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Cancer
This sign holds a grudge. You have to be careful not to offend this water sign because they will plot revenge against you. Cancers are fabulous at subtly undermining and disempowering those that they dislike. If you have ended up on the wrong side of a Cancer, you may be able to be restored to your former glory by sending him or her an expensive present along with a long letter of apology. Follow this up with flowers and a phone call. However, don't be surprised if this does not work immediately as it can sometimes take months for Crabs to get the chip off of their shoulder.
Leo
This is a sign that likes to argue for the sheer fun of it. A Lion is usually very surprised when he or she goes too far and accidentally hurts someone. They tend to withdraw and not discuss the problem because they embarrass easily. Don't expect an apology from this egomaniacal and very proud sign. If you have had a conflict with a Leo, your best way back into his or her life is to pretend it never happened. If that doesn't work, then start joking about it. The Leo is usually grateful for the chance to laugh about with you and the graceful way out of having to talk about it at all.
Virgo
This is a sign that can be ridiculously stubborn and vengeful. If you get on the wrong side of a Virgo, you may not be able to redeem yourself. Your best chance here is a long written apology in which you admit that the Virgo is always right and you are always wrong. Admitting complete dependency on the Virgin also helps as this sign likes to feel needed and in control of others. Don't try to send a gift as an apology. Nine times out of ten these purists will just send it back to you with a nasty analysis of your character attached.
Libra
The Sign of the Scales loves drama. If there is a conflict, the Libran usually does not handle it well and makes it worse by escalating the issue until the two of you are embroiled in total war. A favorite psychological warfare tactic of the Libra is to turn the cold shoulder on you and not speak to you. This type of treatment can go on for years or even forever, so you are well advised not to get into a fight with this stubborn sign if you can help it. However, sometimes a sentimental card or sending them a piece of art does help repair the burnt bridge.
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This sign holds a grudge. You have to be careful not to offend this water sign because they will plot revenge against you. Cancers are fabulous at subtly undermining and disempowering those that they dislike. If you have ended up on the wrong side of a Cancer, you may be able to be restored to your former glory by sending him or her an expensive present along with a long letter of apology. Follow this up with flowers and a phone call. However, don't be surprised if this does not work immediately as it can sometimes take months for Crabs to get the chip off of their shoulder.
Leo
This is a sign that likes to argue for the sheer fun of it. A Lion is usually very surprised when he or she goes too far and accidentally hurts someone. They tend to withdraw and not discuss the problem because they embarrass easily. Don't expect an apology from this egomaniacal and very proud sign. If you have had a conflict with a Leo, your best way back into his or her life is to pretend it never happened. If that doesn't work, then start joking about it. The Leo is usually grateful for the chance to laugh about with you and the graceful way out of having to talk about it at all.
Virgo
This is a sign that can be ridiculously stubborn and vengeful. If you get on the wrong side of a Virgo, you may not be able to redeem yourself. Your best chance here is a long written apology in which you admit that the Virgo is always right and you are always wrong. Admitting complete dependency on the Virgin also helps as this sign likes to feel needed and in control of others. Don't try to send a gift as an apology. Nine times out of ten these purists will just send it back to you with a nasty analysis of your character attached.
Libra
The Sign of the Scales loves drama. If there is a conflict, the Libran usually does not handle it well and makes it worse by escalating the issue until the two of you are embroiled in total war. A favorite psychological warfare tactic of the Libra is to turn the cold shoulder on you and not speak to you. This type of treatment can go on for years or even forever, so you are well advised not to get into a fight with this stubborn sign if you can help it. However, sometimes a sentimental card or sending them a piece of art does help repair the burnt bridge.
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Scorpio
A Scorpio can go years or even his or her whole life without forgiving you. This is also a very vengeful sign that can terminate a friendship or love affair with extreme prejudice. The Scorpio individual likes to think of him or herself as an agent of karma so for every wrong you do, they will do ten more wrongs. However, the Scorpios will respond positively to gifts of money or opportunities to social climb. If you invite them to just the right party or introduce him or her to just the right person, then you might be forgiven sometime in the future.
Sagittarius
For every action there is a consequence, unless you are a Sagittarius. This is one of the most forgiving signs in the Zodiac. They have an uncanny ability to truly see both sides of an argument. Therefore, if you want to offer an apology to this sign, treat it like a case made for a debating team. Outline in detail the reasons that you must be forgiven and then proffer a small sentimental gift. Follow up these appeals with the suggestion that the two of you go on some kind of small adventure together. You will be forgiven within minutes.
Capricorn
This is a very proud and vengeful sign that does not forgive easily. In fact, it is quite characteristic of the Goat to badmouth you and conduct hate campaigns in order to screw you up. Many people end up apologizing to Goats quite simply because they fear their ability to destroy another person??s reputation. Usually, a Goat does not forgive but sometimes a pricey gift or bribe of some kind works to bring you back into his or her favor. If you do have a Goat gossiping about you, there is some redemption in knowing that it often greatly lowers others opinion of him or her and not you.
Aquarius
This is not a very forgiving sign, as they see themselves as somehow being the measure of morality and morality. They are also not a very rational sign. If an Aquarian has decided that you have bad energy, then you are probably not going to be that lucky when it comes to being forgiven. Sometimes an Aquarian will go through the pretense of forgiving you because they feel it is good for their soul and if you can convince them of that and of your own guilt, then you might be let back into his or her life.
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A Scorpio can go years or even his or her whole life without forgiving you. This is also a very vengeful sign that can terminate a friendship or love affair with extreme prejudice. The Scorpio individual likes to think of him or herself as an agent of karma so for every wrong you do, they will do ten more wrongs. However, the Scorpios will respond positively to gifts of money or opportunities to social climb. If you invite them to just the right party or introduce him or her to just the right person, then you might be forgiven sometime in the future.
Sagittarius
For every action there is a consequence, unless you are a Sagittarius. This is one of the most forgiving signs in the Zodiac. They have an uncanny ability to truly see both sides of an argument. Therefore, if you want to offer an apology to this sign, treat it like a case made for a debating team. Outline in detail the reasons that you must be forgiven and then proffer a small sentimental gift. Follow up these appeals with the suggestion that the two of you go on some kind of small adventure together. You will be forgiven within minutes.
Capricorn
This is a very proud and vengeful sign that does not forgive easily. In fact, it is quite characteristic of the Goat to badmouth you and conduct hate campaigns in order to screw you up. Many people end up apologizing to Goats quite simply because they fear their ability to destroy another person??s reputation. Usually, a Goat does not forgive but sometimes a pricey gift or bribe of some kind works to bring you back into his or her favor. If you do have a Goat gossiping about you, there is some redemption in knowing that it often greatly lowers others opinion of him or her and not you.
Aquarius
This is not a very forgiving sign, as they see themselves as somehow being the measure of morality and morality. They are also not a very rational sign. If an Aquarian has decided that you have bad energy, then you are probably not going to be that lucky when it comes to being forgiven. Sometimes an Aquarian will go through the pretense of forgiving you because they feel it is good for their soul and if you can convince them of that and of your own guilt, then you might be let back into his or her life.
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Pisces
This is a very proud sign that does not forgive easily. Being on the wrong side of a Fish can feel like you have been cast into Hell. Even if they do accept your apology, you are always going to have the feeling that the Fish is still holding a grudge. This sign also is often ruled by their intuition so once they —have a bad feeling?? about you, it can be difficult to turn it around. This sign can be very materialistic so sometimes gifts or money can work to break the ice.
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This is a very proud sign that does not forgive easily. Being on the wrong side of a Fish can feel like you have been cast into Hell. Even if they do accept your apology, you are always going to have the feeling that the Fish is still holding a grudge. This sign also is often ruled by their intuition so once they —have a bad feeling?? about you, it can be difficult to turn it around. This sign can be very materialistic so sometimes gifts or money can work to break the ice.
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i like this. I can feel the last three. Cap,Aqua,Pisces but also Scorpio, because I secretly have an intense HATE over someone or something. Then the Aqua part in me, feels that forgiveness is needed for the "soul",then the pisces part is like, "screw that all to hell," i've learned and accepted that any 12th house/pisces energy is having ENEMIES. Then, fine. I dont like alot of people and the energy/feeling is what I go for. It's all conflicting if one thinks about it. *shakes head*
But in real life, I don't really have a problem, *whew* thank the gods. I can imagine if i were in a social circle with a bunch of people just for the sake of "social". gross. Hate all over the place. Grrrrr. there would be war and bloodshed going on. then I'd end up crying and sobbing everyday. recharging and going back in, until i just die of pain and suffering then doing it all over again: crying and crying and suffering. probably why I have very little contact with people, me and hubs are like hermits. My bff and I remain contact with eachother through thick and thin (same with family, i accept their goods/bad cause they're family, but we dont see eachother daily or weekly or even monthly.)
But in real life, I don't really have a problem, *whew* thank the gods. I can imagine if i were in a social circle with a bunch of people just for the sake of "social". gross. Hate all over the place. Grrrrr. there would be war and bloodshed going on. then I'd end up crying and sobbing everyday. recharging and going back in, until i just die of pain and suffering then doing it all over again: crying and crying and suffering. probably why I have very little contact with people, me and hubs are like hermits. My bff and I remain contact with eachother through thick and thin (same with family, i accept their goods/bad cause they're family, but we dont see eachother daily or weekly or even monthly.)
Posted by maelstrom
The pisces description doesn't sound like pisces at all
The Aquarius one sounds more Pisces to be honest. Forgiveness for the "soul"
Posted by maelstromPosted by lisabethur8Posted by maelstrom
The pisces description doesn't sound like pisces at all
The Aquarius one sounds more Pisces to be honest. Forgiveness for the "soul"
Yeah, I just read it and agree. And lol @ aquarius not being very logical. I don't think the person who wrote these things passed the sun sign testclick to expand
It's all the energies in our chart. LOL
Aquarius is accurate for me. Probably because Moon is my chart ruler.
sun and rising sign. moon far from truth
Posted by lisabethur8
i like this. I can feel the last three. Cap,Aqua,Pisces but also Scorpio, because I secretly have an intense HATE over someone or something. Then the Aqua part in me, feels that forgiveness is needed for the "soul",then the pisces part is like, "screw that all to hell," i've learned and accepted that any 12th house/pisces energy is having ENEMIES. Then, fine. I dont like alot of people and the energy/feeling is what I go for. It's all conflicting if one thinks about it. *shakes head*
But in real life, I don't really have a problem, *whew* thank the gods. I can imagine if i were in a social circle with a bunch of people just for the sake of "social". gross. Hate all over the place. Grrrrr. there would be war and bloodshed going on. then I'd end up crying and sobbing everyday. recharging and going back in, until i just die of pain and suffering then doing it all over again: crying and crying and suffering. probably why I have very little contact with people, me and hubs are like hermits. My bff and I remain contact with eachother through thick and thin (same with family, i accept their goods/bad cause they're family, but we dont see eachother daily or weekly or even monthly.)
I can identify with some of this.
I looked at your profile, and I see the ranks, but I cannot figure your sun/moon/asc sign-- it must be in there somewhere. 🙂
Help me out? Thanks
Posted by tiziani
Moon sign is accurate for me, although there is a lot of truth to Libras upping the ante and escalating the drama two-fold. We love shining the mirror back when it's vengeance time. I think I've calmed down in that respect but sometimes it's just a case of delayed reaction.
What's your moon, Tiz?
I should probably know, but I don't. 🙂
I had a Libra friend who was very Libra (for lack of a better way to put it), very diplomatic and reasonable-- but some little tart got the idea of messing around with her boyfriend, and she got drunk one night and grabbed her other LEO friend, and by God, they tried to burn her house down.
Fortunately, it was concrete block, and they failed miserably.
😉
Posted by CluelessCancer
how the fuk is a leo going to talk for cancers? rolls eyes, thank god i had to be logged off to read that comment.
anyways Yes give me the gad damn expensive gift and long letter apology, but seriously i think people appreciate honesty and just a genuine apology overall...
oh and i don't undermine people. wtf is that about. that's scorpios and libras. I aint' got time for all that.
You just did ^. o.O
Anyway-- she may have been referring to her own Cancer moon-- I did ask if any of the descriptions were more suited to one's moon sign.
I do agree, though, that a sincere apology is probably the best approach-- and the long letter I have successfully used for a Cancer before.
Idk-- I think it's the effort they appreciate. 🙂
Posted by Montgomery
Scorpio
Aquarius
This is not a very forgiving sign, as they see themselves as somehow being the measure of morality and morality. They are also not a very rational sign. If an Aquarian has decided that you have bad energy, then you are probably not going to be that lucky when it comes to being forgiven. Sometimes an Aquarian will go through the pretense of forgiving you because they feel it is good for their soul and if you can convince them of that and of your own guilt, then you might be let back into his or her life.
I disagree. I believe that forgiveness isn't about the other person. No one naturally wants to forgive. But the reason you're urged to is b/c holding a grudge towards others is just as poisonous to self as it is to others. So deciding not to drink any more poison IS def. very "rational."
If anything, Aquarians hate when the actions of others affect or change them negatively. We hate feeling like we've downgraded as a person or have lost some of our UMPH all b/c of a person. So we actually DO forgive often, not b/c they deserve it or b/c we naturally want to but b/c again, we lose more energy by holding a grudge than not
There is a difference b/w "I don't forgive you & I don't want you back in my life." VS. "I DO forgive you, however, I choose not to take the risk of letting you back in my life b/c I deserve better & would much rather reserve that energy of risk taking to someone who didn't mess up." HUGE DIFFERENCE!!!!!!!!
continued.....We ARE very forgiving. BUT we aren't very willing to let you back into our lives just b/c you said sorry 1 million times. Forgiving someone & letting them back into your life are 2 completely different things!!!!
It's rational to forgive something/someone that is toxic but it is NOT rational to allow re-entry to someone who is toxic.
Society tells people that they oughta take every risk. WRONG. If someone shoots you, are you gonna welcome them back in your home AND give them their gun back? NO. Taking the risk of being hurt when you 1st meet them is courageous but so is NOT taking the risk of being shot again, no matter how much you love them, after they've shot you once.
Forgiveness means no longer giving that person control over an area of you that went black/dead the minute you got betrayed. And the only way to unblock that clogged artery is to forgive them AND limit the amount of rope the betrayer has to potentially hurt you again. A person can't hurt you again if you refuse to allow them re-entry into your life. Not wanting to be hurt again is not a "lack of forgiveness" thing. It's a "I'm smart enough to not cut myself while trying to pick up the broken pieces of glass" thing. Again, HUGE DIFFERENCE!
It's rational to forgive something/someone that is toxic but it is NOT rational to allow re-entry to someone who is toxic.
Society tells people that they oughta take every risk. WRONG. If someone shoots you, are you gonna welcome them back in your home AND give them their gun back? NO. Taking the risk of being hurt when you 1st meet them is courageous but so is NOT taking the risk of being shot again, no matter how much you love them, after they've shot you once.
Forgiveness means no longer giving that person control over an area of you that went black/dead the minute you got betrayed. And the only way to unblock that clogged artery is to forgive them AND limit the amount of rope the betrayer has to potentially hurt you again. A person can't hurt you again if you refuse to allow them re-entry into your life. Not wanting to be hurt again is not a "lack of forgiveness" thing. It's a "I'm smart enough to not cut myself while trying to pick up the broken pieces of glass" thing. Again, HUGE DIFFERENCE!
Posted by capinc
I hate Aquarians because they can't get to the point. They take a short story and turn it into a novel. They truly don't understand people. Most people think because they talk a lot they're 'deep' and 'intelligent.' When the truth is that intelligent people are able to take a compilation of ideas, simplify it so people will actually listen to you and are able to understand.
Good day.
Lol. Just admit it. Say it simply: Windbags.
Posted by krysrenee7
continued.....We ARE very forgiving. BUT we aren't very willing to let you back into our lives just b/c you said sorry 1 million times. Forgiving someone & letting them back into your life are 2 completely different things!!!!
It's rational to forgive something/someone that is toxic but it is NOT rational to allow re-entry to someone who is toxic.
Society tells people that they oughta take every risk. WRONG. If someone shoots you, are you gonna welcome them back in your home AND give them their gun back? NO. Taking the risk of being hurt when you 1st meet them is courageous but so is NOT taking the risk of being shot again, no matter how much you love them, after they've shot you once.
Forgiveness means no longer giving that person control over an area of you that went black/dead the minute you got betrayed. And the only way to unblock that clogged artery is to forgive them AND limit the amount of rope the betrayer has to potentially hurt you again. A person can't hurt you again if you refuse to allow them re-entry into your life. Not wanting to be hurt again is not a "lack of forgiveness" thing. It's a "I'm smart enough to not cut myself while trying to pick up the broken pieces of glass" thing. Again, HUGE DIFFERENCE!
Easy, Trigger-- I didn't write the article. 😉
And I agree-- I posted something similar in the LEO forum.
But consider it from the standpoint presented-- do you identify with any of the descriptions for your other signs (e.g. moon or asc), if someone owed you an apology and wished to be granted "friend" status, once again?
🙂
Posted by capinc
If you're wondering why none of these descriptions fit you it's because it's crap and so are you.
Posted by capinc
I hate Aquarians because they can't get to the point. They take a short story and turn it into a novel. They truly don't understand people. Most people think because they talk a lot they're 'deep' and 'intelligent.' When the truth is that intelligent people are able to take a compilation of ideas, simplify it so people will actually listen to you and are able to understand.
Good day.click to expand
Brevity is the soul of wit, according to Shakespeare.
Brevity is the soul of lingerie, according to Dorothy Parker.
Outright rudeness, on the other hand, has no soul-- it's cheap, requires no intelligence, and unfortunately, is far too easy to come by around here.
From the "crap" OP, oddly enough, that some are taking far too seriously:
Capricorn
If you do have a Goat gossiping about you, there is some redemption in knowing that it often greatly lowers others opinion of him or her and not you.
Posted by capinc
I hate Aquarians because they can't get to the point. They take a short story and turn it into a novel. They truly don't understand people. Most people think because they talk a lot they're 'deep' and 'intelligent.' When the truth is that intelligent people are able to take a compilation of ideas, simplify it so people will actually listen to you and are able to understand.
Good day.
Hate is a very strong word.
Posted by capinc
I hate Aquarians because they can't get to the point. They take a short story and turn it into a novel. They truly don't understand people. Most people think because they talk a lot they're 'deep' and 'intelligent.' When the truth is that intelligent people are able to take a compilation of ideas, simplify it so people will actually listen to you and are able to understand.
Good day.
I guess you missed the memo that intelligent people also DON'T put an entire group of people in 1 category & judge them or stereotype them.
And I guess you hate books & authors (e.i people that write whole paragraphs & pages worth of "their thoughts" b/c they freakin' want to & not b/c your opinion of how many words should be in a sentence matters
Posted by NotYourAverageAquariusPosted by capinc
I hate Aquarians because they can't get to the point. They take a short story and turn it into a novel. They truly don't understand people. Most people think because they talk a lot they're 'deep' and 'intelligent.' When the truth is that intelligent people are able to take a compilation of ideas, simplify it so people will actually listen to you and are able to understand.
Good day.
Hate is a very strong word.click to expand
I agree. Sounds like dude is bitter & needs some counseling. Speak for the 1 or 2 out of 5 million Aquarians that pissed you off & not for the rest of us
THERE. That was short, sweet, simple & to the point, now wasn't it? Now what's your problem? I thought we Aquarians couldn't do that? lol
Posted by krysrenee7
continued.....We ARE very forgiving. BUT we aren't very willing to let you back into our lives just b/c you said sorry 1 million times. Forgiving someone & letting them back into your life are 2 completely different things!!!!
It's rational to forgive something/someone that is toxic but it is NOT rational to allow re-entry to someone who is toxic.
Society tells people that they oughta take every risk. WRONG. If someone shoots you, are you gonna welcome them back in your home AND give them their gun back? NO. Taking the risk of being hurt when you 1st meet them is courageous but so is NOT taking the risk of being shot again, no matter how much you love them, after they've shot you once.
Forgiveness means no longer giving that person control over an area of you that went black/dead the minute you got betrayed. And the only way to unblock that clogged artery is to forgive them AND limit the amount of rope the betrayer has to potentially hurt you again. A person can't hurt you again if you refuse to allow them re-entry into your life. Not wanting to be hurt again is not a "lack of forgiveness" thing. It's a "I'm smart enough to not cut myself while trying to pick up the broken pieces of glass" thing. Again, HUGE DIFFERENCE!
Sold! Very true! I'll forgive, but I'm never re-living the past by allowing that person back in my life!
Posted by NotYourAverageAquariusPosted by capinc
I hate Aquarians because they can't get to the point. They take a short story and turn it into a novel. They truly don't understand people. Most people think because they talk a lot they're 'deep' and 'intelligent.' When the truth is that intelligent people are able to take a compilation of ideas, simplify it so people will actually listen to you and are able to understand.
Good day.
Hate is a very strong word.click to expand
LOL! Yeah! You tell em, NYAA!!
Gems don't fall for "I'm sorry" we see right through the bullshyt. Go try that shit with a Cancer or Pisces! LOL!
Posted by capincPosted by krysrenee7Posted by NotYourAverageAquariusPosted by capinc
I hate Aquarians because they can't get to the point. They take a short story and turn it into a novel. They truly don't understand people. Most people think because they talk a lot they're 'deep' and 'intelligent.' When the truth is that intelligent people are able to take a compilation of ideas, simplify it so people will actually listen to you and are able to understand.
Good day.
Hate is a very strong word.
I agree. Sounds like dude is bitter & needs some counseling. Speak for the 1 or 2 out of 5 million Aquarians that pissed you off & not for the rest of us
THERE. That was short, sweet, simple & to the point, now wasn't it? Now what's your problem? I thought we Aquarians couldn't do that? lol
Yeah I'm bitter.click to expand
Lol you got alot of attention. heehee.
The scorp version makes my left eyelid twitch.
I'd say I mostly identify with the Taurus (moon) and the Sagi (mars...?).
I'd say I mostly identify with the Taurus (moon) and the Sagi (mars...?).
hey eee! where you been?!
OoooooOOooOOoooOoooo... naughty!
how does one get banned??
how does one get banned??
Haha... You're obviously a trouble maker!
I must watch breaking bad! TBH I don't watch a lot of TV, I'm a reader moreso.
Well, nice to have you swanning around again- missed the monkey and geese gifs!
I must watch breaking bad! TBH I don't watch a lot of TV, I'm a reader moreso.
Well, nice to have you swanning around again- missed the monkey and geese gifs!
nice... but awww! poor koala!
will have to watch later eee! not that I'm exactly being productive with a tequila induced hangover, but still, one should appear to be working!!!
absolutely no danger of that today!!! 😆
Posted by everevolvingepithet
LL: Sweet!🙂
Purr: Yes! That was me!😄
Damn I KNEW IT! I just *victory dance in my own head*
Posted by GemStar05
Gems don't fall for "I'm sorry" we see right through the bullshyt. Go try that shit with a Cancer or Pisces! LOL!
You don't need to apologize to gems because they have the memory of a goldfish. If a gem really keeps angry with you (which I have never seen) you can distract it with maybe a bright light or by saying something funny.
The Cancer,Libra, and Cap one is accurate. Hydorah is dead on with the Gemini one as well.
Posted by prettyladii
The Cancer,Libra, and Cap one is accurate. Hydorah is dead on with the Gemini one as well.
Ah, this:
Posted by hydorah
You don't need to apologize to gems because they have the memory of a goldfish. If a gem really keeps angry with you (which I have never seen) you can distract it with maybe a bright light or by saying something funny.click to expand
Well-- definitely by saying something funny.
At least that's how my Gem friend is. 🙂
What's your sign, prettyladii?
(eww that sounded like a 70s pick-up line) 😛
I can't relate to any of those three (Leo Moon, Taurus Rising and Virgo Sun). IME, Virgo Sun is actually very forgiving. I don't even need to hear you say "sorry." If you're genuinely sorry for one thing you did without even saying the magic word, I'd forget about it and we're friends back again ASAP.
What I find weird is that part about Sags. I have a Sag friend WHO HAS NEVER FORGIVEN ME AND HAS ACTUALLY TRIED TO RUIN MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;( ;( ;(
What I find weird is that part about Sags. I have a Sag friend WHO HAS NEVER FORGIVEN ME AND HAS ACTUALLY TRIED TO RUIN MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;( ;( ;(
Posted by firebunny
I can't relate to any of those three (Leo Moon, Taurus Rising and Virgo Sun). IME, Virgo Sun is actually very forgiving. I don't even need to hear you say "sorry." If you're genuinely sorry for one thing you did without even saying the magic word, I'd forget about it and we're friends back again ASAP.
What I find weird is that part about Sags. I have a Sag friend WHO HAS NEVER FORGIVEN ME AND HAS ACTUALLY TRIED TO RUIN MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;( ;( ;(
we always want to equate everything to astrology. they have this_____ so they must be able to forgive. Us who work at home sitting at our computers, doing astrology. or working at the office, when the boss isn't looking doing astrology. lmao
I think of all of these, the rising (Taurus) fits best, because when I read that part about giving them something sentimental to remind them of the two together....my heart melted. No one has EVER done that and if they did, I wouldn't be able to stay mad.
For me though, this is the thing....My feelings are easy to hurt, but I'm NOT easily offended. I understand that I'm internally sensitive so when my feelings are hurt, I deal with that without blaming ANYONE but myself. Now offended is another thing. If someone offends me, I'm probably going to get SO angry that they end up being afraid of me. Most people (even strange men) have apologized to me out of sheer fear of the level of pissed off that I've gotten. I once threatened to stab a strange guy in the neck with a fork in Denny's while he was TRYING to apologize. However, he started the violence. For some reason he popped off about something stupid and looked at me and said, "I"m a gangster disciple, I'll beat your ass". I think he was trying to respond to something snarky my friend said (I was too busy reading the menu and wasn't paying attention), but he pinpointed me out of everyone in the group and threatened me. Big mistake. He almost got stabbed in the jugular.
I had no clue as to what was going on, but once he threatened bodily harm...it was a wrap. I had a chick pop off and do something similar, because I was laughing at something with my friend as her and her transgendered friend walked by. What I said and joked about had NOTHING to do with them. My friend started laughing and she came out of the bathroom livid. I just told her, "I tell you what...I'm going to sit here at this table and anytime you're ready to get that ass beat...just hit me. I'm not even going to get up, but do you". I have this weird way of attracting violent people to me when I'm minding my own damn business.
Basically, in these situations, there's no apology. I won't accept it and I cannot accept it. I'm way to angry and offended to even THINK about a peaceful understanding. Getting in my face and threatening me or someone that I love is a HUGE offense. The other is stealing from me or purposely damaging my property. I just can't even think about forgiving.
For me though, this is the thing....My feelings are easy to hurt, but I'm NOT easily offended. I understand that I'm internally sensitive so when my feelings are hurt, I deal with that without blaming ANYONE but myself. Now offended is another thing. If someone offends me, I'm probably going to get SO angry that they end up being afraid of me. Most people (even strange men) have apologized to me out of sheer fear of the level of pissed off that I've gotten. I once threatened to stab a strange guy in the neck with a fork in Denny's while he was TRYING to apologize. However, he started the violence. For some reason he popped off about something stupid and looked at me and said, "I"m a gangster disciple, I'll beat your ass". I think he was trying to respond to something snarky my friend said (I was too busy reading the menu and wasn't paying attention), but he pinpointed me out of everyone in the group and threatened me. Big mistake. He almost got stabbed in the jugular.
I had no clue as to what was going on, but once he threatened bodily harm...it was a wrap. I had a chick pop off and do something similar, because I was laughing at something with my friend as her and her transgendered friend walked by. What I said and joked about had NOTHING to do with them. My friend started laughing and she came out of the bathroom livid. I just told her, "I tell you what...I'm going to sit here at this table and anytime you're ready to get that ass beat...just hit me. I'm not even going to get up, but do you". I have this weird way of attracting violent people to me when I'm minding my own damn business.
Basically, in these situations, there's no apology. I won't accept it and I cannot accept it. I'm way to angry and offended to even THINK about a peaceful understanding. Getting in my face and threatening me or someone that I love is a HUGE offense. The other is stealing from me or purposely damaging my property. I just can't even think about forgiving.
Posted by KsamCancerSo basically poison you after committing an offense. lol ha ha ha ha ha I wouldn't eat shit that someone who I was at odds with prepared.
Apologize by making me food
i cant relate 😢
True for me and my sister.
My Sag Sun has forgiven her. But my Moon in Pisces feels that her Virgo Sun and Cancer Moon are still stuck in the past. So for me forgiving is currently one thing and seeking the presence of the other one another story.
Interesting:
today the transit Sun is in Virgo opposing my natal Moon. The Moon is in Sag squaring her natal Sun. And it's her birthday.
My Sag Sun has forgiven her. But my Moon in Pisces feels that her Virgo Sun and Cancer Moon are still stuck in the past. So for me forgiving is currently one thing and seeking the presence of the other one another story.
Interesting:
today the transit Sun is in Virgo opposing my natal Moon. The Moon is in Sag squaring her natal Sun. And it's her birthday.
Posted by wecarealot
These don't seem very accurate. I'm an Aries Sun, Libra Moon, Libra Rising. The Aries part of me wouldn't be icy towards someone unless I was COMPLETELY done with them. "Forgives easily" and "icy" don't seem to go together. If anything, it's my Moon Rising in the 1st house that makes me liable to give someone the cold shoulder.
yeah, I do forgive easily, but if I'm done, then you get the ice. And by ice I mean I will deny you ever existed. Usually if I'm cheesed at someone I keep my distance, but I'll never forget what they said or did- I will however let it go.
Heh... yeah, I saw this on the front page and wondered
what on earth I had apologized for, publicly. 😄
But if I am guilty of, not being wrong so much, but hurting
you... esp unintentionally-- I'll apologize.
what on earth I had apologized for, publicly. 😄
But if I am guilty of, not being wrong so much, but hurting
you... esp unintentionally-- I'll apologize.
Posted by beautifuldiasterFor fire signs, I think it would be more accurate to say--Posted by MsTeeq1974This is the opportunity to eat with the person whom has wronged you.... It's almost not even for them, its for you.Posted by KsamCancerSo basically poison you after committing an offense. lol ha ha ha ha ha I wouldn't eat shit that someone who I was at odds with prepared.
Apologize by making me food
Yeah, blah blah forgiveness, Love thy neighbour.
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This is the opportunity to eat the person whom has wronged you...
We'll be more than happy to make him food.
heh
Posted by tiziani:~)
Sorry for the wait.
krysrenee7 hit the nail on the head.
I relate most to the Aquarius and Pisces descriptions.
I relate most to the Aquarius and Pisces descriptions.
I relate most to the sagittarius description, I think. Even though I have basically zero sag in my chart.
Posted by tizianiGot it. 😄Posted by Montgomery😄 just me hot wiring your Pisces Moon
Heh... yeah, I saw this on the front page and wondered
what on earth I had apologized for, publicly. 😄
But if I am guilty of, not being wrong so much, but hurting
you... esp unintentionally-- I'll apologize.
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