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How to keep the long term (lets say lifetime) interest of Mars Aries, Venus Gemini man?
Posted by irreconcilabledifferencesHehe...I thought so as well.
keep them at a distance... their whole lives 😐
but you are scorpio right?
no chance
No, I am not a Scorpio.
Keeping them at distance does not work long term. My Aries Mars, Gem Venus boyfriend of two years ended the relationship complaining he didn't get to do enough stuff with me. We used to meet once a week. He said that all we did was talk, talk, talk. Not entirely true.
Mind you, he did not have a job, while I had a demanding one. I was his second longest relationship (for a man in his 50ies) and he is now single again, after "his latest, albeit short romantic interest collapsed two weeks ago".
I would recommend doing various stuff with him, something that he can remember about. If you have the time to think it and plan it through....Mine's was so captured by his own hobbies that left it to me to plan anything we were doing together and apparently i didn't used my fabulous creativity to do so!
Mind you, he did not have a job, while I had a demanding one. I was his second longest relationship (for a man in his 50ies) and he is now single again, after "his latest, albeit short romantic interest collapsed two weeks ago".
I would recommend doing various stuff with him, something that he can remember about. If you have the time to think it and plan it through....Mine's was so captured by his own hobbies that left it to me to plan anything we were doing together and apparently i didn't used my fabulous creativity to do so!
I'm also Aries Mars, but Aqua Venus.
Oh, and he needs some drama from time to time!
Posted by Undine
Oh, and he needs some drama from time to time!
Hey, Thank you for the insight. This is helpful.
What is his moon if I may ask?
Also, the guy I'm talking about is just 26 and quite physically attractive and has a solid game with women. Also, he is a successful co-founder of a tech startup so he meets loads of people on a regular basis.
I don't know how to match up with that
Posted by ExplicitScorp moon as well?
Similar placements as mine...
Be a Leo. Or a very fun Fire sign.
Posted by BloopStop giving this dude so much power over yourself. Holy shit.
Interest can be either romantic/sexual or as a friend/confidante or anything.
I just want to be in his head as "The one that is awesome" and "The one he can never completely get enough of", so that my contact/connection/touch with him is permanent (As mars in aries only remain in touch with you if they think you are awesome and they havent "conquered" you yet)
Posted by ExplicitHaha...Posted by BloopPosted by ExplicitScorp moon as well?
Similar placements as mine...
Be a Leo. Or a very fun Fire sign.
Depends on the rest of their chart. If they have a lot of Water, it would be perfect. A fun Fire sign with a Scorpio Moon, you guys would really click and relate to eachother well.
If they lack Water I don't think it would work and that Scorpio Moon would feel very draining to them.click to expand
No , I asked, do you have a Scorp or any water moon as well?
Posted by Undinelol I was gonna say the same thing
Oh, and he needs some drama from time to time!
I was just dealing with one of these guys.... I had to block his ass... ughhh!! His mars is conjunct my Aries moon... So he always riled me up.... I made a post about this... Everything he did made me react in an emotional way (mostly angrily).. Also, I felt as if he felt most loved when I was verbally abusive or rude to him... It's weird... Aries is a tough cookie
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
Posted by DeeLovesRed
I was just dealing with one of these guys.... I had to block his ass... ughhh!! His mars is conjunct my Aries moon... So he always riled me up.... I made a post about this... Everything he did made me react in an emotional way (mostly angrily).. Also, I felt as if he felt most loved when I was verbally abusive or rude to him... It's weird... Aries is a tough cookie
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
And what if he avoids you for weeks, doesnt reply to your texts, gets involved with new women and then comes back as if nothing happened?
Should you create drama in talking to him or pretend as if you arent bothered by his absence and are all chill and enjoying?
Posted by BloopWell, if he does all that then he isn't that interested in you.... To have space isn't the same as going out to mingle... I like space as well.... Like call me throughout the week but maybe once a day, text me but maybe a couple of times a day, come over and stay with me for the week then next week just see me during the day or night).... if he's getting involved with other women, then no I wouldn't tell you to stick around for that.... No one deserves to be on standby.. Don't give that much power to him...Posted by DeeLovesRed
I was just dealing with one of these guys.... I had to block his ass... ughhh!! His mars is conjunct my Aries moon... So he always riled me up.... I made a post about this... Everything he did made me react in an emotional way (mostly angrily).. Also, I felt as if he felt most loved when I was verbally abusive or rude to him... It's weird... Aries is a tough cookie
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
And what if he avoids you for weeks, doesnt reply to your texts, gets involved with new women and then comes back as if nothing happened?
Should you create drama in talking to him or pretend as if you arent bothered by his absence and are all chill and enjoying?
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Impossibru !!!!
I think you first need to have a relationship, and then ask yourself what could you do to make it even better.
He seems to be treating you like a "fallback girl", which is not something you can build a relationship on, since there is an obvious lack of respect there.
Do you like travelling? Ask him to take you to your holiday of choice as a proof of his appreciation to you. At least you get to see the world and have something interesting to remember.
He seems to be treating you like a "fallback girl", which is not something you can build a relationship on, since there is an obvious lack of respect there.
Do you like travelling? Ask him to take you to your holiday of choice as a proof of his appreciation to you. At least you get to see the world and have something interesting to remember.
Posted by BloopThen he isn't the right man for youPosted by DeeLovesRed
I was just dealing with one of these guys.... I had to block his ass... ughhh!! His mars is conjunct my Aries moon... So he always riled me up.... I made a post about this... Everything he did made me react in an emotional way (mostly angrily).. Also, I felt as if he felt most loved when I was verbally abusive or rude to him... It's weird... Aries is a tough cookie
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
And what if he avoids you for weeks, doesnt reply to your texts, gets involved with new women and then comes back as if nothing happened?
Should you create drama in talking to him or pretend as if you arent bothered by his absence and are all chill and enjoying?
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Posted by DeeLovesRedMe and him are not in a relationship. Never were. I clearly said no to all his dating advances. This is because I do not want to date him or be in a relationship with him. Nor do I care how many women he goes out with. I just want to be a "constant" in his life, in whatever form.Posted by BloopWell, if he does all that then he isn't that interested in you.... To have space isn't the same as going out to mingle... I like space as well.... Like call me throughout the week but maybe once a day, text me but maybe a couple of times a day, come over and stay with me for the week then next week just see me during the day or night).... if he's getting involved with other women, then no I wouldn't tell you to stick around for that.... No one deserves to be on standby.. Don't give that much power to him...Posted by DeeLovesRed
I was just dealing with one of these guys.... I had to block his ass... ughhh!! His mars is conjunct my Aries moon... So he always riled me up.... I made a post about this... Everything he did made me react in an emotional way (mostly angrily).. Also, I felt as if he felt most loved when I was verbally abusive or rude to him... It's weird... Aries is a tough cookie
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
And what if he avoids you for weeks, doesnt reply to your texts, gets involved with new women and then comes back as if nothing happened?
Should you create drama in talking to him or pretend as if you arent bothered by his absence and are all chill and enjoying?
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Like lets say Kate Winslet and Leo as real life best friends.
And I am looking to know as to how do I have that with him? That consistent presence. Also, I very well know that he is not my type in a romantic sense.
Posted by MyStarsShineI am not looking for a romantic/sexual relationship with him. Not even friendship. I just want his permanent presence in my life. Like lets say Kate Winslet and Leo are. Purely platonic. My problem is that Aries men dont do that with women unless they want to fuck them in future.Posted by BloopThen he isn't the right man for youPosted by DeeLovesRed
I was just dealing with one of these guys.... I had to block his ass... ughhh!! His mars is conjunct my Aries moon... So he always riled me up.... I made a post about this... Everything he did made me react in an emotional way (mostly angrily).. Also, I felt as if he felt most loved when I was verbally abusive or rude to him... It's weird... Aries is a tough cookie
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
And what if he avoids you for weeks, doesnt reply to your texts, gets involved with new women and then comes back as if nothing happened?
Should you create drama in talking to him or pretend as if you arent bothered by his absence and are all chill and enjoying?
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Posted by UndineI'm not looking for a relationship either romantic or sexual. I want a permanent platonic connection , like lets say we talk once a week. My only problem is that mars aries men don't do that unless they want to fuck a girl.
I think you first need to have a relationship, and then ask yourself what could you do to make it even better.
He seems to be treating you like a "fallback girl", which is not something you can build a relationship on, since there is an obvious lack of respect there.
Do you like travelling? Ask him to take you to your holiday of choice as a proof of his appreciation to you. At least you get to see the world and have something interesting to remember.
Posted by BloopWould you allow your other platonic friends to treat you in such a way?Posted by MyStarsShineI am not looking for a romantic/sexual relationship with him. Not even friendship. I just want his permanent presence in my life. Like lets say Kate Winslet and Leo are. Purely platonic. My problem is that Aries men dont do that with women unless they want to fuck them in future.Posted by BloopThen he isn't the right man for youPosted by DeeLovesRed
I was just dealing with one of these guys.... I had to block his ass... ughhh!! His mars is conjunct my Aries moon... So he always riled me up.... I made a post about this... Everything he did made me react in an emotional way (mostly angrily).. Also, I felt as if he felt most loved when I was verbally abusive or rude to him... It's weird... Aries is a tough cookie
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
And what if he avoids you for weeks, doesnt reply to your texts, gets involved with new women and then comes back as if nothing happened?
Should you create drama in talking to him or pretend as if you arent bothered by his absence and are all chill and enjoying?
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To be honest lady, the thought that came in was *who needs friends like that*
You are worth more...
You are right about Aries men...i don't think (generally speaking) Aries men want to be just good friends with the opposite sex. Leo is Scorpio...different matter
I would move on from the hope
Posted by Koniuchaanot looking for friendship either. Just presence. Lets say as an acquaintance who you talk to every once in a while.Posted by BloopBeing best friends with someone isn't something you can really make happen. It just happens.Posted by DeeLovesRedMe and him are not in a relationship. Never were. I clearly said no to all his dating advances. This is because I do not want to date him or be in a relationship with him. Nor do I care how many women he goes out with. I just want to be a "constant" in his life, in whatever form.Posted by BloopWell, if he does all that then he isn't that interested in you.... To have space isn't the same as going out to mingle... I like space as well.... Like call me throughout the week but maybe once a day, text me but maybe a couple of times a day, come over and stay with me for the week then next week just see me during the day or night).... if he's getting involved with other women, then no I wouldn't tell you to stick around for that.... No one deserves to be on standby.. Don't give that much power to him...Posted by DeeLovesRed
I was just dealing with one of these guys.... I had to block his ass... ughhh!! His mars is conjunct my Aries moon... So he always riled me up.... I made a post about this... Everything he did made me react in an emotional way (mostly angrily).. Also, I felt as if he felt most loved when I was verbally abusive or rude to him... It's weird... Aries is a tough cookie
I would say the only reason why we were good at a point, until he irritated the hell out of me.... was because my Ven is Aqua and my Mars is Leo... So just like him I have an Air/Fire mix... So we sorta have similar wants and needs sexually and relationship-wise.....
It's just my Moon and his Mars conj, his Sun and my Mars conj, and his Moon and my Ven Conj... and some Pluto/Moon, Pluto/Mars action.... it was just tooo damn much...
But I'll say be fun, keep space, be blunt/honest, don't be too sensitive (this is a turn off for me as well), communicate (conversations are everything).. because he has an Aries Mars he can be somewhat of an impulsive individual, so try to start things first (he'll appreciate that)... thats all I could think about from off the top of my head...
And what if he avoids you for weeks, doesnt reply to your texts, gets involved with new women and then comes back as if nothing happened?
Should you create drama in talking to him or pretend as if you arent bothered by his absence and are all chill and enjoying?
Like lets say Kate Winslet and Leo as real life best friends.
And I am looking to know as to how do I have that with him? That consistent presence. Also, I very well know that he is not my type in a romantic sense.
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Posted by KoniuchaaLeo and Kate aren' besties. But they have been constant in each other's lives. Its like, the connect didnt get lost amongst busy schedules and whatever.
Earlier you said you want something like Leo and Kate best friends, now it's not friends, just an acquaintance you talk to every once in a while
Are you sure about all of this?
Its like, they will still be talking when they are 60.
And yes, i do have that with him and I am happy for it. But of late he hasnt been replying to my texts (usual ones about life and stuff) and its been a week since we have spoken.
And knowing how mars in aries can be, I just dont want that "someone we used to know". I want permanence of his presence.
Posted by KoniuchaaWhoa this is helpful.Posted by BloopI guess tell him. What else is there to do?Posted by KoniuchaaLeo and Kate aren' besties. But they have been constant in each other's lives. Its like, the connect didnt get lost amongst busy schedules and whatever.
Earlier you said you want something like Leo and Kate best friends, now it's not friends, just an acquaintance you talk to every once in a while
Are you sure about all of this?
Its like, they will still be talking when they are 60.
And yes, i do have that with him and I am happy for it. But of late he hasnt been replying to my texts (usual ones about life and stuff) and its been a week since we have spoken.
And knowing how mars in aries can be, I just dont want that "someone we used to know". I want permanence of his presence.
I work with an Aries Mars. We live in different states, but get along well. I think he has a thing for me, but that isn't going to work. We talk here and there, sometimes all day, sometimes a little bit.
It has been years at this point and I'm sure will always continue.
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If I may ask, do you ever initiate conversations with him?
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