Is it common for a Venus in Virgo to want to be friends first? even after saying they have feelings?

i just asked a venus in virgo man, if he has feelings for me, because i have feelings for him and we been talking for 5 months now.

but due to living 8 hours apart we dont see each other as much as we want to and us both being tight on money doesn't help the situation.

Is it common for a Venus in Virgo to want to be friends first? even after saying they have feelings?

Also if they have feelings for someone and admit it, is it for good? or are they like pisces and fall for 25235 people lol.

once our financial situation changes we will be seeing each other weekly lol. but right now its a barrier 😢

especially when i live in Canada and his in the states

Posted by TurquoiseArrow
those virgo guys are in every multiple womens pants

...a side from that, believe what the virgo tells you untill you have evidence proving otherwise or you will be cooked for dinner. virgo stew

he said he has no other person in his life... and i believe him

thank you all for the replys, it really helped me understand how he thinks.

yesterday we spoke and both admitted to each other that we have feelings towards eachother.

but he "would just like to stay friends" which threw me off...why would you just want to be friends when you have feelings for me and i have feelings for you?

he said the 8 hours drive distance between us is hard and due to our financial situation its "unrealistic to workout, and dont want to lose me because of it" which is understandable.

Does this mean i need to focus on increasing my income to make it happen and in the mean time get closer to him without the labels?

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Posted by simsim88
thank you all for the replys, it really helped me understand how he thinks.

yesterday we spoke and both admitted to each other that we have feelings towards eachother.

but he "would just like to stay friends" which threw me off...why would you just want to be friends when you have feelings for me and i have feelings for you?

he said the 8 hours drive distance between us is hard and due to our financial situation its "unrealistic to workout, and dont want to lose me because of it" which is understandable.

Does this mean i need to focus on increasing my income to make it happen and in the mean time get closer to him without the labels?

This is exactly the situation I was in he thought our future was futile because he was in a different country and I agree. He also wanted to remain friends I refused, haven't stayed in touch. I personally don't think you should sacrifice your needs and wants for a title. That's just me. He should be willing to compromise with you as well.

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yah we stayed in touch texting here and there and it was ok.

its till he came for a visit and i saw him again, shit got confusing.

im debating on cutting him off.

i really really like him and i know he likes me, its why its so hard but at end of the day i deserve someone who is willing to take a leap of faith for me.