Does anyone (upon meeting a potential partner) decide whether or not you will or could date someone based on their sign?
Dating Based On the Signs.

I'd be inclined to give it some study if I had her birth info.
The problem is getting the info without sounding awkward.
If I saw a lot of red flags like several hard aspects between fire and air,
I'd save us both a lot of grief and just fade away.
Paul
The problem is getting the info without sounding awkward.
If I saw a lot of red flags like several hard aspects between fire and air,
I'd save us both a lot of grief and just fade away.
Paul
That is ironic lol. Honestly, asking their sign is one of the first things I do in the whole 'get to know each other' process. I just think it saves time that could've been waisted. I know that compatibilty goes beyond the sun sign, so I let them know that I'm into astrology and ask if they know their birth time (the ones that seemed more open-minded). It's actually helped me avoid becoming romantically involved with some incompatible people, Paul. I say it's worth an awkward moment.

That said, I wouldn't discard someone just because of their sun sign.
I totally go by feel. I have always given people the benefit-of-the-doubt.
Paul
I totally go by feel. I have always given people the benefit-of-the-doubt.
Paul

Yes! I know if I find out he's a Sag, Aries or Aqua I'm gonna think "NOOOOOOO". That's why I give them a chance, get to know them before getting their bday😄
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