Hey Candle Girl are you still out there?

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twinflame2
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Oh I see, because it seems like everyone has jumped ship on the Libra board. I was wondering what happened to everyone. Well I will check the other boards to see if any of my new buddies are there. I will always come back to this one to see, so just leave a message to let me know where you are ok. There is so much going on in my life right now it is a bit overwhelming. I have been posting on the cancer board myself, as my mate is a cancer. Bye TW2
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twinflame2
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Well right now I am not writing as my life is just to full. I am taking care of my mother as she is very ill. We will not have her for much longer and this is so hard for me to do. But she deserves all that I can give her, so I continure on. My sister is helping care for her also, we take turns. This will be my first loss of an immediate family member. Its hard enough to lose a parent but having a ring side seat is brutal. I still have my own family to care for as well, so I am spread a little thin theese days. I just dont seem to have the extra time or energy to write anything for now. I live with my boyfriend and my son of 14. Boy can he be a challenge sometimes, but basically he is a good kid. He is such a computer wizz it amazes me at times. He knows alot more than I do, but I am learning all the time. My life is kind of upside down right now candle girl, I wish it were not. On this day I am feeling pretty sad, it goes back and fourth for me. I truly liked what you have had to say on the boards and this is why I sometimes seek you out to talk to. We only have one car we share so I do not get out as much as I would like to, or as much as I need to sometimes. The people I have met here on the board are one of the bright spots in my life and day. So stay in tough if and when you can, right now this is kind of a lifeline for me. Bye
tw2
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Candle Girl
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I only read the first two lines.

My mon died on the eve of my birthay in 2000. I put her in hospice care as I am not a caregiver. It was truly a mother/daughter death. She passed on the eve of my birthday. Ouch yet again.. Now she wasn't even the best mom either. But we need to respect those that put us on this great earth.

I am so sorry for this time you are going through.

My Mom died of lung cancer. She was a heavy smoker. I love her today like I loved her in life.

Please take heart and my e-mail is at my website.

ww.candle-hat.com

Love You and so so sorry I really wasn't myself when my mom passed. As I know you are not either.

Write it down. Even me and my daughter, a Cancer by the way wrote back and forth.

When I cleaned out my mom's house. I couldn't even go in the bedroom.

Please Please Please write more.