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How to Apologize to Each Sign
Cancer
This sign holds a grudge. You have to be careful not to offend this water sign because they will plot revenge against you. Cancers are fabulous at subtly undermining and disempowering those that they dislike. If you have ended up on the wrong side of a Cancer, you may be able to be restored to your former glory by sending him or her an expensive present along with a long letter of apology. Follow this up with flowers and a phone call. However, don't be surprised if this does not work immediately as it can sometimes take months for Crabs to get the chip off of their shoulder.
Leo
This is a sign that likes to argue for the sheer fun of it. A Lion is usually very surprised when he or she goes too far and accidentally hurts someone. They tend to withdraw and not discuss the problem because they embarrass easily. Don't expect an apology from this egomaniacal and very proud sign. If you have had a conflict with a Leo, your best way back into his or her life is to pretend it never happened. If that doesn't work, then start joking about it. The Leo is usually grateful for the chance to laugh about with you and the graceful way out of having to talk about it at all.
Virgo
This is a sign that can be ridiculously stubborn and vengeful. If you get on the wrong side of a Virgo, you may not be able to redeem yourself. Your best chance here is a long written apology in which you admit that the Virgo is always right and you are always wrong. Admitting complete dependency on the Virgin also helps as this sign likes to feel needed and in control of others. Don't try to send a gift as an apology. Nine times out of ten these purists will just send it back to you with a nasty analysis of your character attached.
This sign holds a grudge. You have to be careful not to offend this water sign because they will plot revenge against you. Cancers are fabulous at subtly undermining and disempowering those that they dislike. If you have ended up on the wrong side of a Cancer, you may be able to be restored to your former glory by sending him or her an expensive present along with a long letter of apology. Follow this up with flowers and a phone call. However, don't be surprised if this does not work immediately as it can sometimes take months for Crabs to get the chip off of their shoulder.
Leo
This is a sign that likes to argue for the sheer fun of it. A Lion is usually very surprised when he or she goes too far and accidentally hurts someone. They tend to withdraw and not discuss the problem because they embarrass easily. Don't expect an apology from this egomaniacal and very proud sign. If you have had a conflict with a Leo, your best way back into his or her life is to pretend it never happened. If that doesn't work, then start joking about it. The Leo is usually grateful for the chance to laugh about with you and the graceful way out of having to talk about it at all.
Virgo
This is a sign that can be ridiculously stubborn and vengeful. If you get on the wrong side of a Virgo, you may not be able to redeem yourself. Your best chance here is a long written apology in which you admit that the Virgo is always right and you are always wrong. Admitting complete dependency on the Virgin also helps as this sign likes to feel needed and in control of others. Don't try to send a gift as an apology. Nine times out of ten these purists will just send it back to you with a nasty analysis of your character attached.
Libra
The Sign of the Scales loves drama. If there is a conflict, the Libran usually does not handle it well and makes it worse by escalating the issue until the two of you are embroiled in total war. A favorite psychological warfare tactic of the Libra is to turn the cold shoulder on you and not speak to you. This type of treatment can go on for years or even forever, so you are well advised not to get into a fight with this stubborn sign if you can help it. However, sometimes a sentimental card or sending them a piece of art does help repair the burnt bridge.
Scorpio
A Scorpio can go years or even his or her whole life without forgiving you. This is also a very vengeful sign that can terminate a friendship or love affair with extreme prejudice. The Scorpio individual likes to think of him or herself as an agent of karma so for every wrong you do, they will do ten more wrongs. However, the Scorpios will respond positively to gifts of money or opportunities to social climb. If you invite them to just the right party or introduce him or her to just the right person, then you might be forgiven sometime in the future.
Sagittarius
For every action there is a consequence, unless you are a Sagittarius. This is one of the most forgiving signs in the Zodiac. They have an uncanny ability to truly see both sides of an argument. Therefore, if you want to offer an apology to this sign, treat it like a case made for a debating team. Outline in detail the reasons that you must be forgiven and then proffer a small sentimental gift. Follow up these appeals with the suggestion that the two of you go on some kind of small adventure together. You will be forgiven within minutes.
The Sign of the Scales loves drama. If there is a conflict, the Libran usually does not handle it well and makes it worse by escalating the issue until the two of you are embroiled in total war. A favorite psychological warfare tactic of the Libra is to turn the cold shoulder on you and not speak to you. This type of treatment can go on for years or even forever, so you are well advised not to get into a fight with this stubborn sign if you can help it. However, sometimes a sentimental card or sending them a piece of art does help repair the burnt bridge.
Scorpio
A Scorpio can go years or even his or her whole life without forgiving you. This is also a very vengeful sign that can terminate a friendship or love affair with extreme prejudice. The Scorpio individual likes to think of him or herself as an agent of karma so for every wrong you do, they will do ten more wrongs. However, the Scorpios will respond positively to gifts of money or opportunities to social climb. If you invite them to just the right party or introduce him or her to just the right person, then you might be forgiven sometime in the future.
Sagittarius
For every action there is a consequence, unless you are a Sagittarius. This is one of the most forgiving signs in the Zodiac. They have an uncanny ability to truly see both sides of an argument. Therefore, if you want to offer an apology to this sign, treat it like a case made for a debating team. Outline in detail the reasons that you must be forgiven and then proffer a small sentimental gift. Follow up these appeals with the suggestion that the two of you go on some kind of small adventure together. You will be forgiven within minutes.
Capricorn
This is a very proud and vengeful sign that does not forgive easily. In fact, it is quite characteristic of the Goat to badmouth you and conduct hate campaigns in order to screw you up. Many people end up apologizing to Goats quite simply because they fear their ability to destroy another person??s reputation. Usually, a Goat does not forgive but sometimes a pricey gift or bribe of some kind works to bring you back into his or her favor. If you do have a Goat gossiping about you, there is some redemption in knowing that it often greatly lowers others opinion of him or her and not you.
Aquarius
This is not a very forgiving sign, as they see themselves as somehow being the measure of morality and morality. They are also not a very rational sign. If an Aquarian has decided that you have bad energy, then you are probably not going to be that lucky when it comes to being forgiven. Sometimes an Aquarian will go through the pretense of forgiving you because they feel it is good for their soul and if you can convince them of that and of your own guilt, then you might be let back into his or her life.
Pisces
This is a very proud sign that does not forgive easily. Being on the wrong side of a Fish can feel like you have been cast into Hell. Even if they do accept your apology, you are always going to have the feeling that the Fish is still holding a grudge. This sign also is often ruled by their intuition so once they —have a bad feeling?? about you, it can be difficult to turn it around. This sign can be very materialistic so sometimes gifts or money can work to break the ice.
This is a very proud and vengeful sign that does not forgive easily. In fact, it is quite characteristic of the Goat to badmouth you and conduct hate campaigns in order to screw you up. Many people end up apologizing to Goats quite simply because they fear their ability to destroy another person??s reputation. Usually, a Goat does not forgive but sometimes a pricey gift or bribe of some kind works to bring you back into his or her favor. If you do have a Goat gossiping about you, there is some redemption in knowing that it often greatly lowers others opinion of him or her and not you.
Aquarius
This is not a very forgiving sign, as they see themselves as somehow being the measure of morality and morality. They are also not a very rational sign. If an Aquarian has decided that you have bad energy, then you are probably not going to be that lucky when it comes to being forgiven. Sometimes an Aquarian will go through the pretense of forgiving you because they feel it is good for their soul and if you can convince them of that and of your own guilt, then you might be let back into his or her life.
Pisces
This is a very proud sign that does not forgive easily. Being on the wrong side of a Fish can feel like you have been cast into Hell. Even if they do accept your apology, you are always going to have the feeling that the Fish is still holding a grudge. This sign also is often ruled by their intuition so once they —have a bad feeling?? about you, it can be difficult to turn it around. This sign can be very materialistic so sometimes gifts or money can work to break the ice.
I forgive eadsily when I love you! But when youve done the same thing more than enough times. I loose it and cut you off.
I can cut people off like I never knew them! Seriously, a person can be dead to me! But not if I have ever loved them. Then they stay in my heart forever and I can forgive almost anything.
I am a gemini and am extremely forgiving, even when it wasn't my fault. It bothers me that others can't be the same.
RE: virgo's, the summary is dead on. They don't forgive. They don't accept a heartfelt apology. They don't see their own errors. And their ego's are off the chart while empathy isn't in their vocab. If you cherish a virgo, especially a male virgo, don't ever be yourself or stand up for yourself. They don't want a confident woman who isn't afraid to express herself. They want a door mat who lives to tell them how smart, good looking and wonderful they are without any hesitation 24/7.
RE: virgo's, the summary is dead on. They don't forgive. They don't accept a heartfelt apology. They don't see their own errors. And their ego's are off the chart while empathy isn't in their vocab. If you cherish a virgo, especially a male virgo, don't ever be yourself or stand up for yourself. They don't want a confident woman who isn't afraid to express herself. They want a door mat who lives to tell them how smart, good looking and wonderful they are without any hesitation 24/7.
I can relate to the aries, libra and saggitarius descriptions.
Posted by truecap
Aquarius
This is not a very forgiving sign, as they see themselves as somehow being the measure of morality and morality. They are also not a very rational sign. If an Aquarian has decided that you have bad energy, then you are probably not going to be that lucky when it comes to being forgiven. Sometimes an Aquarian will go through the pretense of forgiving you because they feel it is good for their soul and if you can convince them of that and of your own guilt, then you might be let back into his or her life.
Whoever wrote this while indulging in bath salts shall be punished via a torture device!
Posted by truecap
Aquarius
This is not a very forgiving sign, as they see themselves as somehow being the measure of morality and morality. They are also not a very rational sign. If an Aquarian has decided that you have bad energy, then you are probably not going to be that lucky when it comes to being forgiven. Sometimes an Aquarian will go through the pretense of forgiving you because they feel it is good for their soul and if you can convince them of that and of your own guilt, then you might be let back into his or her life.
The bold part is spot on for me.
Posted by truecap
Taurus
This sign can be very confusing to get in a conflict with because they love to argue just for the heck of it. It is like entertainment to Bulls. What seems like the end of the world and your entire relationship is often just a drop of spit in the big sea of everything that connects the two of you. The Bull will take you to war and be vicious and cruel and cutting and then for no reason act like the dispute never happened at all. The best way to snap a Bull out of starting WWIII is to send them something sentimental that reminds him or her of how you connected in the first place. They are absurdly loyal and often come around on their own, even if it never feels like it.
Not true. Most Bulls hate confrontation and strive for a peaceful environment. Have you ever seen a Bull when left alone to wander on it's own? It's quite peaceful and harmless. But interrupt their surroundings, and then the Bull will chaaaaaaaaarge! We love a good debate, not instigating fights. There is a difference. If you don't want a bullfight. Don't go looking for one! LOL. The best way for me to forgive you? Be candid and honest about why you're apologizing. I find subtle gifts to be pretentious, and quite patronizing if you ask me. It puts a temporary band-aid on an issue that may be ongoing and problematic in the future.
I'm a Bull, if it's now and forever with me (this includes both friendships and romantic relationships), I need total and complete honesty. I need to secure my faith in you.
Bulls are not as unforgiving as people think we are. If you're truly sincere in your approach, you will be amazed to know that all is forgiven.
I don't waste my time with revenge. If a reconnect happens I'll be civil but remember why I cut ties. I'll be more cautious I guess. I wish people gave me presents as peace offerings. Ha!
Posted by gemini64
I am a gemini and am extremely forgiving, even when it wasn't my fault. It bothers me that others can't be the same.
RE: virgo's, the summary is dead on. They don't forgive. They don't accept a heartfelt apology. They don't see their own errors. And their ego's are off the chart while empathy isn't in their vocab. If you cherish a virgo, especially a male virgo, don't ever be yourself or stand up for yourself. They don't want a confident woman who isn't afraid to express herself. They want a door mat who lives to tell them how smart, good looking and wonderful they are without any hesitation 24/7.
I don't find this true to be for all Virgos. They're pretty cool, calm go-with-the-flow types.
However, I did date one who was an exception to the rule (this was during my years an undergrad). He was seriously "p.m.s.ing" all the time! Using passive/aggressive tactics to get back at me, and holding a grudge for dear life! He had serious insecurity issues. Not to mention, overly sensitive. When I think of the Virgos to stay away from, I think of the ones who require maxi pads to stop the bleeding. (pardon the crude choice of words).
However gemini64, I don't believe the latter to be true for all Virgins.
Doormat = Nothing to fix. You're dating a 'mirror' image of you. A sign who wants to serve you.
Damsel in Distress = Everything to fix. You're bringing someone up from obscurity, fixing them up, and showing them off to the masses. This should cure any insecurity issues. (Lookup: Captain-Save-A-Hoe)
This is the sign of service remember....and the sign that likes to 'fix' things.
I found these on some website, forgot where and didn't think to post it.
I thought the capricorn one was pretty accurate. If I feel someone is sincere in their apology, I will forgive them. However, betray me and it is a lot harder to find the forgiveness.
I thought the capricorn one was pretty accurate. If I feel someone is sincere in their apology, I will forgive them. However, betray me and it is a lot harder to find the forgiveness.
The virgo description is very good except for the written apology saying virgo always right and you always wrong because that's just retarded. Virgos are not retard. I'm a virgo. When I meet people and I find a connection with them, I give 110% of myself to them so if they hurt me then they become less than nothing. A doormat is even more useful than someone who hurt me. I'm a genuine bitch. It is true, I have no empathy. I don't need it, it's just going to slow me down and I have a lot to do. BUT we don't do and/or plot revenge. Well...at least this virgo doesn't.
It appears that you haven't met ALL virgos after all.
Virgo mimics. Virgo is very good at mimicking empathy. I can do that all day long. But I'm only in the mimicking mood when I don't care at all about said person. Sad to say that I'm very detach. I want to feel but I can't. Unless I really really really love/care a person. Like I love my husband thus before he even mention his feelings, I already know. I have a BFF I really care about and I always call her when I feel she is in a bad mood and she lives 1,800 miles away. She is a sags and she always said "Darn girl, you always know when I need someone to talk to." Lol.
Hey, it's not like I enjoy being a virgo doing all this weird stuff. I think it is the weirdest sign ever. I communicate like asking for a fight or something. I have to learn how to tone my voice so I can appear agreeable. Takes years to learn but I'm good at it now. BUT amongst friends or with hubby, all bets are off. Sadly to say but true.
And don't get me started about my so-call emotion, whatever little I have.
And don't get me started about my so-call emotion, whatever little I have.
Posted by scorchedearth
i'm the last person that should be white knighting a virgos feelings.
but i will say this. all of the virgos that i've known have been extremely emotional but very controlled.
that's something i envy about them even if it does hurt me when i'm on the receiving end of it.
Hhhmmm.....could they have scorpio moon? I have scorpio moon so I'm pretty emotional but nothing compare to a cancerian for example. Emotional to me means I take things too personal and easily get offended, I hate this tendency and I tried hard not to be offended everyday of every hour of my life. 😄
Posted by Infinite8
Scorpio
A Scorpio can go years or even his or her whole life without forgiving you. This is also a very vengeful sign that can terminate a friendship or love affair with extreme prejudice. The Scorpio individual likes to think of him or herself as an agent of karma so for every wrong you do, they will do ten more wrongs. However, the Scorpios will respond positively to gifts of money or opportunities to social climb. If you invite them to just the right party or introduce him or her to just the right person, then you might be forgiven sometime in the future.
^^^ Wow... this is so foreign to me. I'm trying really hard to agree with at least one sentence, but I can't. I'd be curious to know if there are any Scorps that actually agree with this. 😕
Not this one, especially the bit about the gift. So which is it, we can go years, even our whole lives without forgiving, or we suddenly forgive all because you give a lame a** gift? Eh....*shrug*
Posted by xMoonMan
Phoenix, I'm pretty sure the OP is satire 🙂
Hence my comment.
😄 What? My post read too serious?
#BeingAScorpioisSeriousBiznezz
>😢
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The Ram offends easily but also forgives just as quickly. The hard part is getting through the few days when they will not speak to you at all. The icy silence and ruthless cutting off of contact that is characteristic of this sign when miffed can make you feel like the distancing is going to be forever. Above all the Ram values honesty and candor. Show that you are genuinely contrite by saying you are sorry directly. Make sure that the Aries person sees that you did see their side of the story after all and you will be forgiven.
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