@dogsbody
18 Years1,000+ Posts
No.
Not a factor at all.
Posted by dogsbodyI know from observation and interaction that most people do show the traits that are generally
associated with their starsign, but not all !!!I must admit, If i meet someone new and it looks promising, I do try to discreetly find out what
their sign is.....just out of curiosity :-)
I have to agree with the first sentence a great deal. Pretty interesting, all in all...
What I did was to look back at my friends and my ex. I did this after I came to DXP, you see. I was quite struck by what I discovered. Huh, maybe there are reasons I have associated with who I have associated with.
The ex is a scorp, I am Aries, of course. The relationship was pretty much as described in many places. Lots of sex, intense at many levels, and ended over control issues. Rather curious, all in all....
Do I look at the sign etc of someone I am finding interesting. Matter of fact I do. But, as dogsbody points out, more to look for guidelines, rather than actual expectations.
As a small detail, as my "dating" is very, very limited (non-existent), I rather expect I don't have much actual insight to offer. I still like to look up any potential candidate just to see.
Never, but I've noticed a pattern to the people I have dated and their natal chart in relation to mine.
You should check it out, it's interesting. REally, I wouldn't date someone because they were compatible to me, as a matter of fact, if I looked up a synastry chart on that other person, i'd probably ethier find out things I already knew, or things I shouldn't be looking into the first place that might mess me up.
IOW , it takes the fun out of dating for me.
^^^ yeah, i agree it's like this with every element match...understand how each other work, have intimate knowledge of the best pressure points. not pretty.
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How big a part does someone's starsign play in your decision to date them?
Or does it play any part at all?
I know from observation and interaction that most people do show the traits that are generally
associated with their starsign, but not all !!!
The worst relationship I ever had (Platonic) was with a Virgo - absolute Hell
Yet as a Capricorn, its supposed to be a perfect match.
I must admit, If i meet someone new and it looks promising, I do try to discreetly find out what
their sign is.....just out of curiosity :-)