Libra Sun/Scorpio Moon

Hello everyone! Glad I found these boards! This is really long, hope you all don't mind. I was wondering if any of you are a mixture of Libra and Scorpio? My boyfriend is a Libra with a Scorpio moon and does not seem the typical Libra AT ALL to me! I read the Libra article that Freebird posted for lostlilgirl75 and it had a LOT of really good info.

This part here really struck me as true:
"Still, I must warn you that once you're caught and en_meshed in the Libran charm, it won't be easy to break away. Trying to escape from a bear trap is a cinch, com_pared to liberating yourself from a Libran man. If you try to run, he'll persuade you to stay with such logical, intelli_gent arguments you couldn't hope to top them unless you graduated from Harvard Law School. In addition to using his unmatched reasoning powers on you, he'll turn so sweet and gentle you'll forget the frustrating inconsistencies of his nature that upset you before. Then he'll smile at you and something will happen inside. Your heart will turn over."
My guy kept after me for 2 years before I decided to finally go out with him seriously. He would even continue calling me when I had a boyfriend, would tell me that if I ever fell out of love with BF to call him haha. VERY persistant.

First off I want to let you all know I am a Capricorn with a Scorpio moon (which matches HIS Scorp moon - I guess is a good thing?)
This past weekend we had an awful weekend when we were away on a trip. Our first fight and we almost broke up. He ignored me most of the weekend and it turns out one of his friends told him I had called the friend "a 3rd wheel." when I found out he was supposed to share a hotel room with us. I DID not say that and had no idea why my guy was ignoring me. He was so cold towards me it was almost painful. The last night we were partying a bit and I was laughing and joking with his friends and when we got back to the hotal he was LIVID and said he didn't want to be with a flirt and other things that weren't too nice. So I yelled at him and cried as I was very hurt with being ignored and all that. We slept in separate beds, next morning I handed him his apt. keys he had given me and I think he was shocked. I just figured we were through from some of the things he had said. As I was packing my bag I said to him, "Do you still want to be freinds?" and then I he said, "It's up to you...that's fine if you want to be friends...or we can try to work this out." Well I was shocked because I really thought it was over! So I went over to him and sat down and took his hand in mine and said, "You know how much I care about you. I would like to work this out." So things were better after that though we didn't really talk much about what had happened. Only I asked him if I should speak to his friend and he said that he would.

So is that what I should expect from now on? If we fight...and if I try to break away...he'll try and hold on? I really thought we were through so it shocked me that we made up. Maybe it's been so long since I've been in a relationship that was serious I've forgotten about having fights— 🙂

Another thing, he's told me he loves me...On the PHone! Also, he's so painfully shy and worried about what people think of him/us. Do you think he'll ever tell me he loves me in person? Also I'm hoping the Scorpio thing makes him a bit more "deep" and "emotional." I've never seen him flirt either.

Anyone got any thoughts?
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Oh yea a picies can set a pretty good bear trap as well let me tell you. But wow a Libra with a scorpio moon, he must be hard to read sometimes. I am Libra, my sister is Scorpio and I am having a hard time imagining the two signs mixed like that, as we were so different. Yes couples do fight believe me, and try to remember that old saying we only hurt the ones we love. I think thats because we expect the person to love us enough to understand that we are not perfect. And to try to understand some of our short commings and forgive us. Think about it we would never do to a friend, or stranger some of the things we do to the one we profess our love for. I wonder if that is because we expect so much more from that person in so many ways. any other takes on that?

I have been through shorter 12 step programs than this post.

well if its programs(plural), then maybe u need one longer one.

Yah, I know I was blabbering on, 😛 sorry. Thanks for your thoughts twinflame, my boyfriend and I had a good long talk this past weekend and everything's good. We worked some stuff out and even though he's shy about stating his feelings he certainly SHOWS me how he feels. Yes, he's very hard to read and yes I have too many expectations! But I'm not going to expect him to be perfect. Both of us are mature (in our early 40's) and we want to make it work.