Do you like shy or outgoing people?

What is your sign? What kind of people do you find attractive? Shy and quiet or outgoing and confident?

I'm a Cap - I need to be around humerous people. Shy or quiet doesn't matter, as long as they make me laugh.

However, usually, I'm more drawn to outgoing people - they make me feel more at ease - unless they are loud and obnoxious (then I just get embarrassed to be seen with them). But with shy people, I become the outgoing one.

Posted by ispikeddacoffee
I do prefer outgoing people, but I definitely don't dislike shy people. 🙂

I'm a Gemini. 🙂

So you are a Gemini. I know a lot of Gemini girl (one of them is my best friend) and all of them are really social and outgoing. That's why I've always thought they'd find quiet people more attractive. You know that "opposite attract" thing.

Posted by Ligeia
Shy and quiet all the way!

From my experience they're the people with

the most depth and far more interesting.

-Sagittarius

@ taurus85

WTH are you implying that a shy, quiet person

lacks confidence? Since you used that word in

describing the outgoing types.

Um well I think half of the shy people are unconfident. Like they don't wanna talk to people because they think the other people just don't want to talk with them. The other half just can't express themselves. But again it's just my personal opinion 😉

Posted by Ligeia
Shy and quiet all the way!

From my experience they're the people with

the most depth and far more interesting.

-Sagittarius

@ taurus85

WTH are you implying that a shy, quiet person

lacks confidence? Since you used that word in

describing the outgoing types.

Um well I think half of the shy people are unconfident. Like they don't wanna talk to people because they think the other people just don't want to talk with them. The other half just can't express themselves. But again it's just my personal opinion 😉

Posted by truecap
I'm a Cap - I need to be around humerous people. Shy or quiet doesn't matter, as long as they make me laugh.

However, usually, I'm more drawn to outgoing people - they make me feel more at ease - unless they are loud and obnoxious (then I just get embarrassed to be seen with them). But with shy people, I become the outgoing one.

Oh I'm sorry to hear that because I'm a really shy Taurus girl and I kinda like a Capricorn guy. Maybe that's the reason he never talks to me 😢

I like outgoing/confident people. I need people like that to get me out of my shell.

-Pisces

Posted by thebiggcarlos
gemini. and a shy and very quiet one. NOT OUTGOING. and no not all geminis are outgoing. please read about gemini people with scorpio rising first before making comments.

I didn't say all of the Geminis are outgoing. But the ones I know are. I didn't meant to make a wrong comment. Sorry...

Posted by taurus85

Posted by truecap
I'm a Cap - I need to be around humerous people. Shy or quiet doesn't matter, as long as they make me laugh.

However, usually, I'm more drawn to outgoing people - they make me feel more at ease - unless they are loud and obnoxious (then I just get embarrassed to be seen with them). But with shy people, I become the outgoing one.

Oh I'm sorry to hear that because I'm a really shy Taurus girl and I kinda like a Capricorn guy. Maybe that's the reason he never talks to me 😢

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Maybe he's shy too. Have you talked to him? Find a way to be in proximity to him and approach him with conversation - like "I really like this song?" or whatever fits the situation. Ask his opinion on something. Maybe he thinks you don't like him.

I'm a leo. Attraction in general or more of a romantic nature? Meh. We'll go with the latter since I assume that's what you meant.

I prefer more introverted types. I like it when they're comfy, home-bodies and nerds for something (music, art, etc). I do NOT like loud, cocky, flashy men. Fucking obnoxious. A little shyness is cute but painfully shy is just as bad as the loud douchebag. Ugh. Actually, I like balanced personalities 😛

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Get the fuck outta here with that, u mean to tell me because I don't wanna talk to you Im not confident? Or outgoing?
NO!
That shit just means I don't wanna talk to YOU!...as a person!
sheesh! yall need to get off that pedistal.....

+1

I can be shy if I'm around several people I'm not familiar with, but I'm also very outgoing and love to meet and get to know new people.

Not everything is so black and white.

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I'm normally on the quite side when meeting new people. I'm polite but not outgoing. I tend to warm up after I sense the people aren't assholes.

I like both quiet and loud people. Don't prefer one or the other. But the quiet ones must be able to somewhat contribute to the conversation. And the loud ones must let others talk too. Other than that, it makes no difference to me. Just as long as the person is genuine.

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Of course you like them all.
Just that the young ones must be beautiful and the old ones must fade. Some embodiment of Procrustes the strecher you are!
Nevermind people you offend/humiliate along the way or legs you break to make behaviors fit into your own tiny pretty fantasy bed! Such a pink princess! Ever understand them, by mistake?
And you remain quiet in the shadow ... untill you realize what makes them tick and mostly WHAT HURTS them most to be able to manipulate, should you need to?
Your objectivity is .. mmm impressive!
And your caring side, too. Good thing you listen to pretty songs, such a kind heart you. All made of fake birds with glass eyes

*oh but phlease carry on, I was just way too disgusted not to react!✨
How does it feel to be at the receiving end of " honest" opinions, dear? Well, that's exactly how I felt!!

*sigh*
Virgos... Everything is their business. If it's not, they make it.
I would know, have some serious virgo in my chart, more than you care to see lol

No worries, the princess here has reached the end of the zodiac chain and knows by heart all the right words 😉)
You know how the Virgo-Pisces axis is associated with the Masochist-Sadist dynamics? Guess who takes the hits and who gives them.

I tend to be drawn to more outgoing people. 🙂

I tend to like both.

One of the reasons shy people appeal to me is because the mystery behind them intrigues me. Its like a puzzle waiting to be solved.

I like the outgoing types because they're the life of the party. If they're being humorous, all the better! 🙂



Cancer Sun, Gemini Venus. (maybe that's why I'm split between the two types lol)

Cancer - Outgoing/confident

I have dated these suppose shy types and it's been a nightmare. Can't get them to trust, open up, actually progress the relationship nor do they express their feeling toward me. They also tend to have been doormats in previous relationships and are hell bent on not letting me think for one second that I may be someone important to them.

Outgoing all the way. Throw in passion, sensuality and honesty and it's a love fest!

It's tied between both. I like them both for different reasons.
I like outgoing people because I can figure out their intentions easily and they don't take as much effort to 'read' as shy/reserved people do. Although, sometimes I really like making that effort if I think the person is worth it. The reason why I DON'T like outgoing people is because they seem kind of shallow...that or they're only allowing surface data to show through. I don't like surface data...I like getting to the root of everything.
But there's a reason why I dislike shy people as well...
I'm pretty reserved myself and only talk in public when I am arguing a point, being goofy with friends or to myself (when other people are in hearing range)
I don't let my true emotions show in public, albeit with the people I'm closest to, I pour my heart out once someone has given me some info about themselves and their deepest feelings, because they trust me with them, so I can then take a chance for myself. ANYWAYS, to the point...
The reason why I dislike shy people is because I can't get a good conversation going with someone who talks as little as I do...I'm not good at MAKING friends, but I'm good at KEEPING them. Small talk isn't my strong suit. So...there ya go.
I'm a Scorpio, if you couldn't tell from my username. 😉

I just like to laugh, so as long as you are funny, and the joke isnt on me, then it doesnt matter.

I'm shy. I have sun air, moon fire, asc air.
Whats wrong with me? lol.
I think these personality key traits are there once I trust someone or know they are my friend (because then I open up to them and my true self shows through.) Which takes a little while, but I know its worth the wait.
Sometimes the enthusiasm of an outgoing person is nice. But then again, sometimes the quiet can be serene.
I don't like when the outgoing person is all small talk.
And I don't like when you're alone with the shy person trying to iniate something after numerous tries and aren't breaking any ground/they won't say anything.

Shy. They seem more interesting and seem to have more depth