Do Gemini men get complacent?

My Gemini sun/Taurus moon/Leo rising bf isn't doing all the things he used to. He used plan extravegent dates when he came to town. We are in a ldr. I usually go to him and now we just stay in. I'm flexible but not demanding so I'm noticing but not complaining. He still calls everyday and texts all day. I just feel we're getting boring. I bring water balloons and water guns; he doesn't want to play. he's not into card games or anything romantic really. He literally wants to stay home in, drink, and watch movies. He's going through a few thing with his teenage daughter and seeking a promotion, so I try to keep it light hearted I just don't want either of us to get bored or stop trying

Maybe...cuz its long distance..hes tired and doesn't want the pressure so just wants to snuggle and be with you? Life gets hard...sometimes it feels good to just relax..seems he's happy to do that with you! Ebb and flow is life🙂

My Gem wanted to do that..just drink, cuddle watch movies .but I wanted a bit of adventure and after 4 years of butting heads about it I left.

What are your guy's placements?

Posted by Moonbutter
My Gem wanted to do that..just drink, cuddle watch movies .but I wanted a bit of adventure and after 4 years of butting heads about it I left.

What are your guy's placements?

Correction...we butted heads about it in the last 2 years.

Sun Gemini

Moon Taurus

Mercury Cancer

Venus Taurus

Mars Leo

Jupiter Pisces

Saturn Cancer

Uranus Libra

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Libra

True Node Sagittarius

"He used plan extravagant dates when he came to town. We are in a ldr. I usually go to him and now we just stay in."

There's the problem let him come to you.

He has other problems too but doesn't want to bug you with them.

If you post your charts I can help

Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
"He used plan extravagant dates when he came to town. We are in a ldr. I usually go to him and now we just stay in."

There's the problem let him come to you.

He has other problems too but doesn't want to bug you with them.

If you post your charts I can help

Moon Leo

Mercury Pisces

Venus Aries

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Taurus

Saturn Leo

Uranus Scorpio

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Libra

True Node Libra

Posted by livictori
Sun Gemini

Moon Taurus

Mercury Cancer

Venus Taurus

Mars Leo

Jupiter Pisces

Saturn Cancer

Uranus Libra

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Libra

True Node Sagittarius

It's his Taurus Moon I believe

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by livictori
Sun Gemini

Moon Taurus

Mercury Cancer

Venus Taurus

Mars Leo

Jupiter Pisces

Saturn Cancer

Uranus Libra

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Libra

True Node Sagittarius

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It's his Taurus Moon I believe

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I don't know much about Taurus moons. But he's only 42, why does he act so old

OK your definitely more passionate and expect the same back. Communicate with him what you desire. Your holding back.

He's a very sensitive guy and this promotion is really worrying him. I'm assuming he loves the field he works in. Does he work in the medical/science field?

This relationship is emotionally satisfying for you both. But the interests are different he has hobbies you don't like or don't know about, and you do as well. Open your mind. And Communicate your hearts desires.

Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
OK your definitely more passionate and expect the same back. Communicate with him what you desire. Your holding back.

He's a very sensitive guy and this promotion is really worrying him. I'm assuming he loves the field he works in. Does he work in the medical/science field?

This relationship is emotionally satisfying for you both. But the interests are different he has hobbies you don't like or don't know about, and you do as well. Open your mind. And Communicate your hearts desires.

He works for the military and he's a pretty laid back person for the amount of stress he's under there. I don't think he actually enjoys his job as much as his dream of writing.

He says he's never been in love and seems pretty reserved emotionally so I keep it lighthearted. Emotionally I'm an ocean and he's a well. So I try to steer clear of being emotive

Posted by livictori
My Gemini sun/Taurus moon/Leo rising bf isn't doing all the things he used to. He used plan extravegent dates when he came to town. We are in a ldr. I usually go to him and now we just stay in. I'm flexible but not demanding so I'm noticing but not complaining. He still calls everyday and texts all day. I just feel we're getting boring. I bring water balloons and water guns; he doesn't want to play. he's not into card games or anything romantic really. He literally wants to stay home in, drink, and watch movies. He's going through a few thing with his teenage daughter and seeking a promotion, so I try to keep it light hearted I just don't want either of us to get bored or stop trying

All men get complacent after a while.

You say you go to him. Does he ever come to you?

Posted by livictori

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by livictori
Sun Gemini

Moon Taurus

Mercury Cancer

Venus Taurus

Mars Leo

Jupiter Pisces

Saturn Cancer

Uranus Libra

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Libra

True Node Sagittarius

.

It's his Taurus Moon I believe

I don't know much about Taurus moons. But he's only 42, why does he act so old

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How old are you?

I'm 39,

He does come to town but I haven't introduced him to my children. I don't bring men home until it's serious. He's gotten hotel room.

So yall are close to the same age. If you were much younger, I would have said that's why you thought he acted old. Lol

He just seems older because of staying in. He has a young disposition but aside from comic books, he not that playful

It is not the Taurus moon. I have dated 3 and still dating one of them. Also a good female friend of mine is one. They are fun, funny and they typically like to get out. Good food, drinks, travel and adventure. They may repeat some things but always willing to try something new.