Compatibility insights anyone?

Anyone have any insights on the compatibility of these 2 charts? It's of myself and my boyfriend, going on 5 years.

Sun Aries 24.35 Ascendant Capricorn 22.50
Moon Virgo 16.02 II Pisces 9.54
Mercury Pisces 29.48 R III Aries 20.29
Venus Aries 8.37 IV Taurus 18.51
Mars Pisces 13.20 V Gemini 10.34
Jupiter Virgo 5.03 R VI Cancer 0.23
Saturn Aquarius 16.56 VII Cancer 22.50
Uranus Capricorn 17.59 VIII Virgo 9.54
Neptune Capricorn 18.57 IX Libra 20.29
Pluto Scorpio 22.19 R Midheaven Scorpio 18.51
Lilith Aquarius 9.24 XI Sagittarius 10.34
Asc node Capricorn 3.22 XII Capricorn 0.23

Zodiac in degrees 0.00

Placidus Orb:0

Sun Virgo 13.51 Ascendant Aries 6.31
Moon Virgo 12.35 II Taurus 10.57
Mercury Virgo 29.36 R III Gemini 9.20
Venus Leo 24.42 R IV Cancer 4.42
Mars Leo 15.35 V Leo 0.36
Jupiter Sagittarius 3.23 VI Virgo 0.32
Saturn Scorpio 1.11 VII Libra 6.31
Uranus Sagittarius 5.19 VIII Scorpio 10.57
Neptune Sagittarius 26.29 R IX Sagittarius 9.20
Pluto Libra 27.45 Midheaven Capricorn 4.42
Lilith Aquarius 19.20 XI Aquarius 0.36
Asc node Gemini 20.57 XII Pisces 0.32

LOL, thank you for your insight. What did you mean by my pisces moon seals the deal with his virgo moon?

You were right about us being rather logical, but we do have emotions that run very deep. We have an understanding of eachother without always having to speak. I think our problem lies in our mars (pisces and leo)

We have our issues, just seeing where they might stem from. I've always liked looking at charts and compatibility in general between people, family members included.

We may be logical but we do have venus in fire signs :p

the way i've recently understood it is your mars placement tells (with respect to relationships) the way in which you want to be loved, or even how you want to take it, i guess. venus explains how you *give* love. the aspect between your mars and his venus, and vice versa, is more telling than venus-venus and mars-mars. seems you both understand each other quite naturally, given you have the same moon signs. and based on mars and venus, i'd say he gets what he wants from the relationship quite readily, but for you... perhaps he needs a little more help understanding the way in which you want to be loved.

complete amateur here though. take what i say with a grain of salt.

Posted by ariesvirgo123
We have our issues, just seeing where they might stem from.

I think good synastry is always mixed up of good things and bad things. And it's really important that good things prevail so that you still have love and care for each other to cope with bad ones.

Your issues may be coming from your pluto squaring his venus. Google it and you will find its not a piece of sweet cake in synastry. It's a never ending emotional drama, intensity and most probably manipulation, unless you both are Plutonian and can handle it somehow.
And your saturn oppose his mars, which isn't so good. But I think this is the aspect which keeps you both together in long term relationship.

However you've got some super jupiter stuff in your synastry as well. Your jupiter is conjunct his moon and sun, which means you light up his life and he feels very uplifted in your presence.
You also have good romantic compatibility as your venuses are in fire signs and his mars trines your venus.
Your emotions are in tune as your moons are conjunct.
You also have good neptunian aspects, that add this euphory (your neptune to his sun and moon, his neptune to your sun).
Would be good to see moon to venus contacts though.

And as mentioned earlier, your mars in Pisces opposes his moon. Can manifest in your actions hurting his emotions often.

His venus trines your sun - he admires you

Posted by Springmood
His venus trines your sun - he admires you

That was a lovely reading, thank you! I'll definitely look into the aspects you mentioned.

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Posted by ariesvirgo123
We have our issues, just seeing where they might stem from.

I think good synastry is always mixed up of good things and bad things. And it's really important that good things prevail so that you still have love and care for each other to cope with bad ones.

Your issues may be coming from your pluto squaring his venus. Google it and you will find its not a piece of sweet cake in synastry. It's a never ending emotional drama, intensity and most probably manipulation, unless you both are Plutonian and can handle it somehow.
And your saturn oppose his mars, which isn't so good. But I think this is the aspect which keeps you both together in long term relationship.

However you've got some super jupiter stuff in your synastry as well. Your jupiter is conjunct his moon and sun, which means you light up his life and he feels very uplifted in your presence.
You also have good romantic compatibility as your venuses are in fire signs and his mars trines your venus.
Your emotions are in tune as your moons are conjunct.
You also have good neptunian aspects, that add this euphory (your neptune to his sun and moon, his neptune to your sun).
Would be good to see moon to venus contacts though.

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I looked up what it means by my Saturn opposing his mars, definitely not great. What do you mean by this aspect keeping us together exactly?

Posted by ariesvirgo123

Posted by Springmood

Posted by ariesvirgo123
We have our issues, just seeing where they might stem from.

I think good synastry is always mixed up of good things and bad things. And it's really important that good things prevail so that you still have love and care for each other to cope with bad ones.

Your issues may be coming from your pluto squaring his venus. Google it and you will find its not a piece of sweet cake in synastry. It's a never ending emotional drama, intensity and most probably manipulation, unless you both are Plutonian and can handle it somehow.
And your saturn oppose his mars, which isn't so good. But I think this is the aspect which keeps you both together in long term relationship.

However you've got some super jupiter stuff in your synastry as well. Your jupiter is conjunct his moon and sun, which means you light up his life and he feels very uplifted in your presence.
You also have good romantic compatibility as your venuses are in fire signs and his mars trines your venus.
Your emotions are in tune as your moons are conjunct.
You also have good neptunian aspects, that add this euphory (your neptune to his sun and moon, his neptune to your sun).
Would be good to see moon to venus contacts though.

I looked up what it means by my Saturn opposing his mars, definitely not great. What do you mean by this aspect keeping us together exactly?

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well this one is generally considered as bad aspect, but there's always a second side of the coin with a saturn aspect. Any saturn to personal planet aspect (even hard one)glues two people together and is a must for any long-term relationship. Without saturn aspects they say there's no chance for a long-term relationship. And in your synastry I noticed only this one aspect of saturn.

I am not an astrologer, so this is what I saw from my angle