Do people react angrily/emotionally because of

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Moon mars opposite.

It's hard to explain but makes sense I guess. Taurus mars normally can just laugh things off, which I do at first, but then it starts to eat away at my thoughts, until I feel the need to get midevil. So it's like

"Haha, you are so right, I'm such an idiot lol.. yea I really am a fuck up...ha..ha...i wonder why I just can't get stuff right... I wonder how that sentence would sound coming out of your mouth with no jaw? Or if you could gargle that sentence with a slit throat?"
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Virgo moon, Sag Mars. I can normally keep composure. I've found the ONLY emotion I show well is anger. other than that I'm known to my friends as the emotionless one (as a joke yet somewhat serious). but when I am angry I blow up like a time bomb. I keep composure, keep composure, keep composure. then you push your luck for the last time and it's done. I explode. I only blow up towards strangers who persist in being rude, someone in a relationship with me who keeps pushing my buttons and I've already explained myself several times. I never blow up on friends...well...usually. there have been a few times where close friends have pushed me to the point of explosion. then I apologize for my anger but tell them I won't let them keep walking on me without standing up for myself.
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Posted by Damnata
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So it's like

"Haha, you are so right, I'm such an idiot lol.. yea I really am a fuck up...ha..ha...i wonder why I just can't get stuff right... I wonder how that sentence would sound coming out of your mouth with no jaw? Or if you could gargle that sentence with a slit throat?"
This sounds vaguely familliar.
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I was worse in highschool. I remember listing to angry metal music like slipknot and just fantasizing about beating my enemies to a bloody pulp. I would mentally unleash a beast and people would be holding me back but I was always too strong. Just beating them with my fists till they quit breathing. Sometimes would get sadistic whichever would scare me back into reality. It was like I was getting addicted to the adrenaline I'd get from the visions. I grew out of it though, so look at it now as controlling my anger by unleashing it through an outlet called music. Now I just got over it from the start.

I was always that quiet kid in the back, so this is why they tell you don't fuck with the quiet kids lol
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You know Soul, people always look at the quiet kid in the background and profile tendencies out of that.

I was the exact opposite. Happy, engaging with everyone, talking a lot, hyperactive.

I lost it once in the 10th grade and it was enough of a shock to me to never go "there" again. It wasn't the intensity of the anger, it was the fact that I completely blacked out. I don't like lapses in reasoning so..worked on that.

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Posted by Damnata
The Moon-Mars aspect.

Thank God for my Virgo Sun.
I can honestly say I've witnessed angry outbursts from every sign, except for virgo. It's crazy to me how much control you guys have over your emotions. Even when you're angry, you appear calm. You could be uttering obscenities at someone, and if I were deaf, I couldn't tell if you're irate or just having a normal conversation lol. I'd definitely never want to be a source of your displeasure, though.
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The Moon-Mars aspect.

Thank God for my Virgo Sun.
I can honestly say I've witnessed angry outbursts from every sign, except for virgo. It's crazy to me how much control you guys have over your emotions. Even when you're angry, you appear calm. You could be uttering obscenities at someone, and if I were deaf, I couldn't tell if you're irate or just having a normal conversation lol. I'd definitely never want to be a source of your displeasure, though.
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We have a switch about acting our emotions out or not. When it gets switched to on, all reason goes out the window in a bad way.

We generally take the high road though.
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Mars in gemini, Aries moon.

Words that cut deep, volcano tempter that fuels it.
I have the same mars, mixed with a passive moon lol once my Libra has had enough, Gem's got it covered 😛 although, I speak intensely and passionately when it comes to being 'fair' and respecting others, so I think Leeb moons fight for things as well if they really care. My moon just allows for me to pick my battles, and refines the nature of Gem mars a bit.
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Posted by liya-b
Anger is caused my mars, moon gives it an emotional take.

My scorpio moon is trine my cancer mars...both in detriment, both making me internalise everything. I just blank out and not react or sweep it under the rug even if it's killing me inside. I have a really sneaky sort of anger too, it's never direct and people hate it.
Oh, I can imagine. That's a lot of water influencing emotions. I have a friend with these placements and she reacts much like you do. It makes me sad for her, because I want to be able to help her vocalize how she's feeling. But, at the same time, we all have our own process and if people don't like it, that's their issue. Not yours. Just like it hurts those who are very vocal about their feelings to be torn down, it's not fair to demand those who internalize it to operate the way we WANT them to.
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Posted by dontgetmewrong
My mom had a terrible temper (virgo with virgo moon)... I can normally tell when she's trying to contain it ( she geTs real quiet and her jaw clamps up, aSian eyes squnit just a lititle tighter) ...then I do something else that just tips the pot over and she's chasing me around the house with her slipper. My cap grandma chased with the broom. Ahhh, earth signs are so fun to piss off. ... I really miss those days. 😢
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Posted by xomelindabelle
their moon or mars? Which has a stronger influence when arguing or emotionally reacting to another, would you say?
Well I'm sure the automatic response is Mars, but the way you've phrased the question I'd say both play a role. I think it depends on the Moon and Mars in question, no?

For instance, I have a air/mutable Moon. I'm not one for going back and forth rounds and rounds with anyone. I simply don't care enough about changing your mind to do so and I'm completely okay with you not getting what I'm saying. I share my pov, you take in for what it's worth. Or not. I may rephrase what I've said, but only to clarify. I can respect that you see things differently and will move on easily. At some point I'm bored with the discussion. Repetition annoys me. That's all Moon.

My Mars on the other hand is easily activated, meaning I get pissed off very easily, but rarely express it. Probably because it's a slow simmer vs and explosion (lol well maybe not from the other person's pov). When activated I simply take space from the person or situation until I'm feeling better. It usually doesn't happen until a long time has passed. Fixed Mars after all. If I do express it, I'm going all out and ripping you a new assh*le. It is extreme. I've made a decision we are not coming back from this and going all out, which is why I rarely show that side. In this respect there is no "arguing" going on. It's done.

My Mars is invested and focused on an end game. My Moon isn't invested and goes with the flow. Neither argue. Both are emotionally reacting. The value I place on the person and the relationship will determine which one you'll see.