How do you feel about loyalty?

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Crabra
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I am fiercely loyal, and ideas of another partner never enter the equation. All of my 'needs' were met before this person entered my life, so I do not need to seek elsewhere when what she 'brings' into my life becomes less and less available for whatever reason that is. If it get to the point that I have to ask myself what this person adds to my life other than negativity, then I start to seriously consider leaving her.

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Venus - Gemini
Mars - Taurus
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I'll try to resolve it if possible with the person, patiently, trying to understand their side of things too.

I'll end the relationship if I'm too unhappy and there's no workable solution with the person. By then it will be clear there's an incompatibility that likely won't change because I've done so much to work with myself, and them, on it to at least compromise.

Sag Mercury, Scorpio Venus, Libra Mars
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Posted by LawrenceWTF
Are you willing to change partner if your needs aren't met or do you try to resolve the problems? What is your mercury,venus, and mars?
I am loyal first and foremost to myself.

If my needs are not being met than I will absolutely look onward and upward. Staying in a endless cycle situation and expecting a miraculous change is the epitome of stupidity.

Pisces Mercury, Taurus Venus, Capricorn Mars.
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I do try communicating but change is difficult and takes time. While all this is going down, I'm subconsciously detaching until it reaches the point where I no longer want to stick around. After this process starts, my feelings will never be the same as they were before. My happiness comes first. I generally don't stick around as long as some others since I honestly feel like it's a waste of time. I've tried the whole changing thing and they've tried the whole changing thing. It doesn't work long term. And, I'm talking about issues or habits that would break us long term, anyway. Not silly, trivial irritations or behaviors.

Pisces merc, Aries venus, Cancer mars