Libra and taurus good idea or no? Venusian pair

I'm a taurus girl crushing on a libra I don't have much experience with libras I know we are both ruled by venus. Anyone have any experiences about this pairing?



Him:
Sun-Libra
Moon-Cancer
mercury-libra
Venus-Scorpio
Mars-Cap

Me:
Sun-taurus
Moon-aqua
Mercury-taurus
Venus-aries
Mars-Pisces

@OP- Hey there I don't really know about Libra. But It has to be compatible with my Moon, Venus, and Rising if I want to look for that in someone specifically. But IMO I just want to find an honest decent person, and it is sooo hard to do that... I hardly meet LIbra though. I had a coworker Libra male tell me he had a wife and newborn and even told me the coworkers he's messed around with here. And they have been married awhile, so for him to tell me that caused a liitle doubt...

Yes but again only aspects matter. And probably the most important ones are aspects to rising and midheaven. So you NEED to know time of birth.

I am a Libra with a Cancer moon state what you want but don't ever be pushy. I cant stand pushiness and I encounter that a lot with Taurus. But always be yourself.

My only problem with Taurus is the stubbornness. I'm afraid the Aqua Moon would add to that..

What are you like in a relationship? Idk much about Aries Venus but the thought of it makes me nervous and a Pisces Mars..

Your dude and I share the same placements except moon.

Yeah double fixed signs not good but willing to adjust when it seems right..

Just an observation.. you two have a double square thing goin' on between your Moons and Venus'. My husband and I have a square between my moon and his venus and an opposition between his moon and my venus. We have challenges but we work through them and keep growing stronger.

You might want to google: "synastry moon venus square" and think about what you find. I'm not saying it's a rude red flag.. just that some challenges aren't everyone's cup of tea.

"Double square thing goin' on" is not correct terminology, lol, for the record. Maybe someone else can tell you the correct wording for it. And the degrees may not exactly add up to squares but the signs are square anyways.

*huge red flag, not -rude red flag. lol

Honestly, when I look at your placements I suspect you might find someone with my placement... and adding a Cancer Moon in the mix, sheesh.. you might find us too complicated.

Posted by duchesslibro
My only problem with Taurus is the stubbornness. I'm afraid the Aqua Moon would add to that..

What are you like in a relationship? Idk much about Aries Venus but the thought of it makes me nervous and a Pisces Mars..

Your dude and I share the same placements except moon.

LOL I can be very stubborn sometimes I think my mars Pisces makes me somewhat adjustable tho when I feel like I rather just agree then continue the conflict but if I choose to be stubborn I can be and there no moving me. But in relationships I'm not as bad my mars in Pisces makes me more of a people pleaser. And venus in aries we rly are fire! Lol my passions burn hit I can be a bit aggressive and blunt I love excutment and activities I'm playful and a bit sarcastic but I fall hard sometimes my flame will burn out quickly but only if they start to bore me or piss me off. Keep me active laughing having fun and lots of sex and I'm ours....what type of women do u usually like? And how do u usually court them

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yeah double fixed signs not good but willing to adjust when it seems right..

Exactly! My aqua moo. I think makes me logical and fair I try and see the other point of view but if it doesn't makes sense to me then yes I'm stuck in my stubborn

Posted by duchesslibro
Honestly, when I look at your placements I suspect you might find someone with my placement... and adding a Cancer Moon in the mix, sheesh.. you might find us too complicated.

Well that might not be a completely bad thing I'm a bit complicated myself plus my venus in aries likes a challenge so I'm not afraid of conflict or having to work things out the most important thing is are you fun and do u love se. As much as I do lol those to things will keep me around lol

@TaurusCap323 Before I continue I just have to know.. you asked what type of women do I like and how do I court them.... Are you assuming I'm a man or a lesbian or bi? I'm so curious.

"my flame will burn out quickly but only if they start to bore me or piss me off."

This right here makes me super nervous for your guy. It can take a very long time for a person with his placements to really open up and let you truly get to know him. And you might be bored by then and long gone. And then he will be left hurting and loving you for way too long after you're gone. Don't let these words blow up your ego please..

Posted by duchesslibro
@TaurusCap323 Before I continue I just have to know.. you asked what type of women do I like and how do I court them.... Are you assuming I'm a man or a lesbian or bi? I'm so curious.

LOL so sry I honestly wasn't even paying attention didn't even realize you were a girl my apologizes

Posted by duchesslibro
"my flame will burn out quickly but only if they start to bore me or piss me off."

This right here makes me super nervous for your guy. It can take a very long time for a person with his placements to really open up and let you truly get to know him. And you might be bored by then and long gone. And then he will be left hurting and loving you for way too long after you're gone. Don't let these words blow up your ego please..

Yea I mean as long as we are having fun together and great sex I won't mind at all. I've actually been wanting to date someone with venus in Scorpio because I think I'd rly enjoy the intensity. Are libras kind of distance? I feel like though text he's a man of few words and today he hasn't texted me at long last time we spoke I asked him when will I get to see him again he responded soon very soon and that was it! I'm rly attentive especially in the beginning my venus in aries in kind of like a kid with a new toy I just wanna play with you right away lol very impatient and impulsive

Posted by TaurusCap323

Posted by duchesslibro
"my flame will burn out quickly but only if they start to bore me or piss me off."

This right here makes me super nervous for your guy. It can take a very long time for a person with his placements to really open up and let you truly get to know him. And you might be bored by then and long gone. And then he will be left hurting and loving you for way too long after you're gone. Don't let these words blow up your ego please..

Yea I mean as long as we are having fun together and great sex I won't mind at all. I've actually been wanting to date someone with venus in Scorpio because I think I'd rly enjoy the intensity. Are libras kind of distance? I feel like though text he's a man of few words and today he hasn't texted me at long last time we spoke I asked him when will I get to see him again he responded soon very soon and that was it! I'm rly attentive especially in the beginning my venus in aries in kind of like a kid with a new toy I just wanna play with you right away lol very impatient and impulsive

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I have venus in scorpio and it is really intense for relationships. Just learned what it entails recently. If he is a mature person who understands what he wants then you will be in for someone who will love you like no other. Only thing I see is that you may just be into it for an experience. If the intensity and maturity is there he may be very hurt if you decide you cant handle the type of passion he brings or you grow bored of it. I have never met a taurus girl that caught my eye, I usually fall for aries, caps and cancers.

He probably knows that you are impatient and uses the brief messages as ways of seducing you. Make you want him even more, he likes being chased. Its his way of pursuing you. Im sure you feel like you are the one making all the moves? its what he isnt saying that has you the most intrigued? You see the fancy wrapper and you want to tear at it, but its just out of reach? You will get it, and Im sure it will be on "your" terms lol

All i'm going to say is that both idolize beauty and like the finer things in life. he might think you can be stubborn or you might think he's too jealous and way too much at times or even both. I'm a libra and my guy was a taurus and we had ups and downs and my best advice is if there's a will then there's a way.

GOOD LUCK BY THE WAY !!!!!

Yea I mean idk that I'm looking for a relationship but never know what could happen I'm a lover at the end of the day and if I found someone that fulfilled me I wouldn't let that go. He's 29 has a great career seems really mature and well rounded from what I can see. The brief messages are def intriguing me leaving me wanting more but hopefully he doesn't play to hard because I will take that as disinterest. I'm aggressive my nature and don't mind chase but because that has failed me a lot ima trying to learn nit to do that as much so I will leave him alone if I feel he's not that into me to make more of an effort. I've only seen him once the night we met and he was very aggressive and affectionate so his passive texting habit has surprised me and thrown me off a bit

Posted by TaurusCap323

Yea I mean idk that I'm looking for a relationship but never know what could happen I'm a lover at the end of the day and if I found someone that fulfilled me I wouldn't let that go. He's 29 has a great career seems really mature and well rounded from what I can see. The brief messages are def intriguing me leaving me wanting more but hopefully he doesn't play to hard because I will take that as disinterest. I'm aggressive my nature and don't mind chase but because that has failed me a lot ima trying to learn nit to do that as much so I will leave him alone if I feel he's not that into me to make more of an effort. I've only seen him once the night we met and he was very aggressive and affectionate so his passive texting habit has surprised me and thrown me off a bit

im just going by my own experiences. H e may be totally different from me. I know that I only look for something serious. Just be prepared it will be a whirlwind event if he is anything like me... good luck!

"Only thing I see is that you may just be into it for an experience. If the intensity and maturity is there he may be very hurt if you decide you cant handle the type of passion he brings or you grow bored of it."

Yeah 😢

I think Venus Scorpios, especially Libra Sun ones play for keeps always. I feel better for your guy knowing he's 29, maybe he's already been through bad relationships etc and learned lessons, who knows.

@TaurusCap323 Whats the Cap in your name? Capricorn Rising?

Don't do it! I married a taurus with the same placements and I am a libra with those placements... I am the female however. He chased me... I can't even explain how he chased me. When friends told him I was "too pretty" or "too smart" it only made him want me more. He loved the chase. I gave him a chance and he broke my heart. That Taurus decided after we got married (and before that but even MORE after) that I all of a sudden would change who I am for him (lasted less than 3 years married) 😢 and when I didn't (we are both stubborn) he decided to cheat on me. He denies it, but he was caught.

Let me explain: I, as a Libra, love adventure and to be silly and have fun. That's where we got along. BUT I'm social, I talk to a lot of people, have many friends, and he wanted to control that. He decided my friends were not like him and that led to him not wanting me to be around them. Of course he didn't show it to them, but behind closed doors, I didn't hear the end of it. I had to stop talking to friends and do things his way. I had dinner on the table, even when I was tired, but if the house was not clean afterwards I would hear about it during an argument 10 days later (of course it was clean by then) when he needed something to be upset with me about because I was upset with his stubbornness. He brought up old things ALL THE TIME.

We were together for 15 years though, got together very young. Many times he thought I cheated with friends or would accuse me because I had friends who cared about me. He tried to tell me he doesn't understand why I'm there for so many but don't get much in return. However, my Scorpio Venus allows me to love hard. I would have never cheated on him. Seriously, it just would never happen. He didn't understand that I was independent, sometimes distant because I needed space, and very social. All those things hurt him, he didn't like it. Our relationship was INTENSE in the bedroom though until he cheated... Then I got the "I'm too tired and going to sleep." (When it was super early.) I forgave him for that one... I confronted him and we discussed it, I stayed. Many Libras do, as do Tauruses. Then when I got the "I'm not sleepy, I want to stay up." (and I'd find him in another women's house down the street.) I gave up. I left. He called that a betrayal and said everything he did after (abused me and cheated) was revenge for leaving him. We are both very stubborn. When I say that I mean it, it will cause conflict. A Taurus and a Libra should not be together. Especially with a Scorpio and Aries Venus. They won't know how to leave each other because the bedroom experience and the love shared will be so intense. But you're just two different people and you won't realize it until it's too late. He liked to be at home all the time doing things his way. He cheated with a Pisces, who was always home and stayed up all night with him. I went on to find an adventurous, affectionate Sag with a Capricorn Venus, it's heaven.

The two Venus' are trouble. Nope nope nope.

Posted by TauroMale
No.

Libra is too superficial and unloyal for Taurus

That's not how astrology works.

oh boo you guys! it can work!

me
sun - libra
moon - sagg
venus - scorp
mars - libra
merc - virgo

him
sun - taurus
moon - sagg
venus - taurus
mars - cancer
merc - gemini

we get along great!

Posted by jeane
oh boo you guys! it can work!

me
sun - liba
moon - sagg
venus - scorp
mars - libra
merc - virgo

him
sun - taurus
moon - sagg
venus - taurus
mars - cancer
merc - gemini

we get along great!

Dude. Is this you ex husband synastry? lol

ex husband? no....current bf and bff. 😉

Posted by jeane
ex husband? no....current bf and bff. 😉

Oh awesome! Good for you! My highschool bf was a Taurus Sun with an awful Venus (for ViS compatibility) but my husband now has a Taurus Moon. Two of my ex's had Taurus Venus.

Libra/Taurus is lovely together but it's hit or miss.

Posted by duchesslibro

Posted by jeane
ex husband? no....current bf and bff. 😉

Oh awesome! Good for you! My highschool bf was a Taurus Sun with an awful Venus (for ViS compatibility) but my husband now has a Taurus Moon. Two of my ex's had Taurus Venus.

Libra/Taurus is lovely together but it's hit or miss.

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thanks 🙂

agreed. i think it depends how much you both want it to work. we had a couple false starts early on which looking back, i could have understood either one of us if we said "too hard".

Posted by duchesslibro

Posted by jeane
ex husband? no....current bf and bff. 😉

Oh awesome! Good for you! My highschool bf was a Taurus Sun with an awful Venus (for ViS compatibility) but my husband now has a Taurus Moon. Two of my ex's had Taurus Venus.

Libra/Taurus is lovely together but it's hit or miss.

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when you say ex husband...jesus, does it look that bad?!?! 😆

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Posted by jeane
ex husband? no....current bf and bff. 😉

Oh awesome! Good for you! My highschool bf was a Taurus Sun with an awful Venus (for ViS compatibility) but my husband now has a Taurus Moon. Two of my ex's had Taurus Venus.

Libra/Taurus is lovely together but it's hit or miss.

when you say ex husband...jesus, does it look that bad?!?! 😆

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No no! I didn't even analyze it at all!! I just today read that you have an awful Taurus ex and was wondering if you were being funny. lol

haha, oh no, not me!

i have and had only the one bull and he is a delight.

Posted by jeane
haha, oh no, not me!

i have and had only the one bull and he is a delight.

Geez, who am I thinking of..? lol My 12th house Mercury is NOT to be trusted with details. Hahaha. I think I'll give up my aspirations to a career in accounting now.. lol

don't worry, i do it all the time. lol

none of you people are real anyway...😉

Just had a better look at your placements @jeane. Really looks lovely!! Woohoo!

Posted by duchesslibro
Just had a better look at your placements @jeane. Really looks lovely!! Woohoo!

thank you. so far so good! (we'll probably break up tomorrow now...lol)

Came here to pipe in that I'm a Libra and I adore Taurus (friends and lovers, truth be told I prefer earth signs over air and fire any day lol). They are loyal for life but once they're done with you, it's done, like you never met. I think the Venusian pair can work!

I like Libra women you guys are cool peeps and you guys are one of the few I have in my circle.