logic to enter my mind, showing me the facts of the situation and the logical way to proceed
- I want to easily find myself verbalising my point of view as —truth?? for me at this time, recognising that I can always change my mind
- I want to easily find myself successfully applying clear logic in every area of my life
- When I become suspicious, I want to easily find myself checking more deeply into the facts of the situation
- I want to easily find myself taking time to gain the factual information I need to feel comfortable making a decision


Prompt the Habit of Daily Journalising
- I want to easily find myself consciously valuing the process of writing in my life
- I want to easily find myself acting on my urges to write
- I want the habit of minimizing the importance of my need to write totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself writing in my journal
- I want to easily find myself communicating my changing thoughts about a situation without needing to have a solution
- When I feel indecisive, I want to easily find myself communicating my two different thoughts about the matter to the person involved

Increase Acceptance and Enjoyment of Others Just as They Are
- I want the compulsion to reform others totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself accepting others?? ideas and points of view as true for them
- I want to release the urgency of trying to influence or guide the outcome of things
- I want to easily find myself not trying to do God's job
- I want to easily find myself valuing the personalities I'm involved with more than the end results we're striving for
-I want all righteous anger totally lifted from me

North Node in Cancer/4th House
(also applies to strong Capricorn in the chart)


GOALS — release negative Capricorn tendencies and take on positive Cancer qualities.



Increase Awareness of Personal Feelings
- I want all tendencies to suppress my feelings totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself being AWARE of — and accepting of- the fact that I have moods and feelings
- I want to easily find myself accepting, and succeeding in, situations where I experience feelings of love, caring, closeness, and happiness
- I want to easily find myself consciously aware of and identifying what MY feelings are as they arise in various situations
- I want all fears of closeness and intimacy totally lifted from me
- I want all fearof not knowing how to respond when others approach me with the energy of intimacy totally lifted from me


Help Release Controlling Tendencies
- I want the tendency of trying to control others?? reactions totally lifted from me
- I want the tendency to be standoffish and formal totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself graciously accepting help from others and acknowledging the value of their support
- I want to cease controlling others through my expectation that they change their behaviour to meet my needs
- I want to easily find myself allowing others to communicate how they feel, without thinking that I have to —do something??
- I want to easily find myself responding to others?? feelings by first acknowledging and empathising with their mood
- I want to easily find myself focusing on the process and letting go of trying to control outcomes


Encourage Sharing One's True Feelings
- I want to be aware of my feelings and easily find myself sharing them with others in a responsible way
- I want to easily find myself asking for the support I need
- I want to easily find myself sharing power by revealing my true feelings and inviting others to do the same
- When there is an opportunity for intimacy, I want the tendency to withdraw or —change the subject?? totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself communicating my true feelings in my close relationships with others
- in times of emotional trauma, I want to easily find myself revealing my feelings

Promote a Caring and Supporting Approach
- I want to easily find myself embracing the fact that others have feelings, fears, and insecurities that are very real for them
- I want to easily find myself empathetically aware of others?? feelings, without feeling that I have to feel the same way
- I want to easily find myself being interested in the personal lives of others, asking questions that let them know I care about them
- I want all fears around others sharing their feelings with me totally lifted from me
- I want to be sensitive to others?? verbalising needs
- I want to easily find myself accepting and understanding how others feel, and to experience closeness with them as a result
- I want to easily find myself aware of caring about others in their moments of needs


Heighten Awareness of Gut Instincts
- I want to easily find myself aware of my gut instincts
- I want to easily find myself consciously and consistently following my gut instincts in decision making
- I want to easily find myself accepting my personal feelings, fears, and insecurities
- I want to be aware of which people make ME feel good and loved, and consciously choose to spend time with people who care about me
- I want all self-defeating ploys to gain respect totally lifted from me
- I want the habit of saying one thing when I really need something else totally lifted from me


Prompt Satisfaction with the Present
- I want to easily find myself focussing on joy in the process of developing things with others
- I want to easily and happily stay in the —now?? moment, handling my life responsibly without being overly concerned for the future
- I want to easily find myself allowing others the freedom to care for me and fill my needs in their own way!
- I want to easily find myself TOTALLY RECEPTIVE and welcoming when others express their feelings of closeness with me
- I want the tendency to manage things in the best interests of others at the expense of my own personal needs totally lifted from me
- I want to feel a sense of ease and comfort when others approach me with the energy of intimacy and closeness

You'll notice I'm using British English spelling, don't mind me😛


I'm busy until the end of term, but I should be back to posting by next week. Maybe one or two before that✨

Thanks Leeenaaaaaaaaaaaa

I feel the nodes are the most accurate part of my chart (imho). It also gives me a real insight into people's thinking.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Thanks Leeenaaaaaaaaaaaa 3

Too much work to follow that advice though 😛 I think I feel comfy in my Sag South Node.

Get away from that south node!😛


I will try to post the next one asap. Maybe later tonight!

Elizabeth Spring has a great book on the nodes:
"North Node Astrology; Rediscovering Your Life Direction and Soul Purpose".

Paul

Thanks, Icered. The chapter on North Node in 3rd house was extremely good and helpful.

Paul

Posted by Equator
Elizabeth Spring has a great book on the nodes:
"North Node Astrology; Rediscovering Your Life Direction and Soul Purpose".

Paul

Cool thanks! I've been looking around for new Moon Nodes books, and this one looks promising (from the amazon *look inside* preview)

North Node in Leo/5th House
(also applies to strong Aquarius in the chart)


GOALS — release negative Aquarius tendencies and take on positive Leo qualities.



Help Build Self Confidence
- I want to be filled with healthy self-confidence in ever area of my life.
- I want all inhibiting fear totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself staying —on track?? until my goals are reached.
- I want all self-doubt totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself giving to others in a way that results in feelings of happy, healthy self-confidence.
- I want to easily find myself taking those risks that result in feelings of empowerment.


Strengthen Personal Ego
- I want to easily find myself responding to the drama of others in a way that creates new, positive directions for everyone concerned
- I want to easily find myself stating my wants in a way that others can hear and support.
- I want to easily find myself effectively speaking up to shift situations in more positive directions
- I want all fears of being overly dramatic easily lifted from me
- I want to consciously and consistently be aware of the child in others, leading me to respond to them in ways that are mutually empowering.
- I want to easily find myself taking a stronger stand in actively creating situations that are also happy for me




Promote True Self-Actualisation
- I want the fear of being ridiculed by others totally lifted from me
- I want the negative influence of peer pressure totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself recognising and honouring my own specialness
- I want the habit of self-censorship totally lifted from me
- I want to be consciously aware of when I am having fun, and then KNOW that it is the correct path for me!
- I want to easily find myself pursuing the things that make me happy

Activate Creative Power
- I want to be consciously and consistently aware of my power to create positive results in any situation.
- I want to be filled with the determination to carry through and create a happy life for myself
- I want to consciously and consistently to be in touch with my power of creative visualisation.
- I want to easily find myself using the power of my will to create the results I want
- I want to easily find myself making choices that increase my vitality and enjoyment of life!
- I want to easily find myself actively creating my own happy destiny


Support Direct Creative Involvement
- I want all self-limiting detachment totally lifted from me
- I want the habit of withdrawing from dramatic situations easily lifted from me
- I want all habit of —ivory tower?? isolation easily lifted from me
- when crisis arises, I want to easily find myself becoming involved in creating positive solutions
- I want to easily find myself willing to give positive attention to my personal relationships
- I want to easily find myself willing to take more risks in exploring my creative and fun life!

Prompt Taking Risks
- I want to easily find myself TAKING ACTION in pursuing those ventures that evoke feelings of joy and happiness within me
- I want to easily find myself less fearful of the future and more concerned with what makes me happy in the present moment
- I want to easily find myself pursuing activities that are fun for me
- I want to easily find myself following my inner joy and taking actions that are alignment with that happy feeling
- I want all fears of following my own heart totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself taking those risks that add vitality, joy, and creative self-expression to my life!

^I listen to music when I copy write this stuff, hopefully no lyrics slipped in there!! lol

*eagerly anticipates 6th house installment*

hahaha awww I will get to it soon xD

I keep thinking no one is interested, until someone bumps it up of course😛 I will get to it promise!!

Posted by iceredrobot
hahaha awww I will get to it soon xD

I keep thinking no one is interested, until someone bumps it up of course😛 I will get to it promise!!

OH!! Switched my computer back on to say - I will do the next one tonight!!

I had a bit of a mishap on the escalators today. I fell and in running shoes!! lol. Actually my foot slipped and landed on the next step, no big deal apart from my scream - butttt it was my knee who felt it. I think I reopened my old wound I made in April. So I had to pimp limp in the shopping centre/center/mall😛.. I've taken something for the pain which has me sleepy. I will try and get some sleep and get to this after!!
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North Node in Virgo/6th House
(also applies to strong Pisces in the chart)


GOALS — release negative Pisces tendencies and take on positive Virgo qualities.

UH-OH😄

Encourage Active Participation:
- Rather than withdrawing or running away, I want to easily find myself participating in relationships in a way that brings about positive results.
- I want to easily find myself actively focusing on creating positive results in my life
- I want to easily find myself successfully turning chaos into order in my environment through actively taking part
- I want all resistance to participation totally lifted from me
- I want the habbit of withdrawing easily lifted from me
- When other people get into their issues, I want to easily find myself actively taking part to help them see their situation more clearly


Prompt Adherence to Goals and Objectives:
- I want tendencies towards giving up magically transformed into renewed focus on creating success and happiness
- I want all selfsabotaging confusion totally lifted from me
- When worries arise, I want to easily find myself responding by focussing on a practical plan to restore order
- I want to easily find myself clearly defining my goals and objectives
- I want the habit of —giving up?? totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself preserving in creating the positive tangible results I want


Increase Focus on the Here and Now:
- I want all panic attacks totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself so focussed in the here and now that I automatically remember when I need to do things that are in my best interests
- I want to consciously and consistently be connected in the here and now, viewing people and situations with full awareness in the present moment
- When I feel anxious, I want to easily find myself noticing the details of my physical environment
- I want to easily find myself not allowing my imagination to dominate myexperience

Promote Discrimination
- I want the tendency to help others indiscriminately totally lifted from me
- I want accurate discrimination guiding me in putting my attention and energy in directions where I can create positive results
- I want the habit of absorbing other people's negativity totally lifted from me
- When I feel anxious about a situation, I want to easily find myself analysing the details — the facts and figures — to restore my serenity
- I want to easily find myself consciously and continuously aware of the important details in the situations around me
- I want the tendency to overlook details totally lifted from me


Help Dissolve Victim Tendencies:
- I want to easily find myself remembering, —This is not a victim lifetime!
- I want clear discrimination entering into all my relationships, leading to my accurately discerning when to be supportive and when to say no
- I want clear boundaries, empowering me to not allow abusive situations in my life
- I want the habit of playing the victim easily lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself saying no and meaning it when it serves my best interests
- I want to easily find myself saying no in a way that others hear and respect

Support a Healthy Routine
- I want the tendency to be late for appointments totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself setting and following healthy routines that add strength and confidence to my life
- I want right ideas to show me the best routine I can follow to create physical, mental and emotional strength and integration
- I want my attitude toward taking charge of my life and establishing a routine to be optimistic and joyful
- I want to easily find myself taking charge of my diet in a self-empowering way
- I want to easily find myself taking charge of my exercise program in a self-empowering way
- I want to easily find myself easily taking care of bills, errands, and other responsibilities in a timely manner.