Cap girl with libra man

Hi guys..Been reading it all here about how caps are..I think caps are terrified/petrified 2 get hurt..And i think they seem cruel because they r so defensive..But 2 be honest i am so bored with playing that safe.Or even thinking about it.I'm so inlove with this libra guy and he is with me.And yes,I already noticed differences in our ways of thinking:Just ask a cap and a libra to complete this sentence:"The higher you get..." My go:'the longer the distance form where you fall down'. My Mr Libra's go: 'then nobody can touch you (e.g.in your happiness)'. Q.E.D. I think though that i can meet him half way.. because the way he loves is the way i always dreamed of. I am getting used to it, still reluctant to let go..all those thoguhts in the back of my head that is almost too good to be true. I am learnign to let go as well ( those nasty habbits of tryihng to persuade him slightly to spend every single moment with me). He knows about all these battles goin on my head, and says he understands me and he will keep knocking at my door until i open it widely cos he thinks i am worth it.I don't wanna bore him with all my insecurities. Does is seem like I've engaged myself on a project? May be. That's the way of thinking that caps feel safe with.. But we are not that cold... and i am learnign from my libra guy that candles, chocolate and flowers and beautiful words are not necessarily b***ls*it all the time, and that he's got such a big heart and he is not shallow.Does it sound like i use him so i will achieve i don't know what goals or i don't know? Do i sound too optimistic? All life's rules make a cap seem so uptight and so rigid and heartless.cos caps go by the rules. i am learning these days to let go and literally enjoy the moments and to please my libra love, without thinking what would people say, what if he lies, what if he makes a fool of me, what if he got bored, etc.. I'm sure you caps recognise these thoughts. They look plain stupid on paper, don't they? And aren't they a waste of time. Anyway..... I think I'm gonna become a writer:p . The reason i came here was to see if there are out there cap girls with libra guys and how are they getting along..

I am a Libra gal to the "T" and I think that, even for the moment, letting your guard down and going with the flow will prove to be catharic for you. While Libra's are big flirts, when we are committed to caring for someone- we are committed. We love relationships and the aspects that come with relationships.. trust, security and sincerity. I am currently with a Cap male and I can see how it is easy to build a wall around your heart, especially if you have been hurt before.. But you can't live your entire life on the defense. Try opening up a little to him. See what happens.. I can almost guarantee that you will like the results.

Like I said, I am with a Cap man and we get along great! We have a very similiar sense of humor and are both very philisophic... I see the border of carefulness about my Cappy man and while I understand how he feels and appreciate it, it bothers me that he has to "take time to think" about the situation when his actions shows how he really feels (actions speak louder than words). I know that Cappys are very analytical and think things through.. so I decided that anyone who is worth dating, is worth the wait.

But try opening up to your Libra man, I am sure he would be thrilled!! Libra men can change your whole life's perspective... on the big aspects but even more importantly on the little details that this world offers that are generally overlooked.

Good luck and if you have any questions, feel free to ask!

Caps with libra's turn coats.