Is It Over With This Sadge?

I just want to know from the Sadges or those with experience with sadges. We have had this power struggle back and forth disagreements forever. But such passion, what I believed was love (and so he lead me to believe). Though I had SERIOUS problems with some of his family situations, his loudness( a notorious sag characteristic I cannot stand, "yelling" or rather loud talking for no reason which comes across as yelling). And we both being fire signs there was ALOT of intensity, passion etc. But I had to question his love alot because of how he responded to things. Well usually I can tell he misses me after each dispute/blow up, this time it seems like he is unaffected. He always says it stops with me and loves me insanely and knows I am the one for him. But right now he is being cold. Our last blow up I got really upset and hit him. I can't tell if he is trying to capitalize on acting like this situation was "my fault" and trying to ride out till I come to him as he always comes to me or if he really doesnt want to do this anymore. Truly, I SHOULDNT WANT TO do it anymore. And I do not feel at all that the blow out was my fault. I am just curious if any of you have an inkling of what his mindset may be at the moment. Its been a little over a week. Any feedback is welcome