How is your relationship holding up for venus retr

Mine is very rocky at the moment.

I am holding off the urge to tell my bf off and break up with him.
I just realized I did not get what I want out of the relationship. I resent him for it.
I want out.

Yeah, my ex came back a week or 2 ago too. I told him off because I could not understand his expectations of me when he disappeared for 3-4 years ago.
How is everyone else doing?

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
No exes involved here but things are a bit shaky.

Definitely time to re-evaluate things.

Thank God I am not the only one. What are you planning to do? Sorry if that is a little bit intrusive, but I am just planning my next action.

I am planning to have a talk with him .....that I am not happy how he has treated me, and the relationship feels like it's on his own term......and I want to tell him that he should evaluate this relationship and let me go if he doesn't think there is a possible future.

My ex from....2011? I think...maybe 2010 has initiated contact. We have always been friends but he lives 45 minutes away. We are going to hang out Wednesday. It is crazy. Normally he can be flakey (so can I though so it's equal), so we will see how this goes, but it is definitely strange that he was so persistent at hanging out this upcoming week.

I'm not in a relationship, but I WAS seeing someone September-February (saw each other once in June too), and they played the "I'm single and I can do what I want" card and threw it in my face, which I get it...he's single...but he went about it in the wrong way and I distanced myself because of his immaturity. Well he tried contacting me to "come over" yesterday and I was like ....why. LOL. I blew up and went on a rant after he persisted with antagonizing me. We really did get along so well. Could finish each others sentences and had the same belief system about religion, views on humanity and etc...such a shame. I told him that, and he loosened up on his "idgaf about you" attitude and played the "I was hurt in my past" "this is how I am" card. I never replied because one: I don't know what to say and two: I don't like when people play the "pity me" card.

As for a different guy I was seeing in March-May....the fire is there but he is my friend. I would rather it stay that way, but I watch him flit back and forth between women and I feel bad for him because loneliness radiates off of him but he can't find love (Venus in Aries). I went off on him recently too LOL. He tried to get with me recently and I blew up completely saying how I am not a toy he can play with whenever he wants to like he does everyone else, and I told him to go try manipulating some small-minded fool because his cheap manipulation tricks won't work on me.

I would say Venus in Retrograde has me feeling very "alone" so to speak. I have felt like no one gets me, and I don't want to drag anyone down so I have been a recluse lately. I have been trying to avoid self-pity by reading, learning and doing research online along with writing music. 🙂 it helps me from drowning in my own thoughts.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
My ex from....2011? I think...maybe 2010 has initiated contact. We have always been friends but he lives 45 minutes away. We are going to hang out Wednesday. It is crazy. Normally he can be flakey (so can I though so it's equal), so we will see how this goes, but it is definitely strange that he was so persistent at hanging out this upcoming week.

I'm not in a relationship, but I WAS seeing someone September-February (saw each other once in June too), and they played the .

Thank you for sharing girl. I hope you will find someone worthwhile after the retrograde. I used to not be a believer, but seeing things as they are....there must be a connection somehow.

Same here! Too many things line up for them not to be at least somewhat accurate.

I am hoping so too🙂 normally I am never down in the dumps about being single. It's weird. The first week of the retrograde was the roughest. I would describe it as "heavy". There was always this heavy feeling I had stirring inside of me. It has lightened since then, but I can still sense something is "off" to this day. September can't come fast enough!

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
Same here! Too many things line up for them not to be at least somewhat accurate.

I am hoping so too🙂 normally I am never down in the dumps about being single. It's weird. The first week of the retrograde was the roughest. I would describe it as "heavy". There was always this heavy feeling I had stirring inside of me. It has lightened since then, but I can still sense something is "off" to this day. September can't come fast enough!

Oh wow. Me too. The first week was rough. I wrote up a breakup letter to my bf regardless of what people said about not making impulsive action during the retrograde. I was not about to care though. Luckily, he was on vacation so I was not able to give him the letter. So a couple days past, and I thought to myself, that the letter would be too much for him to handle. We work together, and a sudden breakup at this time from me would make our work relationship harder. So that is when I come up with telling him of how I feel, how frustrated I am and will ask him to think about what he wants with our relationship.

In a way, that will give him a chance to change the dynamic of the relationship and give me a chance to move on without him blaming me for the matter.

Wow I can't believe how much of an impact this retro is having.

In the last week, I've had an ex fwb try to see me and bickered with my bf for the first time since we met, 3mths ago. Also had a couple of friends act completely out of character too.

How much longer is this going to last?

@AnnSabra how ironic, the friend I shortly saw is a coworker too! I have been full of a saucy attitude with him lately at work. Luckily we haven't worked together since last Sunday, which is a godsend because I think I would've lost it if I saw him. I had a whole angry speech planned and everything LOL. He loves to argue though so it may not have been effective either way but at least I have regained my common sense since

@MadMarchRam I think September 5th? I will have to double-check, but I know we have a whole month left of this internal chaos. Hopefully there will be lighter moments of it.

Posted by MadMarchRam
Wow I can't believe how much of an impact this retro is having.

In the last week, I've had an ex fwb try to see me and bickered with my bf for the first time since we met, 3mths ago. Also had a couple of friends act completely out of character too.

How much longer is this going to last?

I think it will end around labor day September 8th. OMG. We have a whole months before it returns to normal. But you know what, I feel the effect 1-2 weeks before the actual retrograde, so hopefully it will end sooner for me 🙂 🙂

Posted by Impulsv
What does it mean if life is peaceful during v retro

That means you are one lucky person!!!!!!!!

Are you in a relationship?

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
@AnnSabra how ironic, the friend I shortly saw is a coworker too! I have been full of a saucy attitude with him lately at work. Luckily we haven't worked together since last Sunday, which is a godsend because I think I would've lost it if I saw him. I had a whole angry speech planned and everything LOL. He loves to argue though so it may not have been effective either way but at least I have regained my common sense since

@MadMarchRam I think September 5th? I will have to double-check, but I know we have a whole month left of this internal chaos. Hopefully there will be lighter moments of it.

Yes, he just texted. I played it really cool. He won't know until what hits him until I see him in person. I want to talk to him in person. LoL. I do have an angry speech ready too....practiced it in my head a dozen of time. 🙂 However, if I go angry, I will likely regret him, so instead I will tell him I care for him, but this is killing me, I am exhausted, and if he cares for me at all, he should stop, should let me go free....etc. etc... 😄 🙂

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
@AnnSabra how ironic, the friend I shortly saw is a coworker too! I have been full of a saucy attitude with him lately at work. Luckily we haven't worked together since last Sunday, which is a godsend because I think I would've lost it if I saw him. I had a whole angry speech planned and everything LOL. He loves to argue though so it may not have been effective either way but at least I have regained my common sense since

@MadMarchRam I think September 5th? I will have to double-check, but I know we have a whole month left of this internal chaos. Hopefully there will be lighter moments of it.

Maybe I'll just find a reason to only see bf once a week til then, prevention is better than cure so they say lol

He's quite emotionally intense in general let alone during this. I reckon he's been living in his head more than normal just lately. That, with my current irritable mood will only lead to unnecessary situations.

I feel like I need a time out atm so I'm taking one.

My relationship isn't in any jeopardy but there's been some arguing. Mainly starting from me, but some silly things are starting to take their toll.
My e-stalker/obsessor came back yesterday. Already starting with the death threats to my partner. We both had to make a new twitter so he would leave us the fuck alone.
Anyway, this seems to be a more active venus retrograde for me. Usually nothing happens.

Having a hell of a time as far as relationships go, things got bad two weeks prior to retrograde, hoping I can get my head around things soon as feeling really down and confused at moment

Posted by Fox
That came out messy but you know what I mean.

That, I am not sure. Maybe another person will be able to help you with this. I just know that people with venus retrograde might have problem with relating to others?

Posted by MadMarchRam

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
@AnnSabra how ironic, the friend I shortly saw is a coworker too! I have been full of a saucy attitude with him lately at work. Luckily we haven't worked together since last Sunday, which is a godsend because I think I would've lost it if I saw him. I had a whole angry speech planned and everything LOL. He loves to argue though so it may not have been effective either way but at least I have regained my common sense since

@MadMarchRam I think September 5th? I will have to double-check, but I know we have a whole month left of this internal chaos. Hopefully there will be lighter moments of it.

Maybe I'll just find a reason to only see bf once a week til then, prevention is better than cure so they say lol

He's quite emotionally intense in general let alone during this. I reckon he's been living in his head more than normal just lately. That, with my current irritable mood will only lead to unnecessary situations.

I feel like I need a time out atm so I'm taking one.

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You know...there is a saying .....you can run but you cánt hide. Since knowing about astrology, I feel that you sometimes you can be aware of it, but I dónt think you can really change the outcome. What destine to happen will happen ....regardless.....

Posted by Ohdear
Having a hell of a time as far as relationships go, things got bad two weeks prior to retrograde, hoping I can get my head around things soon as feeling really down and confused at moment

I find that my value/thoughts/feelings changed several times per day; nothing sticks. Sometimes I would think that I am clear as daylight on what I must do, then it got confusing again, and then I changed my mind so much; so I don't trust myself at this time now. I will give myself sometimes to observe, but I will say something to him though ......that I am not happy the way I am being treated. 🙂

I cut off contact with my man and long-time friend, the people I'm seeing aren't interesting me that much and I can literally feel no emotion or love for anyone whatsoever. It's weird, I can sense a need to love again but at the same time I couldn't care less about people.

See-sawing between lots of affection - and breaking up every five minutes over super stupid crap like - who had the sticky tape last, or why the bog roll hasn't been changed and stuff, who drank the last of the apple juice- just really trivial issues feel about 300% bigger than they actually are...
Sheesh, its emotionally exhausting! 😢

There isnt anything that fazes me... accept a female sags heavy advances. Lucky for me they all seem preoccupied with their own troubles. CHARLIE SHEEN WINNING!

I realized I have no desire to date anymore even after chemistry and amazing passion has found me, kissed me and been perfect. I'm bored with relationships and am sacrificing what I feel to remain free from the chains of craziness. Venus in cap ret.

What is a relationship—

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