I need help with a Scorpio man!!

I've been seeing a scorpio man for almost a year now. I'm an Aqua with scorpio rising. Lately he has been doing the hot and cold push- pull thing and it's driving me crazy.We have great times together but after things have been really good he pulls away and acts uninterested,doesn't call and needs tons of space. I try not to call him but when I do he sounds almost disappointed it's me and it makes me feel like a fool for calling. He tells me I'm his girlfriend and told me he loves me,he even said he thinks I'm his soulmate. usually after not seeing me around for awhile he does come back but i's always after he goes out alone( he used to ask me to come with)I've been triing to handle this by leaving him alone and pulling away myself but is this the right thing to do? He keeps saying he does want to see me but his actions aren't showing it. We both hang out in the same place and I really want to go there but If he is there I don't want him to think I'm chasing him or too availble. What should I do? Last time I saw him we had a fight my fault my feeling were hurt.

Relax. A Scorpio can smells emotional distress a mile away. YOu are trying way too hard to NOT call and to give him space for what? HIM?!
I'm a scorpio female but I can tell you that the harder someone tries and more desperate someone is the more I pull away. I like strength and independence in a person. I want them to stand on their own two feet and I like a little mystery and guessing sometimes. When I figure out a person too fast I get really bored and look else where.
Next time you want to go out go without him. If you run into him aknowledge him but have a good time without obsessing over what he is doing or thinking!!! And really just have a good time. He'll know if you are putting on a show!
Make him come to you. Don't make everything about him. Live your life. Scorpios don't like clingy.

Lol he straight up told you you were his soulmate?
So corny. 🙂

But, cute I guess.


I don't know enough about scorpio men to give any good advice really...but if you've been "seeing" eachother for a year you should probably either be in an established relationship or not.
None of this when it's, you're together when it's convienant for him nonsense. You just need to make it known what you want. Don't play guessing games with him. It's not like you've only known him for a few weeks. By now you should have made some progress. Just my opinion, though.

I fell deeply in love with a scorpio oncd... he hurted me like no other man has ever done. He told me the same thing and wanted to marry me right away. It was intense for the first three months. This went bad but honestly I think scorpios seek deep connections, they want everything from you but when they get it they are not so sure they really wanted it to start with. It takes a lot of maturing and growing up for a scorpio to really commit to a relationship. I honestly would not go back to him because if he really wanted you he would keep you around. Scorpios are very high maintnance but they also are willing to do a lot for you if they are really into you...sounds like your scropio doesnt know what he wants just yet. I would not waste my time with him. I think this will be a never ending circle until he grows up. But thats from someone who is not a scorpio 🙂