Libra mars and sex

This topic was created in the Libra forum by RoseTheTaurus on Tuesday, August 28, 2012 and has 16 replies.

What Is Mars in Libra Like in Bed?

Mars in Libra in bed shows up as focusing on your pleasure, flirting, and making sure everything feels mutual rather than rushing into intensity. Many people notice they take their time, read your reactions, and adjust instead of being aggressive or dominant. In real situations, they can seem slow or indirect, especially if they’re unsure what you want. Their sex drive is tied more to connection and vibe than raw physical urgency.

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@RoseTheTaurus
14 Years500+ Posts

I just can't quite figure out Libra Mars. Especially as it concerns SEX.

I get Libra mars will try to please their partner, but do they actually crave sex or yearn for a sexual connection? In the way that Mars in Scorpio, Taurus, Leo...would? Is it more mental?
Is sex mostly just a way to please their partner, in the same way flowers, gifts or compliments would please their partner...

Sorry if this is too personal (and I'll promptly delete this thread if no one is having it), but does Libra Mars tend to have a low sex drive?

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@RoseTheTaurus
14 Years500+ Posts

I'm confused about this placement. lol

I have a libra moon friend who will mold her views and opinions to her significant other. If he likes boho chic girls. My friend will start dressing in boho attire and sprouting these philosophies about "naturalness" 😄 She once dated a rapper and suddenly started dressing in hip hop inspired outfits and talking with slang and shit. lol She doesn't even realize that she changed herself until after they break up and she needs to clean out her closet. lol
Libra sun sister is the same way. Hopeless romantic and jumps from relationship to relationship. Changing herself with each one and consistently convinced that each guy is the one.

So I guess I'm curious about what a Libra Mars' real, true, genuine desires are when it comes to sex. Do they just mold their sexual needs to their partners...
If their partner likes it 5 times a week, do they then also like it 5 times a week...

*shrug* it's an interesting placement 🙂

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@MelanieG
15 YearsLibra

"If their partner likes it 5 times a week, do they then also like it 5 times a week..."

if thats what he wants then i'll comply.

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@MelanieG
15 YearsLibra

your friend and sister don't really seem to know who the heck they are. no individuality, no sense of self. no uniqueness. thats kinda sad. how did they get that way?

women who don't have a strong sense of who they are or what they like or dislike are generally seen as boring. no offence but i can sorta see why they can't keep a man.

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Oh and my friend and sister are always the ones to do the dumping. Too my knowledge, neither of them has even been broken up with. Personally, I think it's about the novelty and fantasy wearing off.

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@MelanieG
15 YearsLibra

Posted by RoseTheTaurus

Posted by MelanieG
"If their partner likes it 5 times a week, do they then also like it 5 times a week..."

if thats what he wants then i'll comply.

Okay but what do YOU want? Just to please? Which is fine, if that's what pleases you...

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well if i had a choice i'd rather not be forced into having sex 5 times a week lol i'll probably just pick someone with a low sex drive so i can get away with giving him sex just once a week and he would be more than satisfied. lol i'm not sure if men like this even exist but lol

i'm not attracted to men who are like wild animals lol my body will be ruined!!!

those men should just date porn stars.

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@libragemmale
14 Years

My Virgo wife has Libra Mars , she does indeed have sexual energy but that dosent always mean being the dominant one, she is a giver at her core... It takes time for her to warm up but that might be her Virgo influence...If you are looking at more specific tips: You may have to be the instigator and agressor when with a Libra Mars ...Candlelight and lingere seem to help get things in motion , sensual porn helps and alot of foreplay . When a Libra Mars is comfortable in a relationship they will do nearly everything in bed, just ask !! the Libra Mars may want to make sure YOU are content before they are.. then please him/her !! enjoy ! it's that simple 🙂

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@celticlioness
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I dated a libra with libra mars (and moon), I can't say he was highly sexed but not low either, pleasing was not his top priority though - I was told once he "wasn't a fucking robot", this was 10 minutes in, ah well, moving swiftly on....

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@rockyroadicecream
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Posted by exoskeleton
libra mars, cuspin' it.

my sex drive is very high. i'm still a scorp after all.

i am overly generous because their satisfaction and reactions are a huge turn on for me. it's served me well. we both get taken care of above and beyond.

i'd say the mental stimulation/rapport is just as important as the physical and emotional. all go hand in hand/stem from each other.

as far as my own needs and desires, i am quite open about them, but i'm also compromising (to an extent).

I tried to formulate an answer previously, but I wasn't quite sure how to word it since the Libra that I was with was so... typical Libra in the bedroom. Never really thought much of the Libra mars aspect.

But this answer here pretty much sums things up in my experience.

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@Flavia
17 Years500+ Posts

I have Libra in Mars. I crave sex and experimentation. I am definitely a dominant personality sexually, I enjoy sex and want it all the time....

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@bravalover
13 YearsAries

I have mars in libra.
Connoisseurs of seduction. as libra ruling planet is venus and aphrodite.

no offense virgin girl. until u have some experiences you are voicing ur ideals and theories.

im an aries sun sign so i feel a bit weaker and i hesitate a bit longer than my brothers. but it does give me grace and finesse. when im getting a blowjob im not comfortable till i flip her to eat her out and make her cum.

and we do love anal play, giving and recieving.

as far sex drive goes, we are turn on by visually beautiful people, verbal and mental stimuli, lingerie and stories. we are always learning how to be better lovers.

mars in libra make great actors cuz we mirror people close to us in behavior, speech patterns, and personality.

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@libragirl37
13 Years

Personally I love sex because its amazing. I like to please and be the best but who doesn't want to make the guy there with happy? I have a mind of my own in bed tho unlike other libras I've read about. I am a libra that loves sex and I'm not afraid to tell you exactly how I want it because I'm fair and will givr my man everything he wants.

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@follealicat
13 Years

My boyfriend is a Scorpio with libra mars but his sex drive is verrry high and he loves to dominate, but always pleases me too. He has a Leo moon though...